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okay say i like this guy/girl and she/he just broke up with her/his boyfreind/girlfreind so im trying to help him/her and she/he says i really helped her/him out now the question is do u think it would be good or bad idea to ask her/him out right after he/she broke up with her/his boyfreind/girlfreind P.S i kinda don't want anyone to no who i am cuase i no u ............kim (link)
well.. now it's bean like a month since i got this so... lol sorry....i would say go for it, but is your gut says not to then don't!!!!

im me.... ok?

lol


ok so im not really in anything that i can meet any new guys besides whos in my class...and i (dont like them that way, if ya kno what i mean ) lol but how can i meet some and get to know some betteR?? if u know that would realyl help!
Thanks (link)
You can join a club or a sport thats co-ed but other wise you can get to know somebody alot better and you probably will begin to like them.


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okay...i heard this guy likes me and he's really cute and i want to go out with him but it feels weird...do you have any idea why it would be like that?
12/f (link)
Well personally I think 12 is way too young to date anybody butt thats my opinion. So you can just hang out as friends till your like 13 or somthin but check with you parents to see when you can date you don't even have to tell them the situation you are in.




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I really don't know where to put this.

I was just downstairs doing my homework, and I yawned. It felt like something popped and then my tongue and the outside of my neck/jaw began to hurt. It is physically painful to move my head backwards (like to look up at the sky) because it pulls on my neck and tongue and I don't know what I did...

Maybe I just pulled a muscle? Please help...it is also painful to swallow, although bearable. It feels almost like the kind of cramp you get in your foot when you flex it and then it 'catches' and continues to flex by itself. (link)
i'm not a doctor or anything but you got to go get that checked out hunn! other wise just ice it!

Hope I helped!


ok i need help yesterday 4/14/05 i was baby sitting my best friends little 4 year old brother because she went on vacation and we were playing hide and seek in my woods and after a few minets i could not finde him then i herd him scream!! i finally found him crying and screming on the ground a stick got poked rite in his eye im not sure how far back it got i pulled it out but half of the stick broke off into his eye he is getting very sick and i can't get any thing done with out his parents permission and they don't even kno their coming back on 4/19/05 in 5 day and i don't kno wut to do HELP ME PLEAS!!! (link)
Call their cell phone!!!!!!
And I don't think they will be angy iff you call 911 cuz their kid's life could be in danger!!!!!
Think logicaly... If it was your kid what would you want the baby-sitter to do. Or better yet ask your parents.

Hope it helped!!!
Please tell me if you did this!
I am truly concerned!


OK so theres this guy and I think hes really cute and stuff but i barely see him...i only see him at games...IF he goes.. :/ What should i do...try to make it work?? or look for someone else...(u kno wht i mean)

thanks! (link)
Well, it depends. Does he talk to you? Look at you? or are you just a by-stander? If you answere no to all these questions except for the last one, then you can try and talk to him first. But if you talk to him (other than "Hey") then you can ask him what he thinks about being together. You can just be like," I was just wondering, cuz my friends said we would make a good couple, can you see us together?" I f he says yes, great. If he says, no, cool. There are a whole bunch of dudes in the world!!!!

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I just started cheerleading this year and it was really hard for me to do anything, like tumbling or stunting, because I have like no upper body strength. This is mostly because of my wrists, they're weak and crack a lot. I did gymnastics about a year ago but it made my wrists worse. What I want to know is, is there anyway for me to build up some arm strength so I can start doing gymnastics again? (link)
I used to be the same way. See I have been in cheerleading for 5 years now, so these things may help you:
1) Tape your wrists or wear an ace bandage.
2) Do push ups
3) Practice lifting the person your basing or lift waits

Hope I helped! If you need any more cheer andvice just tell me!


ok....this guy always flirts with me but i dont know if he likes me....how can i find out without actually asking him? (link)
Well, if you know any of his friends or sit next to them in one of your classes, then try and ask them. Or ask the girl in class who knows about who likes who. We all have one of those in our class! lol!

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where is the best place to buy a fancy dress not formal or semi formal casual-fancy (link)
Well, you can try this store called "Peaches". Its in the mall by Oak Lawn,IL. and they have the best dresses. Or try Marshall Feilds or like JC Pennies. My cuz needed a formal but like casual dress and she went to Feilds and got this to die for dress! And it was like $40!So try these places I recomend them!!

Hope I helped!!


Hi i'm a 6th grader an i need advice.. cuz i like this really hottie in my class but he likes a 7th grader and i thought he liked me but he doesn't! wht should i do!!?!?!?

p.s. i need SERIOUS HELP! (link)
Well, what you can do like if you have a school dance ask him to dance. Like today, I had a Christmas dance and i danced with 5 people, and I asked them! Just be confident, and ask him! He may just like you and that whole thing about the 7th grader might just be a rumor!


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hey.. i wrote to you before.. im in 7th grade, my name is suzie and i was the one who said something about liking a 6th grader... i got to Hilda walker school in frankfort and i was wondering why you called the kid i sed was hot frank did you just come up with a random name? j/w thanx (link)
Yeah I was reading my friends profile and she was talking about her cat, Frank.

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hey! im in 7th grade and i have a boyfriend.. i like him a lot and i want to kiss him but then theres this really hott kid in 6th grade but i dont think he even knows i exist? what am i supposed to do when i have a bf that i like but theres a cuter kid who doesnt even kno me? (link)
Well if you really like your bf and you really wanna kiss him I say go for it! But if you really like this guy in 6th grade lets just call him Frank, well ask a 6th grader you do know to get your name around him. Then just get up the nerve to go up to him and tell you think hes hot!
If he laughs at you or then makes fun of you then he wasn't worth it. Altho if you kiss your bf and don't see fireworks or anything then you can deffinatly just go up to "Frank" and tell him. If he thinks the same then good for you! But if he doesn't then to bad for him . He won't know what he's missin! If you want to wear your hair really cute the day you tell him. It just may help. Ohh and remember just be yourself, be confident, and go for it!Hopr he likes you to!
If not then I hope you see fireworks with your bf! Just send me a question if you have any more!

Hope I helped you!


ok what do i do if i gota cousin who wants to play in the snow when its only at a depth of about 1 inch?? im really confused on what i should SAY to her when i SEE her!!
Please Help i REALLY need it!! (link)
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ok so my friends (if youd call them that) think they never to anything wrong and they think they can take advantage of me left and right! so when i try to ignore them they think im just having a bad day and supposively "can never be mad at them" because they are wayyy too involved with their "perfect little selves" can u help me?? should i stay away from them totally?? bc i have other friends or what should i do?? (link)
First of all, they are not friends. They will probably use you until they figure that they don't need you, then they will probably kick you to the curb! So I would just leave them or if you don't wan't to do that then let them know how you feel about them. Otherwise just go with your other gals!

Hope I helped!


okay so there is this guy that I know and he happens to be my friend's cousin and I think I might like him. What should I do if my friend is a little freaked out by this whole thing? And do you have any advice on how to talk to him without making a fool out of myself?
Thanks in Advance! (link)
Well if you really like him and hes nice and not a jerk or anything then go for it! If you friend has a problem with that then ask her why, and if its just uncomfortable for her then try to make it easyer for her.If its just that shes jealous or somthing than shes not a true friend. I hope I helped you!


Last year at camp, there was this guy who's a little over a year younger than me that really really liked me and I guess I gave him the impression that I liked him as a friend. See, I was like the only one that was actually nice to him, and most people think he is reallyreally annoying, and so do I, but I didn't say it to his face. He was like in love with me or something and it drove me crazy how he was always following me around and stuff. Stupidly, before I knew he liked me, when he was collecting screen names, I gave him mine. When I found out he liked me, I figured he'd get over it during the school year and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I was really annoyed by his having to always hang around me, but turns out he was depressed and on meds and I didn't wanna ruin his life by telling him he drove me crazy. So when he brought up the topic of us going out, I told him I only liked him as a friend. He said that was better than nothing, and with the impression that I wanted to be his friend, (I suppose that impression was my fault) kept latching onto me and following me. The rest of that week at camp basically sucked but I figured he'd get over me. When I got back home, he of course kept IMing me. I figured he'd stop in a couple months. I didn't want to tell him I didn't really want to have anything to do with him, again, because of the depression thing. So I talked to him, and I really did give him a chance then, and I also did at first at camp, and I then knew for sure, for a fact, that I'd never like him and I really didn't want to talk to him. Howeverhe insisted I meet him at the mall on his birthday. I said I would, and decided after that, I would act like everything was alright, and we were friends, and then block him and claim that I lost IM in the middle of November if I saw him at camp. I've now followed through with the blocking him. But there is a very good chance that we will end up at the same camp session next year, and even though I no longer have to talk to him during the year, at camp he's going to assume we're best friends again. I don't want to hang with him AT ALL it's one of the few things I will not do to myself. But I can't really tell him that either because he's depressed and who knows what would happen. And I really have given him a chance, he's just not my type, and I feel bad for him because he's not ANYONES type. So I'd feel really guilty even if he WASN'T depressed. Please please reply. I have no clue what to do. I have asked so many people for advice, including a camp counselor whos a psychology major and always has a solution, and even she was stumped. If you can come up with anything please let me know. I also cannot just skip camp because it is the one part of the year I really look forward to and it's the best part of my life, but with him stalking me, it's not. (link)
I would probably just say in a polight way " You really need to back off a little bit because I need my personal space" but in a nicer way.




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