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Hey K 2 the T! I luv you sooooo much!!
We gonna have so much fun this summer... In the pool, on the tramp, ddr, kareoke(specially when gram does it!!!)I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
luv ya,
Kimmy (link)
AWWW!! i love you toooo!!


my friend is a jerk
i dont like her
but she thinks i do
actually im not her friend. she just thinks i am
i really dont like her
she is mean crude and annoying
what should i do without hurting her feelings, even tho she deserves it?

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WEll im going through the SAME exact thing. With a few people and they annoy me SO much! They always think theyre batter than me and ugh! but nevermind about me! Just find a new group of friends and you'll be better off.


YO CUZ! (link)
WuTs uP??


okay wow.. im kinda uncomfortable doing this but i just neeed h-e-l-p..
but here it goes..

i have this REALLLY good friend..and her cousin is sooo fine! and he is reallly reallly nice too! he has an awesome personality..
so i just asked her like, a couple questions about him and now she thinks im stalkin him which i am not and i dont want to go out with him.. because things would be weird.. what do u think i should do??
please rite back soon
- completely lost. (link)
OMG! the EXACT and i mean exact same thing happened to me. lol Except ive only really talked to him like once...so i dont REALLY like him but hes nice. And my friend doesnt want anything to do with it. But if you really like him and feel you would be good for each other then go for it!! If shes really your friend she would be happy for you, and if shes not ewll im not sure the exact reason but you should be able to do what you feel is good for you!
So I guess what im trying to say is follow your heart and youll be led in the direction right for you. And if things dont work out then he wasnt the right one for you. And dont worry the right guy will come along someday!!:)
Hope I Helped!!
Good Luck!


Hey ummm ya i got a boyfriend who i love more than ever that my friends hate!But the thin is that there is this other guy who I have known since i was 5 and have always been close friends with told me he always checks me out and says he likes me! Idk what to do because thogh i would pick my boyfriend over any guy in the world i am startin to lik my friend that i have known for almost forever! please help i dont know what to do!
LOVE YOU\
-NEED HELP FAST- (link)
Well first of all calm down..everything is going to be okay.:) If you really love your boyfriend and dont want to let him go then don't. If you know youll regret leaving your boyfriend then whats the point in putting yourself through that? But if you have any doubt in your mind that your boyfriend isnt exactly what you want and you feel that your long time friend is...then go with your instinct. Do what you believe is right. But if you do choose your friend over your boyfriend and it doesnt turn out as you had hoped..then you are going to feel really bad and wish you hadnt done what you did. So if you really love your boyfriend and dont want to give him up, and feel you cant live without him...then dont leave him.
Hope I Helped~
Good Luck with everything...I hope it turns out as you want it to! :)


our girls A team beat Germaine in the championship for the south suburbaN league less than a week ago...they play Germaine again in the south side catholic league championship...should i point and laugh in ashley stazacks face when CAJ EMBARASSES GERMAINE AGAIN...PLEASE HELP!!-CUZ (link)
LOL if you want to..


i smoke and it is really hard to stop!! i wanna quit so bad but it is so tempting to have a cigarette!! how can i fight the cravings!! PLEASE HELP!! (link)
WEll since you already kno that you want to stop..theres even more motivation for you to quit. Besides the fact that im sure a bunch of your friends want you to stop. But instead of picking up a cigarette..pick up a piece of gum or just completely take your mind off of it and do something that makes you feel good. Eventually when you suceed in quiting youll be really proud of yourself and the others around you will be proud of you as well~!

Hope I helped!


im tryin to lose weight soo bad! it is so hard not to eat the junk tho!!...how can i lose weight and fight the cravings of junk food??!?!? please help...--"fatty" (link)
WEll first of all, dont think of yourself as "fat". You just look different than other people. Who says that the people you compare yourself to arent just too skinny?? But as far as the junk food...instead of reaching for a bag of chips, reach for an apple. Or sometimes, depending on the reason you eat junk food, (boredom, nothing to do or just because you're used to it), try chewing a piece of gum...sometimes when im hungry, i chew on a piece of gum and it seems to make me forget about being hungry. Or when you go out somewhere with your friends, mayb try not to ordering that ice cream that theyre getting or that cheese fry that your friends ((HAVE)) to have. Eventually youll see that living without as much junkfood isnt soo bad. Youll be happier with the way you look and feel about yourself!
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i smoke and it is so hard to stop! it is so tempting to have a cigarette when it is there!! how can i help stop the cravings!? please help??!?!?!? (link)
WEll, i guess you can kinda compare this to a diet. like if u c sumthing and u kno u have to resist it...it usually works bc u remember that in the end after all the tough times that u have to resist what u like...in the en dit pays off...u eventually get what you want out of it!!

IDK if itll work for u specifically but i definetly suggest you try it and c if it works!!

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How do you get a guy to like you when you are the new girl in new school. (link)
Well you can always try to strike up a conversation with him. Maybe ask if he knows one of your friends and if they always acted like they do now and get farther into a conversation from there. Or, look into what sports he plays. Try to talk to him about that, such as "O whats your high score?" or " how long have you been playing?" something like that, depending on the sport. Even if the first time you talk to him he doesnt, well, "catch on", just try to find oppurtunities to talk to him and really get to know him.
Hope I helped!!
Good Luck!!


How do u get rid of stage fright? please help! I rate high! I have a play comming up soon and Im fine doing it with my class but im scared to do the play in front of the whole school and then in front of ever1's parents! PLEASE HELP (link)
Well, when i was in a play my school put on, i was really scared too! But when i got up there, i noticed that in most spots of the stage, the lights are so blinding that you cant even see the audiance. I loved that part!! lol and if you dont have the same type of lights as i had, just pick a spot, (if you have to look out at the audiance) and look at that or around that the whole time. People will most likely think that you're looking at them anyway!!
Dont worry you'll do GREAT!!
hope i helped!!


I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah

thank you in advance, I'll rate you all

~Allysa (link)
Well, i recently had a similar experiance. This one person used me all of the time and i didnt catch on at first and then it began to become clearer. It got really annoying really fast. But what i tried was not talking to this person for awhile and eventually it started to work (a little.) Then the same thing happened all over again and can ya guess?, same reaction too. What I've done is talk when im talked to but dont go into detail. Sarah will eventually realize that shes loosing a GREAT friend for doing all you've done for her for such a long time. She may or may not realize it for awhile and if and when she does, she might not think anything of it. So, its up to you, you can try to keep going along with it or just try well, not being right there all the time. Does that make sense? And John, just because you're not getting along so well with Sarah right now doesnt mean you should forget about John.

I hope I helped!!
Good luck with Sarah and John
XoX!*__* Katie


my friend i think may become anarexic because well she keeps saying that shes fat and shes not i whenver she says she is i tell her shes not but she doesn't believe me....do u think she might? what can i do to help prevent her from getting more to thinking this?


xox lissy (link)
Well i kno someone who is a lot like this and she wont listen when someone says to her that she should eat more. She just says that she already did. But every once and awhile in one of her sentences she'll mention that she doesnt eat breakfast or dinner or lunch, depends when shes telling the story. Try to listen to who if shes talking about not eating at certain times of the day and if youre around her and you're eating try to get her to eat at least a bite. If she wont and you do this a lot, then mayb its time to sit her down and explain the dangers of what she is doing and how worried shes making everyone around her feel. I hope everything works out ok.


13/f
Does anyone know any really good books about stuff like romance, death,depression, all that fun stuff. i have already read the lovely bones and it is my absolute FAVORITE book. nothing to happy...but does anyone know a really good book that has the same kind of mood as the lovely bones.
Oh yeah...and P.S. there is this one book my friend was telling me about where this woman loses all her money and sells her daughter to this prostitute house. its called like "reading me love" but i could never find it...i dont even know if thats the title!! Thanks. (link)
Well i cant really tell you the name of the book youre trying to figure out but i can help you with another title. One of my favorite books would have to be "What My Mother Doesnt Know" i thought that was a really good book and i think i finished it in one day!! lol Good Luck!!




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