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flirtacious guys....
Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do?
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well goodness if he smokes weed don't go out with him cause he seems like a big player to me..
if he flirts with all the gurls,i meen how would u know he might not even be the guy u expected him to be at all.
and besides aguy tht smokes weed might be a little messed up in the head i used to have a boyfriend and he smoked weed and then i found tht out broke up with him cause i barely new him and now he calls me every day and he like almost like he stalks me
its really scary.
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well try and find a day when u know u wont be busy then call him and ask if he would like to go to the mall and if u do go then maybe he'll get to know u more and like you more and wont flirt with other girls. ignore those other girls maybe thier jelous cus he likes you not them.and if he smokes weeed and u are against it just tell him "i wont make you quit but i ask that you dont do it around me." he should understand.
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if you're against someone who smokes weed why the hell would you date someone like that? and don't worry about the whole flirting thing, some guys just do things like that, my ex used to flirt with everyone and we dated for 9 months and are still kind of dating...just call him on a day you're free and ask him to hang, make the choice for yourself and don't let other people's opinions of this guy sway you to a decision that you won't be happy with.
*~*shan*~*
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well i think you should wait for him to ask you. if he likes you then he'll ask you out. im not at all for a gu who smokes weed but thats your call. and you said if he doesnt make a move then you will. well it sounds to me like hes tried. but your always busy. as you said. and ya if i was him i would flirt with other ppl too. i wouldnt stand around waiting for a girl who is always busy who cant do anything. but to help out maybe clear a whole week or a few days and go out with him when he calls. if you dont clear ur schedual then hes ganna move on to some other girl. sounds like he has more chioces other than you. so go for it . clear your schedual. let him know ur free. well hope i helped out some. good luck
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hmmmm sounds like i've heard this exact senario before. hahahahahaha i know who you are! wink wink
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when he asks to make plans and you're busy, suggest an alternate time that you all could get together, that way he knows you're interested
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Okay..next time he calls you and you have plans make sure that you let him know u still wanna hang out some time and tell him u will call him next time u have time to so sumthing. Hes sounds like a good guy but u have to make sure that it dosnt bother you that he smokes weed 1st. Good Luck Sweetie!! x3_sara*
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go with ur heart. if he asks u out or u ask him talk about him flirting with other girls about how u don't like it so on.. ~natalie~
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ok first of all if it was me i would not feel coforatble with a guy that does drugs. but if you realy like him, when he calls you the next time and you have plans just sugest another day to go out with him that is good for you and him instead of just saying i am busy and hanging up. make sure that whenever you see him in the hall say "hi" and tell him how you feel so he will get the picture. good luck and be carlful around thoughs kinds of people, thake care of yourself! hope i helped!
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