Question Posted Wednesday November 24 2004, 3:09 pm
Im a female 14 and i live in California.There is this guy i liked a ton last year and we would always flirt at school and id come home and talk to him for hours. we had alot im common. Then this summer he told me he liked me too and he come over acouple of times and we fooled around. he never asked me out or anything and i got kindof scared he might be using me. we got together again and did everything but sex.. which was alot more then i wanted to go before having a relationship with him. then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know.. i got pissed off and started accusing him of using me and finally he admitted to it. i was devastated. i yelled at him and we got in a huge fight and we both said some pretty mean things. its been about 4 monthes and we still dont talk and im over the fact that he used me and i just want to be friends again, not because i like him but i cant STAND being in a fight with somebody that long & its been bothering me for about three monthes now - im also scared that if i start talking to him hes gunna still be mad about everything and im going to make a fool of myself... sorry this was so long but i really need help! :o)
babeliciousbooty9 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 3:16 pm: Well...I was kinda int he same situation. I think you want to go back to him, subconsiously, to be with him because you liked ihm and you liked how you spent your time with him (*). The best thign to do to get over it and everything is to just ignore him and move on, one less person in your life that has caused yuo so much grief is not worht the effort. But follow your heart. Hope i helped
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