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hey yall im 13 i live in rockwall texas.im in 7th grade. i love to talk on the phone, shop, and just hang out with my friends. i go to william smiddle school. (WMS) my bffs are bearett dominic kim serena and lucas. i love to answer any questions i can get (exspecially love life ones) and i love to help out any 1 i can. so write me a question and ull have the best answer to fufill your question. good luck. love ya!!
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Location: born in new mexico now live in texas
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Age: 13
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ok on monday I was dumped and I'm really unnhappy about it but now my ex keeps slagging me off to all my friends one of my friends told me what he'd said when I got to school he was being really nasty to me he kept calling me a ho slag slut and a bitch and said he regrets going out with me and that he never even liked me but when we were going out he text me saying I love you so did he have feelings for me but now he's being really nasty to me and now he's going out with his ex ex and I'm really stressed now what can I do please help me! (link)
well i do think he had feelings for you but is acting like an a** hole and dosnt want to admit to it. most guys dont. maybe hes insecur about leaving you. when he starts saying that just say back"Ya,i was young and desprate!" it worked 4 my friend! Good Luck!


How long would you be willing to date someone before you either left or proposed marriage to them? You being a 30 something female he being a late 30 something male. (link)
1 year or longer


ok..well on e of my best friends is in 7th grade and the guy I like is in 7th grade and I am in 8th grade I told my best friend [lets say...Rache] that I really liked the guy and she was like awww all that shit and she was going out with someone at the time and then the night I told her that I liked him..she dumped her current boyfriend and asked out the guy I liked..and today I was ganna think hard about when I was ganna ask him out and then all of a sudden her name popped up when me and the guy I like were talking about something and he is like ya me and Rachel are going out and I am like aww kool..like kinda in a obvious way [and he doesnt know that I like him] and ya..and I'm about to cry what do I do and what do I say to the guy/ and or Rachel!! PLEASE HELP!!! i am ganna go under depression.....seriously...
~*Lost N Lost*~ ...again (link)
omg i would shoot my bf if she did that. lol i wouldnt consider her as even my friend anymore. as revenge i would say go out with her ex. lol. start talkin to the guy and kinda work your way to him if you noe what i mean. and like draw him to you and then go for it. ask him out. you never noe what might happen. if he said yes to you and dumped rache then the bitch really deserve it.
lol. i say just go for it and ask him. well i g2g but good luck. sry if i didnt help much.


If I walked on a tredmale (however you spell it lol) for about an hour almost every morning, then ate healthy and also did pilates... How long do you think it would take for me to notice results? (Especially a flat stomach and skinnier legs/thighs) Thanks!! :) (link)
i would say about a month or two but dont work too hard to wear u wear ur self out. good luck


Me and my b/f are pretty close! I am just worried because he is in a grade older than me and im scared that sumthing might happend becasue hes going to a different school next year! I dont know if i should stay with him or break up with him! If i stay with him i might get hurt later because he might find other girls but if i break up with him now im going to hurt now because i love him and i dont no what ill do when i see him everyday in the halls and maybe get a new g/f!? Everyone is telling me to stay with him but theres just sumthing i dont no im just confused! All my friends are saying stay because then ill go to all the dances with him and stuff! ((*If this helps my BFF is in his grade and im always with her*)) HELPP! (link)
well i just say wait till the end of the summer and then really think it over what u want to do. i mean there could be some one out there that you would find amazing and who you could luv 10 times more than this guy. but i say just wait it out and follow your heart. see what happens. good luck.


I had a dream that my boyfriend's, mother's... boyfriend poisoned them and killed them. I woke up from that dream in my dream and went to see if it was true and it in my awaken dream, he really did die like that. I was crying and tossing. My parents heard me crying and tossing and turning. Then my dad woke me up and i was so relived it was a dream. The whole time though i was thinking, its just a dream call buck make sure he is still alive. When i woke up from both dreams called my boyfriend and he was alive. I have no idea, why i had such an awful dream like that. What do you think this is suppose to mean?????
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i think that i would mean that you luv him and u dont want to lose him. its a good thing. the dream wasnt suppose to be reflecting bad thoughts. its a good thing. like i had a dream that i killed my bf but after that we have been together since 7th grade and were in 10th now. so dont worry. good luck.


Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do? (link)
well i think you should wait for him to ask you. if he likes you then he'll ask you out. im not at all for a gu who smokes weed but thats your call. and you said if he doesnt make a move then you will. well it sounds to me like hes tried. but your always busy. as you said. and ya if i was him i would flirt with other ppl too. i wouldnt stand around waiting for a girl who is always busy who cant do anything. but to help out maybe clear a whole week or a few days and go out with him when he calls. if you dont clear ur schedual then hes ganna move on to some other girl. sounds like he has more chioces other than you. so go for it . clear your schedual. let him know ur free. well hope i helped out some. good luck


ok, i have a boyfriend. and i thought i loved him to death. but the other day i was at this club thing. and me and this other guy who is a good friend, we started flirting like crazy. and i realized i have feelings for him. and then later he told me he had feelings for me. he doesnt know i like him too though. but i don't know if i should stick with my boyfriend cause i truly do adore him or should i give this other guy a try bcuz hes so nice and everything. (link)
WELL i dont really noe what to say but i thinkn you should stick with your boyfriend. and wait until the time is right to give him a chance.



Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!) (link)
well my advice is to go out with him. say yes and just take it slow. you dont have to rush into things. just take it slow but definatly say yes if he askes you out. and who cares what his friends think. they rnt going out with you so why should they care. well sry not much advice but hope this helps.
alexxa and serena


me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿ (link)
well i dont have much to say but i think if she really like you she wouldnt say that stuff to you specially infront of ur friends.i mean im a girl and we are picky and stubborn and drama queens so i know what you mean. but i have a bf and i really luv him and i would try and work things out with him as best as i could.so my advice is to work things out with her as best as you can. well good luck.
alexxa


I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks (link)
well diffrent guys like diffrent kind of girls. like there could be a outgoing guy who likes a shy girl or a shy guy who likes a outgoing girl. it just depends on the guy i would say. and to get a guy to notice you then just talk to him. trust me just try talking to him i mean u feel like your face is going to burn up and you might feel really stupid but i promise it will work. if you just talk to him. well i hope it helps out some. good luck! just try it.
alexxa


Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp (link)
well it seems that if he that protective then he really likes you. when i flirt my bf gets mad too and he never told me so one dayb i sat down with him and i said how am i supposed to fix what im doing wrong if you dont tell me why ur mad. and after a while he started to tell me evey time there was something wrong .so try sitting down with him and talk to him. and i mean about the he sees you with other ppl it just means hes jealouse and hes afraid of you leaving him. well sry if i didnt help out much but i hope i helped some.
alexxa


my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do? (link)
well stop while u can! find new friends. clean friends. not saying to drop them off a cliff but slowly make new friends and gradually leave them. but if you dont want new friends then talk to them and try to help them instead of avoding them. well sorry i didnt have much to say but i hope i helped some.
Alexxa




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