Question Posted Tuesday November 23 2004, 10:29 pm
Me and my b/f are pretty close! I am just worried because he is in a grade older than me and im scared that sumthing might happend becasue hes going to a different school next year! I dont know if i should stay with him or break up with him! If i stay with him i might get hurt later because he might find other girls but if i break up with him now im going to hurt now because i love him and i dont no what ill do when i see him everyday in the halls and maybe get a new g/f!? Everyone is telling me to stay with him but theres just sumthing i dont no im just confused! All my friends are saying stay because then ill go to all the dances with him and stuff! ((*If this helps my BFF is in his grade and im always with her*)) HELPP!
coldburn22 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 8:07 pm: well i just say wait till the end of the summer and then really think it over what u want to do. i mean there could be some one out there that you would find amazing and who you could luv 10 times more than this guy. but i say just wait it out and follow your heart. see what happens. good luck. [ coldburn22's advice column | Ask coldburn22 A Question ]
vickiooos answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 4:12 pm: it'll be hard but you two can manage to keep a relationship even through long distance issues like school. if you really trust him and know he's a loyal person then try dont break up with him because yeah it will just hurt if you break up with him now. and one thing i've learned is that after you break up with someone when you're not really over them then the feelings will linger strongly.. but if you two break up then your heart can actually heal a little easier.. b/c when you break up with the feelings still strongly there then your head and heart are always just going to think about how things could have been or could be.
but anyways.. the short story is stay with him if you think that you can trust him enough next year.. im just saying that it'll be really hard though so get ready for rough bumps. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
brown23 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 2:43 pm: hey....i was going out with someone in a grade older than me and my best friend was in his grade too...i stayed with him because i liked him alot alot alot! you really should stay with him and see what happens...if he likes you as much as i think you like him...itll be alright...and yuo have ur best friend there to spy on him.I had my best friend do that and it brought be and my boyfriend closer because i trusted him so much more...you just have to make plans to see him all the time and itll be like nothing ever changed.
XoCountryCutieXo answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:21 pm: Hey well either way you have a chance t get hurt right it woud make no since to break up with him now bc ud get hurt now even if yall break up later u would get hurt then but ud jus get hurt later in tha game! plus if u jus wait and go with tha flow ull get to enjoy all tha good times you can have soo stick with him epecially if u love him!
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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:09 pm: id stay with him cuz if he loves u like u love him he wont care bout all the other girls there only u <33 one of my friends bf's is in high skool and their in "love" lol soo just stay with him! good luck babe! [ pRiiNcEsS_bRyT's advice column | Ask pRiiNcEsS_bRyT A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:06 pm: I say stay with him! If he finds another girl, oh well, it's his loss... It's hard to keep a relationship going when people are seperated and don't see eachother often, but just call him a lot and go out a lot on weekends... I hoped i helped!! :)
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