Hey Yall My name is Blayre !*! Im A Georiga Peach all the way, i love to hang out with my freinds, talk on the computer, and run my mouth on the phone. The reason i made this advice column is bc like every other average teen i have problems that i need advice on too!*! So i thought i would pay it foward and thats why i made this column to give adivce to people like you!*! So if you need adivce give me a holler and i would be glad to help!
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Blayre
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okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean (link)
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Ya i think you should ask him out! because it sounds like he likes you its just fear of rejection! you know how guys are if they think youll turn them down they idmeatly say wich is super gay.. soo just ask him out theres a 95% chance you'll get a yes!
Lots a Luck
Blur
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okay...this may seem strange but it feels like all my friends are turning on me...I had my 13th birthday party on sunday and invited 20 of my clostest firends to my house and well sunday came and only 12 showed up...these ppl i know have to be my rly clostest firends but here are the reasons for why most of them couldnt come
Me: hey maria are you coming to my party on sunday
Maria: no sorry i cant because im grounded
Me: oh so you arent going to Karissas the day befroe?
Maria: oh well i can go to that one and that one only
If you think that ones bad listen to these...
Chelsey: gotta do my homework! i have WAY to much homework
Lindsay: Sorry Sam my mom wont let me cause i didnt do all my homework yet
Karissa: my mom wont let me cause i didnt do my homework yet
Rachel F: i cant because i have too much homework
SPECIAL NOTE: all the ppl above cept maria slept over karissas house after her party and the best thing is WE DIDNT HAVE ANY HOMEWORK!!!
please help me ill rate 5's unless the advice is mean
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Aww girl!!!! sounds like to me your freinds were just being Truly mean to you!!!! Trust me i know how it feels and it doesnt feel all that great!!! But anyhow you have 2 choices you can either a) ignore them and start hanging out with new people which would proble get them jelous or B) which this choice is beter! go talk to them tell them look you dont know how bad it hurt me when yall did that! did i do something to make yall mad or just is there something i did at all that wasnt right? Then maybe they'll open up and telll you what happend!
Anyhow hope i helped! If theres anything you need at all let me know!!!
Blayre
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i have been with my boyfreind off and on kinda of for 8 months, i wanted to take a break becuase like i felt like he was holding me back from things i wanted to do, like he always wnated to knoe where i was or what i was doing and always aummesed things like he had no trust in me or sumthing. but during the break i tlaked to afew other guys and i felt likle happy talking to them and didnt wanan go back, but he keeps like sucking me backinto the relasitship bcuz he knows he kan, becuase i still care for him way to much and hes all in love with me and stuff and woukdnt never do ne thing againt me, i duno its jus hard, becuase im the one thats confused i could jus go right back into the relatsihip and b the sameold way but i think i want something new, hs the first guy ive ever relaly made out with kind of my first everything, so i odnt kno ne thing other then him so is kind of hard when alot of other guys want to like hang out or somethingand i want to but i cant knopwing i sitll have him, i duno im jus really confused ! (link)
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Well if u wanna move on and meet new poeple jus tell him plane out look i wanna move on to new people and STOP talkin to him bc if u stop talkin to him u wont have feelins for him tahts whut i had to do and it worked but on other hand if u still want him ull have to tell him look we can go out i jus wanna feel free to still have freinds that are guys and ull have to accept taht to make this realtionship work!
Hope i helped
Blayre
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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw? (link)
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Well idk dont change to get a guy to liek you but as far as your health yea u should bc u might jus keep gaining and gaining weight that wouldnt be good soo jus try loosein a lil weight!
Blayre
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hey ok i have a cold sore on my lip from making out and its not rally big yet its just starting and i hate having it on my lip cuz it looks weird does anybody know how i can get rid of it before it gets big? and how long do they take to go awya? help plz! (link)
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Hey lol im in tha same sisuation except idk how i got mine beleive it or not there isnt a way to get rid of it jus use makeup cover up and iv had mine for about 4 weeks! soo enjoy lol!
Blayre
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Ok there are these boys in the back of the bus SO anoying!They always make fun of the girls in cluding me, Its is so anoying so pam always says WHY THE HECK SHOULD I LISTEN TO YOU? and they always say WHY THE HELL SHOULD WE LISTEN TO YOU! really pisses me off!They always get on my case!
PLease help!
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Hey well it proble means they liek you soo try bein nice to them and if that doesnt work then GIVE THEM HECK RIGHT BACK! thats whut ido it usually works!
Blayre
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Ok, I have a choice between going to the movies, or going bowling... I totally can't decide! I am SO confused...
PLEASE HELP IT IS URGENT!! (link)
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Uhh it depens if ur jus goin with ur freinds go bowling so u can be loud but if ur goin with ur boyfeind go to tha movies where its quite!
Blayre
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Ok, I LOVE my family to death. My mom's best friend is like family to us, and she has a son and daughter. Her son is a month younger than my little sister (my sis and I r 4 years apart) and her daughter is a little younger. We're always together and I get so bored because I have nobody my age. please help me! (link)
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LoL well tell your mom that you love them to death but u need someone your own age there and invite a freind to hang out with yall!
Blayre
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Me and my b/f are pretty close! I am just worried because he is in a grade older than me and im scared that sumthing might happend becasue hes going to a different school next year! I dont know if i should stay with him or break up with him! If i stay with him i might get hurt later because he might find other girls but if i break up with him now im going to hurt now because i love him and i dont no what ill do when i see him everyday in the halls and maybe get a new g/f!? Everyone is telling me to stay with him but theres just sumthing i dont no im just confused! All my friends are saying stay because then ill go to all the dances with him and stuff! ((*If this helps my BFF is in his grade and im always with her*)) HELPP! (link)
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Hey well either way you have a chance t get hurt right it woud make no since to break up with him now bc ud get hurt now even if yall break up later u would get hurt then but ud jus get hurt later in tha game! plus if u jus wait and go with tha flow ull get to enjoy all tha good times you can have soo stick with him epecially if u love him!
Blayre
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Umm ok well i didnt quite understand that lol! if ya need anything elce put it in English!
Blayre
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Hey, I have a friend that is goin out with this gurl i have known him for a while but it just seems like he is always with her and never hanging out with us and it is really getting annoying because he is always at her house or she is always at his house so i can never do anything with him out of school and i dont know if i should just not be his friend anymore. i know that boyfriends should spend time with there g/f but i dont think he should just always be with her and it seems like he is ditching us just to be with her and i am getting sick of it please help (link)
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Hey well he is proble jus gettin raped up in girls rgiht now u will too soon believe it or not! jus give it time try talkin to him tell him look i kno u rally like ur gf but u dont ever do anyhtng with u coud u try to put out a lil more efort to hang with us!
Jus talk to him hopefully he'll understand!
Best Wishes
Blayre
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Hi there's this one girl in Riverside that i luv. Her name is blayre. i think she hates me!!! SHe knows im there, but she doesn't want to talk to me. she never has:( Help
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Hey well who ever you are im sorry you think i hate you unless you've done somein to me i DONT! im sorry i dont talk to u if u talk to me then ya ill tlak to u to! well i hope who ever you are you'll tell me that way i can make a effort to become friends with ya!
Well hiope to hear from u soon i*m* me when u read this!
Ps: I dont hate anyone!
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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!! (link)
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Hey wet your hari then straighten till it drys it then if that dont work wet stragihten till it drys then put hair spray it down and when it dry brush it out
Hope i helped it works for me atleast!
Blayre
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Alright..there are these two guys..lets say collin and devin..well i like both of them..but last night i found out who collin likes..and i also found out who devin likes. devin likes me..collin likes these two other girls in my class...and i am happy and sad..happy because devin likes me..but sad because i like collin more than devin. am i being selfish?? should i just stop liking collin and start liking devin more?! help me please! thanks!
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Hey no ur noit selfish it aint ur fault u liek him jus move on to devin it aint worth watin on somone that likes someone elce! u kno dev lieks you so go out with him!
Blayre
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i have two friends and niether of them are popular. they both drive me crazy and i really dont want to be friends with either one of them!! one has NO style and the other is well u no big and she is kina embarassing to hang around. i try to talk to them but i dont because i dont want to make them mad at me! one of them is a wannabe and i guess the other one is to! i REALLY dont want to talk to them about it and i have tried givin them hints that their anyoying but they really dont get it! what should i do? (link)
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Well if u really dont wanna be freinds with them jus slowly stop talkin to them dont be mean to them bc ull be tha hated one in tha sisuatoin but liek say they pass notes jus dont write back or if they call say u cant talk if they ask u to do osmin say u got plans jus slowly try to ease out of yalls friend ship!
Well hope i helped
Blayre
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im 12 and have never been asked out. boys say they like me but none of them ever ask me out.
one time i was tellin these people about how i never have been asked out nad this really hot guy goes kinda quitly "well maby there to sacred to ask you out" does that mean anything? or is he just tellin me what he thinks? i kinda like him but im to scared to ask him out. HELP!!! (link)
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Hey well normally if a guy says their scared to ask you out then it means their scared to ask you out! you have to learn to atake chances try gettin a frind to say would u ever go out with ** ur name and see whut he says! i can garenty u that if guys say they like u they r thorughin tha hint at you to say u liek them to or somin! soo jus tell them u liek them in a way and hopfully it'll fall together
Best Wishes
Blayre
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alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now. (link)
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Hey well every guy is nervous and guys dont always have to be tha ones to make tha move someitmtes its beter if u do it takes all tha stress off them and makes them open up more soo u dont have to make tha move but let him kno liek u kno whut im realyl wantin a boyfrind thorw hints to him and he'll come around!
Hope i halped
Blayre
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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
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no not really dreams are just dreams u get tha weridest ones! trust me i have ones that r jus crazy and those dont mean anyhitng so i dont think tha others would1
Blayre
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ok, Me and my friend have been BEST friends since 5th grade....and now I am going out with this guy....I love him sososo much!! and I think that she is getting jealous over him b/c I dunno....but she like plays childish games with me...like (sry, this is long) on friday night, i was talking to my b/f and hse was over at my house and we were in the same room and she calls me on her cellphone to tell me that she has to pee....WTF?!?! and I love her to death...I would never choose him over her....how do i let her know that without actually telling her.... (link)
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Hey well jus try tlakin to her about him how much u liek him and maybe she is jus feelin jelous lek she is loosin her best freind try spending somemore time with her!
Hope i helped blayre
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Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out! (link)
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Hey well i go thorgh this alot changin freinds its jus a part of life adventaully ull run across a really great freind ull jus gotta wait till u do but if u wanna be freinds im here!
ANyhow if ya need me im here
Blayre
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