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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw?
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Well no u are beatful in ur lone special way and there is always i guy out there for everyone so just finish school and wait!
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Never lose weight to make a guy like you!If you feel like you need to lose weight to make you feel more confident and comfortable then do it for you, not for this one guy or your parents. hope i helped
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You should never loose weight or anything just bc a guy doesn't like you. There is always guys who want to change girls. But we r our own individual and if they don't like you for you it's their loss. Everybody finds a guy at a diff. time! It's not wut is on the outside that counts. its wut is on the inside! otherwise they rn't worth ur time!
good luck
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Well, the short answer is-- No! You shouldn't change anything about yourself to "make" someone like you. If you want to lose a few pounds because it's something you want to do to feel good about yourself, then go for it. But if you want to lose weight because you think that's going to make guys like you, you're setting yourself up for a lot of pain.
Think about this-- don't you constantly see women with less-than-perfect bodies who have boyfriends that love them? Of course! This is because they value themselves as they are! If you think you are fabulous and beautiful, you will find guys who think you're the hottest thing around. It's really more about your self-worth than about your weight. If you don't believe me, start taking a look around whenever you are out in public. People of all shapes and sizes have partners who love them. Instead of worrying about your weight, start noticing the things about yourself that make you interesting and fun to be with. You'll feel better about yourself, and guys will start paying attention to you.
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You shouldn't have to change yourself for someone to like you - if they only like you if you're stick-thin, then they're not worth having as a boyfriend. You sound like you've got a really great personality, and decent guys will be more attracted to that than anything. If your weight is bothering you, then yeah, go ahead and try to lose some. Just remember to look after yourself and don't go on any silly diets that will make you ill.
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Don't change yourself for a guy. You need to find one who accepts you for who you are. :)
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im sure you are pretty the way you are, if you want to lost weight then you can, but dont go overboard just for guys, there are plenty of guys who arnt as shallow as only looking at your weight. hope i helped! if you ever need advice you can always drop a note in my inbox! rate me! <33
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I think that if you want to lose weight, then you should, but not just to impress a guy. But if you do, try and do it in the most healthiest way, like by cutting junk foods or exercising more. Hopefully this guy will like you for who you are and not just for your weight. Good luck! I hope I helped! :)
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no u dont need to loose weight but if y0ou really wanna loose weight then do situps remember everyones perfect and its on the inside that counts not the outside :) xx
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Don't lose weight for a guy.Lose weight for yourself.To make you feel better and to improve your health.Increase your amount of exercise and your way of eating.Never change yourself for a guy though inside or out.
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well lets see if u hacve had a guy turn u down before then it would be a good thing to loose weight to show him what he's missin! i have done it before when i went to middle school he left me cause i wasnt pretty enough now i am a nock out as he claims to tell me.
but if u want a guy to like if u lose weight thn go with it loose weight but if the guy wants u to loose wweight then tell him well screw u cause i deserve better.
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dont do it for the guys....do it for yourself...if you can work to keep the weight off now then when youre older and youre metabolism slows down it wont be as hard to keep the weight off....so id say just cut back on the pop and eat healthier and do some form of workout whether it be running or lifting weights
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Umm.. well.. 15lbs overweight is NOT that bad! Seriously! I mean gawl.. yeah guys can be shallow but its prolly something else besides ur weight or maybe its just the guy! Depends.. I mean I dont really kno you but you sound totally awesome! I'm sure any guy would prolly date you but listen.. it never hurts 2 lose a few pounds! Plus you'll feel better & you'll look better 2!
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Um. I wouldnt care about that right now. I would care about succeeding in life. Are guys really all that matter?
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The only questions you need to ask are to yourself. Do you feel healthy? Do you like the way you look? I'm not talking about anyone else, just you! You don't need to be a slave to a number, ideal weight is not exact. Your ideal weight is where you feel best and like the way you look. If someone wants you to loose weight for THEIR ideal and you allow it when it is not what YOU want that is foolish. Plenty of guys like girls who are real about who they are. 10-15 pounds is vanity weight if you feel healthy and active, but if that's what you want then there is nothing wrong with loosing it. Doing something just for a guy to notice you or for your parents to approve will keep you in an endless cycle of misery. No one wants the same thing or has the same ideals, and the only person you'll have to face for the rest of your life is yourself. Who are you? What do you want? "They" don't really matter in this choice. I don't matter. Only YOU! Think!
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Well idk dont change to get a guy to liek you but as far as your health yea u should bc u might jus keep gaining and gaining weight that wouldnt be good soo jus try loosein a lil weight!
Blayre
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i say go for it, if you think that loosing 15 pounds will boost your confidence, try it. go on a healthy diet and exercise. theres nothing wrong with being healthy
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If you feel that you need to then you should, but don't if you feel pressured by your parents. You can be beautiful no matter how skinny, fat, tall or short you are. It's all up to you. Ask the people who like you..."Do you think I am getting bigger?" or whatever gives you an honest answer.
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Sweetie, you should never ever change anything about yourself just to make a guy like you. With that said, if you're going to loose weight do it for yourself and not for anyone else but you. If you have a great personality guys will see that and ask you out. Guys are usually shy in their teen years and they can be afraid to ask you out. Don't expect that your weight has to be the reason why guys won't ask you out. Age might have something to do with it. Usually guys don't feel comfortable with girls until they are about 15 years old. That's not how it is with every guy, but sometimes that's what happens. Even if you're older...guy are very hard to understand, it might take a year for a guy to confess he likes you. It all depends on what the guy thinks, and how he approches a girl. So seriously don't beat yourself up because he hasn't asked you out yet. If he likes you, he'll ask you eventually! Don't worry too much about it, you'll be fine!
Love,
Mandee
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I don't think that people don't like you because of that...but if would make you feel better about yourself, then go for it!! good luck, sweetie!!
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HeY! well i dont think you shoukd loos weight to have somebody like you! But everyone likes to feel good about themselves, so do it for yourself to feel better ... not him, and if you just exersize and get out and go play something you should loose weight without having to diet!
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I don't think it's totally necessary to lose weight just so someone will like you. And hey, the guys might like you and just haven't said anything! But, if you and your family think you should you should lose weight, go for it. Good luck :)
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losing that little weight shouldnt be hard. about a month of dieting will get you down to where you need to be
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NO. You should not lose wieght so that guys will like you. Never chnage yourself for anyone. If you are happy the way you are then stay that way. People will just have to accept that and if they dont too fuckin bad. But if YOU are unhappy about how you look, then go lose the weight, but, only do it for yourself.
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Girl u dont wanna change ur self for a guy. do u like they way u are if u do dont do a thing screw what other people think, but if u dont like the way u look then loose wait cus YOU want not because THEY want u too.good luck hun.
*becky*
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