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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet. (link)
yea u should give it back!!! hope everything works out for you and your friend...


I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks

-Zero (link)
yea you should appologize to him about not being able to go....


My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do? (link)
talk to her about tell her how you feel about it and let her know that you are willing to listen to anything she wants to say. If she keeps doing it you might want to tell her parents about it so nothing worse happens to her....hope i helped


Ok...well there is this boy that I love a lot. We aren't dating at the moment but we were before. The only reason we broke up is because we didn't talk a lot and that was about a year ago...now we talk every day on the phone way more than once and we talk in school. He always goes Mahryah...I love you...but I don't know if I believe him and I tell him that. He says well then why else would I say I loved you if I really didn't. I always want to say well if you really like me then why don't you want to go out with me, I think that if he wanted to he would have asked by now. He always talks about us doing stuff together but he has never really like 'forced' me into it. I would be willing...only if we were going out though. I don't know what to say next time I talk to him and he says that. I mean I say it back but I mean it and he says he does but I'm not sure. Do you think he would just be saying this to get something from me...?? Anyone have any ideas? Thanks so much! Love..Ryah (link)
He sounds like he means it, but he's afraid make a commitment. You have to talk to him and let him know how you feel, and you have to get him to talk about his feelings towards you too. Find out for sure if he really means it when he says "i love you.". hope i helped...


um hi. my ex-boyfriend and i broke up last year around june. he lied to me and stuff lik that, so i said dude i dont deserve this, and i walked away. but now that a new skool year has started, he keeps hanging around me and at dances he keeps telling his friends he wants to dance wit me. i dont know what to do because i really liked him and he rilly hurt me and i dont want to be hurt again. he says hes changed and hes sorry, but i still dont know. should i keep my distance? or should i try again? (link)
Hang around him and see if there's something different about him, if he has changed his ways. If you think he has then maybe you should give him a second chance if you have feelings for him, just remember there is a chance you will get hurt again. hope i helped.


ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!! (link)
If you miss having them around go ahead and say yes. Keep doing stuff with other people though and slowly start trusting your x-best friends again, make them prove that they won't do the same thing to you again.hope i helped..


should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw? (link)
Never lose weight to make a guy like you!If you feel like you need to lose weight to make you feel more confident and comfortable then do it for you, not for this one guy or your parents. hope i helped


I have been cutting myself for a while now. My best friend Dylan knows about it and he wants to me stop. It is very hard to stop doing because it is addicting. Dylan and I got in a big fight last friday because he found out the night before I slit the crap outts my arms. He cares about me alot but I honestly dont want him to care. He always tells me that he loves me and I tell him not too. I hate when he tells me he loves me bc he only loves me as a friend and I wish that he loved me as more. I am in love with him. He hung up on me last friday and it is monday and we havent talked since. IDK what to do. Is he gonna stick by me through these times of pain or abandon me. If I love him should I stop doing what I have been doing and try to get some help. PLZ help me! (link)
Dylan obviously cares about you a lot because he's stuck by you all this time and wants you to stop before you hurt yourself worse. If you care about him as much as you say you do stop for him if not for you. Talk to Dylan and tell him your plan(for getting help) and things will most likely work out if you talk it over. hope i helped...


So, i've been thinking about but not really knowing if... I mean it's not that I want to commit suicide... I guess i'm just depressed and no I don't want to go on medication cause it's not like my brain is screwed up... it's just that I dunno I feel ugly I feel bad and whenever I tell anyone it doesn't seem to be relevant to them... and yes I know by posting this there will be people (stupid) saying that "YA U SHOULD U WORTHLESS PEICE OF ****" and I really don't care cause I probably should... I know that you guys probably don't care whether I live or not cause I mean it'll just mean one less mouth to feed and one more room to fill...

Basically the reason why I am depressed is that cause I'm gay and i've told people but not everyone... and I just want to have someone to be able to love me back and someone to be able to cuddle with on winter's cold... I've tried online chatting (no not AIM) but actual sites that are serious and no respons... I guess it's cause I'm ugly... but I just feel... *sigh* (link)
i know how you feel, sucide has crossed through my mind. Talk to someone about all your feelings. If you don't have any close friends or a family member you can trust try talking to a a shrink. You've already said you think you have issues, everyone does but there arent' medical cures for everything. As for depression and thinking your ugly and not loved everyone feels like that at some point in their life. sucide isn't the right answer for this or anything else...you wood hurt a lot of people, more than you think and you wood regret it too. hope i helped....




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