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should i keep my distance, or give him another chance?
um hi. my ex-boyfriend and i broke up last year around june. he lied to me and stuff lik that, so i said dude i dont deserve this, and i walked away. but now that a new skool year has started, he keeps hanging around me and at dances he keeps telling his friends he wants to dance wit me. i dont know what to do because i really liked him and he rilly hurt me and i dont want to be hurt again. he says hes changed and hes sorry, but i still dont know. should i keep my distance? or should i try again?
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Ok well if he says hes changed that means he wants you to give him a chance and that he could have seen how he was wrong and wants to make it up to you. Go out with him and secretly keep tabs on if hes changed from the last time or not. But on the other hand he could be lying but on the other hand he isnt. Go for it. Good luck with it.
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I think you should tell him you like him but he really hurt you and ask him if you give him another chance to promise not to hurt you anymore. And if he hurts you again tell him it is over for good.
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Hang around him and see if there's something different about him, if he has changed his ways. If you think he has then maybe you should give him a second chance if you have feelings for him, just remember there is a chance you will get hurt again. hope i helped.
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I hate to set you up for disappointment by telling you to give him another try. There is an old saying "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I can say I wouldn't give him another chance. In my experience people do not change, because even if they could they'd just change right back once they didn't need to be different anymore.
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that's a tough situation. it's really your call, but what i would do is try and hang out with him first. just talk to him, and see if you can notice a change. if you see it, and you believe that it's an honest change, then maybe you should consider trying it again. but if not, then i see no reason to put yourself on the line again just to get dropped with no one there to catch you. love is a game, and someone always winds up getting hurt, but you'll never see the good side of it if you don't take the risk. i hope this helped, and good luck
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