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Ok...well there is this boy that I love a lot. We aren't dating at the moment but we were before. The only reason we broke up is because we didn't talk a lot and that was about a year ago...now we talk every day on the phone way more than once and we talk in school. He always goes Mahryah...I love you...but I don't know if I believe him and I tell him that. He says well then why else would I say I loved you if I really didn't. I always want to say well if you really like me then why don't you want to go out with me, I think that if he wanted to he would have asked by now. He always talks about us doing stuff together but he has never really like 'forced' me into it. I would be willing...only if we were going out though. I don't know what to say next time I talk to him and he says that. I mean I say it back but I mean it and he says he does but I'm not sure. Do you think he would just be saying this to get something from me...?? Anyone have any ideas? Thanks so much! Love..Ryah
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well...he could mean it. nobody likes to hear something that isn't true. and if you really mean it and if he really means it just give it time. don't do anything that you don't want to do unwillingly. and always use protection. but if your afraid that he is just saying that just to get with you then your best luck is not to do it
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He sounds like he means it, but he's afraid make a commitment. You have to talk to him and let him know how you feel, and you have to get him to talk about his feelings towards you too. Find out for sure if he really means it when he says "i love you.". hope i helped...
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First of all say i love you back and then see if he would consider going out with you. Then i f he would ask him.. Its ok for a girl to make the move! write back
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hey girl, i have the same problem and have been going through it for a little over a year now. my guy wont ask me to date either but its like we basically are. i think he means it when he tells you he loves you but is scared of commitment, so talk to him and let him know how you feel, and make him tell you how he feels too, cause guys are bad about trying to be macho! good luck!
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You have to talk to him about it. Some guys will tell you they love you just to (excuse me for being blunt) get in your pants. But other guys say it and mean it. Depending on how old you guys are, he might be a little freaked out by the idea of being in a relationship in which you are in love. That leads to a big commitment for guys, and often times, when they're young, they get scared from that. But talk to him. Tell him basically what you said here. If he really does love you, he'll tell you why you aren't going out, and what else is going on, if anything. Make sure he knows how you feel about him, and that you're really confused as to what the deal is between you two. good luck!
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hey. . .
if he likes yOu. . he should listen to you and care about how you feel, let him nOe whut your cOmfortable with, and set sOme bOundaries. . dont let him use yOu. . if he really does lOve you, he wont use you, but talk to him abOut it and qOod luCk! hope i helped! -a.ro
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well...i think you should talk to him and ask him whats going on? let him know whats on your mind ... like u said yourself that you always wanna say ask him if he really liked you then how come he hasnt asked you...you really to be straight foward with him and hope it works out for the best...hope dis helps..lemme know how it went.
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