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im a 15/f .. over thanksgiving i did some stuff with my boyfriend. i told one of my really good friends and she is really mad at me now. its not like i had sex with him or anything, and i was ready for what i did. i dont want to have sex w. him either because i want to save that for marriage. and ive told her that many times. but she is still pissed at my actions and doesnt trust me. what can i do to make her see that im not ganna go further then what i feel im ready for, and so that she is not mad at me anymore?
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tell her that she needs to trust you and that you did it cause you were ready. if she doesn't accept that then tell her that everybody makes mistakes and if she still doesn't take that then just point out a few mistakes that she has done. don't over do it now.
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Friends. Who needs them? Quite honestly, is it any of her business?
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well if she was truley a good friend then she woudl stick by your side... no matter what you did with your bf. trust me i have friends that have gone farther then i would have gone... but you just need to stand by there side and help them thro it... i mean if you had gone farther and gotten pegnet would she be there for you?? or not? i would talk to her about it... seriously.
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well yous orta need to put more details into this bc we cant really answer your questoin i f you put stuff but maybe shes jusdt jealous?
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If she really was your friend she wouldnt be mad at you. Does she Like him? you are not here dnt listen to her. If thats the way shes gonna be you cant do anything about it! Leave her to figure it out. Write back
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before you talk to her about this situation again let her cool off. she probably doesn't like what you did. if she were a true friend *which i'm getting the feeling ya'll have gone through a wfight or two in the past* she would trust you on this. jshe wouldn't think that it were such a huge deal. 4/5 girls in high school have done things with their boyfriends.maybe she's ust the one of the five that haven't done some thing with her boyfriend. maybe she's just a little more protective of her sexuality or maybe she just wants to protect you. she possibly know's some thing that you don't know. ask her if there is something that she knows about your boyfriend that you don't know about. i really hope that this advice helps you. hope all goes well and works out well. good luck >Rachel
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hey, 1st off, that is totally your buisness, she has no right to be mad at you. It is your body and you should be free to do what you want, It seems that maybe she might be afraid she is either losing you or she might be too much like your mother. Explain to her that it is your body, and if she dosent think your trustworthy then she is totally wrong. you told her, expecting her to bea friend and understand. so if anything, she should trust you more for acutally telling her and trusting her to understand your actions. Try explaining that to her alrighty! Write to me to tell me what happens! :)
peace
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first of all, it's your life, and your friend has to understand that what you do, especially what you do with your boyfriend, is your choice. but, her being upset about it does show that she cares for you, because it is possible that what she is feeling is concern, but can only express it as anger. make sure that she understands that you made the decision with a lot of thought behind it, and it wasn't just spur of the moment. also, tell her that what you do with your boyfriend really isn't any of her business, but you trust her enough to tell her what you do, so she should trust you enough to know that you will make smart decisions. saving sex for marriage is very admirable these days, and i wish more girls were like you. just have a heart to heart talk with your friend, but make sure she doesn't think that you're upset at her, and tell her that you don't want her to be upset with you anymore, and ask her what you can do to get her trust back. best of luck, and i hope this helped.
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hey. . .
your friend will understand whatever you have to say because one day she will encounter the same thing, so when you talk to her, let her know that you have strong feelings for your boyfriend and you never make bad decisions and at least you didnt have sex with him, let her know that she should be happy that you trusted her enough to tell her, and ask for some trust back in return, she may or may not accept your apology, but if shes a good friend that understands, she should get over it. . . sorry if this doesnt help, but good luck ! k3ep ya h3ad uhp :-D -a.ro
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