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Should I appologize?
I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks
-Zero
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Tell him your really sorry about not being able to go with hima nd then ending up being able to go. Try to find another date and if you can't go with your friends there the best kind of date you can have and he did have a right to be upset because he probably got his hopes up to go with you and u knew you probably couldnt go and didnt tell him that
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No! You should have no reason to apologize! This isn't your fault at all.. your parents grounded you and are the ones that made you make the decision to tell him that you weren't allowed to go to the dance with him.. then of course.. your parents changed their minds.. so this isn't your fault at all.. Ask him why he thinks it was rude to tell him you could go with him again.. Tell him that it wasn't your fault and you seriously weren't allowed to go anymore.. but your parents decided your were allowed to go again.. and tell him that YOU wanted to go with him so you told him that if he didn't have another date already that you could still go because your parents changed their minds.. Ugh.. Boys.. boys.. boys.. I HATE THEM!!! lol
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Yeah sounds like he is just mad that he got his hopes up when you knew you couldnt go. Maybe he really liked you and it kinda embarassed him and he got mad because you could have prevented it. Just talk to him and apologize and all.Sound like his ego was hurt a little bit
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I can sort of see where he thinks it's rude because it was sort of like you where inviting yourself with him again when you already said yes then no now yes lol. Don't appologize, it might just make things worse. For future notice if you say yes to a guy then say you cant go, dont call him and be like "oh i can go now". If you can go again call him up and be like "hey what are you doing" and start a conversation. Then when the right time comes say "so do you have a date to homecoming" and if he says yes be like "oh thats cool who are you going with" and if he says no then ask him to go with you. Dont say you can go just ask him!!! Good luck. If you need any more help just ask me!
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apologize.
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yeah thats a good idea.... ~*L*~
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hmm i can understand where he is coming from. He probably thinks that you decided that you didn't want to go with him but then changed ur mind, and that is why you said yes and then no and then yes again. If he doesn't know what happened you couuld clear your conscience and explain to him and appologize. If it isn't really bothering you, then i think you should just let go..after all it has been 2 months if it was about a week ago..then i'd say you shud appoglize for the misunderstanig. If you are still thinking about it, maybe it is a good idea to explain to him what happened and appoglize about it. Hope this helps
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I disagree that it was rude to say yu could still go, you were just putting out the offer. But yes you should apologize for not being able to go, but just once and if he doesnt except he probably isnt worth the trouble
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yea you should appologize to him about not being able to go....
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