I'm 13 and I play the flute. I'm on a swim team! Love hanging out with my friends,going to movies, and anything else! haha lol
E-mail: ashleyswimmer@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 13
AIM: cntrygrl2010
Member Since: November 26, 2004
Answers: 21
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okay...my friend hates me very very very much because i told her that tradition isn't always the best thing...i think is kind of dumb that she hates me for not wanting to follow tradition. What should i do?
signed: the helpless (link)
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Hi!
I'm kinda lost. What kind of tradition is it? bc it kinda depends on wut it is... im me at cntrygrl010 so we can talk.
Ashley
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Hey ash!! Well idk if im gunna ask ya a question or not but i wanted to tell ya that i love ya and however wrote i love you, i hate graham, but i love you! are stupid and need to get a beat down!! haah love ya
*Emiley (link)
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hehe thnx emiley! ur so sweet! hehe we r tha 2 cntry grls! hehe! good times! lol
ash
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okay, i know everybody says your beautiful no matter what, but i dont feel that way. I feel as though im an ugly duckling. i mean im fat, ugly and i just dont feel like i am beautiful. If anyone has any tips on how i can feel more better about myself..then please help!! Cause i dont feel good..i feel alone & i feel like killing myself but i wont. (link)
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First of all.. don't kill yourself! It's not healthy to think like that. If you don't think your beautiful try thinking positive. Every girl thinks that at one point of another. that they rn't beautiful. We r our own individual! We r special & beautiful! Don't think negative things about urself. bc it'll just leave another problem. Good luck!
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i love you, i hate graham, but i love you! (link)
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Who is this?
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I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself? (link)
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Don't tell yourself that you hate yourself. Your parents and friends love you no matter what. And friends fight. That's just what friends do but the you get stronger and the friendship is growing. Boys r boys... Don't listen to'em.. Not all guys like the popular girls.. Just give it some time. You will find a guy someday. Believe in yourself. Try not to think so negative about everything. Good luck!
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My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do? (link)
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It's ok if your jealous of your friend. We all do it at some point or another. You should tell your friend how you feel and tell her how you were kinda jealous that she got the part and you didn't. I'm sure she will understand! good luck
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Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this? (link)
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ok. It was kinda wrong to tell your friends secret if she told you not to tell anyone. But now that you have and she's mad you should do something. Try talking to her about it even if she won't listen keep trying. Friendships are hard but that's what is strong about it. Just be honest with your friend and tell her your sorry.
Good Luck!
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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much! (link)
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One time my friends sister had a wall full of pictures... She put tape on the back of them so it wouldn't ruin them and stuck them on her wall. It looked really kewl! hope i helped
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Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space. (link)
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Your friend really needs to stop cutting herself. It's not right to do that to yourself. You r right and it's not a funny situation. You need to keep on helping her and maybe mention to her seeing a counselor or somebody else that she can talk to.. That might help. If not, you go to one and get advice for her and then do it that way. It might work! good luck
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Ok, there's this guy at my school (i live in Vermont) who everyone thinks is gay. Even though the rumors are most likely not true, no one wants to be his friend because of rumors, and neither do my friends. I really think it's terrible how people treat him, and I want to be his friend; I don't believe sexual orientation should affect friendship. How should I be his friend without making my friends mad, or making him feel uncomfortable when my friends want to hang out with me? (link)
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You are probably right that the rumors aren't true. and you shouldn't judge a friendship of if they r straight or something... Just be his friend. You shouldn't care about what other people think... soo I think you should just be friends with the guy! good luck
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
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Ok. First of all most all guys are shy at first. So don't worry! I thought the same thing too.. To make him more comfortable around u just kinda start up conversation. if you want him to kiss you or hold your hand, well some guys r shy about that at first. but you should make the first move bc it breaks the ice. If you want it to last "communication" is the key. If you want to see him outside of school maybe go to a community activity,movie, or something like that.
Hope I helped! good luck
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i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
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if you like this guy you shouldn't listen to what other people are saying. sometimes people think or say bad stuff about other people when they don't even know them at all. So if you like him and he likes u yall should give it a chance. Don't listen to what people say. Good Luck!
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i have been anarexic for 3 months.. My boyfriend is really worried about me, and really wants me to stop.. i have tried to do that for him.. but i just cant make myself.. i am 13, 5'8 and i weigh 65 pounds.. what should i do? (link)
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You need to get some help or talk to someone. a friend,parent,family member,school counselour or a doctor. If you keep it to yourself it will only get worse. I know.. My friend became anerexic and didn't tell anyone for a whole month. she really messed her body up. She decided she needed some help and went to a friend. I know it's hard to stop but atleast go to a doctor and He/she will help you
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Ok they is this guy at school that I like but He is like well no one likes him and ever one makes fun of him but I really dont know why because He is soooo FINE and he like me too but the thing is I don care what people think of me and I am popular so like what do I do (link)
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If you like this guy & he likes u too u should give him a chance. but don't go out with him if your just feeling sry for him. People will always find something negative about their friends. Follow your heart.
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ok well latley i havn't been myself and i don't know how to fix it. i meen i pray and stuff and i am a strong christian . but i dunno it is wierd cause i don't even know who me is when people say your name you feel like you are somone when i hear it is like just my name nothin speacial just a word that was given to me. and it is wierd cause when i pray latley bad things seem to happen like in some way i get hurt emotiionally my friend hates me or somthing of such matter.
so here is the question how do i firgure out who the real me is again the one that everyone knew that i knew. the one who can think clearly
thnx
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Your problem is one that I once had. but not anymore! I'm also a strong christian. But, I aslo couldn't figure out who "me" was. I also was very stressed at the time and having problems with friends and that kind of stuff. The way I fixed is that I asked all my friends who they thought I was,my personality, and that kind of stuff... and soon enough I figured out who "me" was. So just hang in there! Good Luck
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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!) (link)
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If you like wut u do and have time for it there is no reason to quit unless u want to. don't listen to wut other ppl think or say! they r just jealous bc u can do all the stuff u can! if u like doing wut u do dont stop!
hope i helped!
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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw? (link)
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You should never loose weight or anything just bc a guy doesn't like you. There is always guys who want to change girls. But we r our own individual and if they don't like you for you it's their loss. Everybody finds a guy at a diff. time! It's not wut is on the outside that counts. its wut is on the inside! otherwise they rn't worth ur time!
good luck
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We're getting pretty close. But my best guy friend..who's slept over my house a lot and he's always calling me and always around me..well, now he says that he keeps getting tempted to kiss me and he wants to hook up even if he has to share me. i think its crazy. but i dunno what to tell him. hes really fun and ive had questions whether i like him or not. but i really like my boyfriend and i wanna be with him so bad. what should i tell my best friend? (link)
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You should ask yourself is it worth leaving your boyfriend for your best friend?
You should follow your heart and if you like 1 and not the other than thats fine. Just make sure you make the right decision. If you don't want your boyfriend tell him you just want to be friends rite now. And u can also say that to your best friend. but if u want to go out with ur best friend make sure it's the rite thing! I went out with my best friend and we rn't the same ne more! So just follow your heart. Hope I helped! Good Luck
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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do? (link)
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What your boyfriend wants is normal. Every boy wants it. If you aren't ready tell him that and if he understands thats great! If not you may want to reconsider things. If you think this guy will hurt you he's not worth your time. Hope I helped! Good luck!
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i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef. (link)
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I know exactly wut u r going thru! I still kinda think like u r! The best way to fix it is just say to yourself you r pretty and try not to think of yourself negative, or compare ur self 2 other ppl. That only makes things worse. U r ur own individual and u should be happy about ur self! Just believe every1 and try to think positive!
Good luck!
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