Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:52 pm
okay, i know everybody says your beautiful no matter what, but i dont feel that way. I feel as though im an ugly duckling. i mean im fat, ugly and i just dont feel like i am beautiful. If anyone has any tips on how i can feel more better about myself..then please help!! Cause i dont feel good..i feel alone & i feel like killing myself but i wont.
CoKeIzZle answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:03 pm: hey sweetie,DON'T LOOK ON THE NEGITIVE SIDE!!everyone is beautiful in their own special way!And if you wanna lose weight go to a gym,go on a deit.Get a new and interesting hair cut!Watch the style channel!Get a new woredrobe.But i think you are probably beuatiful!Everythinks they are ugly!SO talk to your friends and ask for the truth before you do ANY of this!Ask your friends 1st "what need sto change about u"hope i helped! xoxo nicole [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Thursday December 30 2004, 3:45 pm: omg dont evern feel like that, Learn to love yourself, go out and do things to make you feel likea better person have a freind you go to the Gym with Reg, or every week go out to lunch with somebody and have planns , get out and dont have a negative side, try to think postive and just get yourself out of the funk! [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
cntrygrl2010 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:15 pm: First of all.. don't kill yourself! It's not healthy to think like that. If you don't think your beautiful try thinking positive. Every girl thinks that at one point of another. that they rn't beautiful. We r our own individual! We r special & beautiful! Don't think negative things about urself. bc it'll just leave another problem. Good luck! [ cntrygrl2010's advice column | Ask cntrygrl2010 A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 9:49 am: well don't kill yourself get some self esteem because right now your self esteem is not high you have to think beyond the box or outside the box well you could lose weight by eating good foods and well maybe running around where you live don't feel alone you have your family and freinds you just have to think i am beautful and that nothing anybody says will stand in your way and walk with your head up high and if you don't like something about yourself then change it.
remember change is good.
sunshine [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:11 am: Exercise some.It clears your mind and it gets you in shape.Since its winter maybe you could take up ice skating and get a bunch of friends to go ice skating with you.And also smile more and dont focus on what you dont like about yourself.Try to find something you really love about yourself and do something to bring it out.Like i really like my eyes just cause i like the color of them and how they change colors so i wear colors that bring out my eyes and always do my eye make up even if its the only thing i do . And stop caring what people think . I used to have a really really low self esteem like i was soo scared about what i would wear to school cause people would be looking at my judging me . And then this year i realized it doesnt matter what they think my friends dont care what i think and we all have differnet styles.So sometime i literally roll out of bed in sweats and a shirt and brush my hair and do a quick make up run and leave. Dont try to be something your not. If we all looked the same and acted the same this world would be so freaking boring that it wouldnt even be funny.So just surround yourself with happy upbeat people and you'll end up feeling better.(laughing always makes people feel better) [ iNsAnelyKrAzie76313's advice column | Ask iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday December 30 2004, 1:46 am: Hey I was really low self esteemish until i found that makeup really boosted my confidence. And dressing nice and doing my hair like straightening or curling it. Buy some makeup like lip gloss blush eyeshadow and stuff..put it on and you'll feel 10x better about yourself! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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