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Am I being touchy?
Me and this guy are really close. And he did stupid crap in the past but says he doesn't do them anymore. He's at a party tonight and i can't help but fear he's gonna go back on all that he promised me. We are just friends so should I be this worried? And if he does stuff, should I care? He's only my friend. Not like he's cheating on me. But yet i sit hear trembling he's doing exactly what he said he wouldnt...
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Hey hun,hes your friend,you should be able to trust him! You shouldn't be worried!But if you wanna find out if he is still oding that ask one of his guy friends!hope i helped xoxo nicole
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Sounds like you don't trust him because he has betrayed your trust in the past. There is nothing you can do if he does the same things again except protect yourself. If he was involved in drugs or other criminal activity, I would hope you would not get in a car with him. If he is stopped and drugs found, you will go to jail with him. Same thing on other criminal activity. Distance yourself from him until he proves himself. Don't drive in a car anywhere with him, talk on the phone, or at your house, don't allow him to talk you into anything that goes against what you know is right. If he is straight, these new rules won't bother him and he wil understand. If he gets upset and starts a scene, he is probably trying to hide something and then you should end the friendship to protect yourself.
Too many so called friends have sent their friends to jail for having drugs in the same car with them, or involving them in criminal activities without telling them what is going on. I know of one 16 year old girl who was sent to juvenile for 5 years because her "friend" asked her to wait in the car while he ran into the 7-11 - only problem, he was robbing it. She was charged too because the police did not believe she wasn't part of the plan. You can not be too careful today.
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If he's a close friend, no reason why you shouldn't worry about him. But it really depends on what you are worried him getting into. If you talking about thing going on between him and someone else, well then I think that might be a bit much. On the same hand, if it is truly something that is not good for him then you should worry. If you feel that strongly about this guy, do you think you might want to be more than just friends with him? Think about that.
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well if you guyz are just friends like not best friends or boyfriend girlfriend i don't see why you should be feeling this way. i mean you may care about him but i mean it's his choice. and if you guyz are close friends then he should keep the promises. good luck -xoemilyanne
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