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boy trouble


Question Posted Saturday December 11 2004, 11:58 pm

i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.


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PerkyPeacock answered Sunday December 12 2004, 11:21 pm:
ignore what they're saying if you feel strongly enough. but ask yourself if you want to have a pot lifestyle or date someone who does it. if the answer is no, find someone else.

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SunShineAngel3 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 7:43 pm:
hey if you like him date him, and dont believe the rumors i did once trust me not good at all.. and who cares what your friends think i mean its their opinion and you have yours so fallow your heart and do what you think is right

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nikole__ answered Sunday December 12 2004, 7:22 pm:
Tell your friends that you like him, and don't think he's a bad guy at all. In the end, friends matter, but I think your happiness matters first. Don't let your friends ruin your chances with him just because of what they heard at school about his reputation. Go for him, and good luck!

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hockeygurl632 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 6:23 pm:
Go for him. His reputation isn't the important thing. He could be the love of your life, you never know. Don't let something like what your friends think hold you back. Hope i helped!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 4:37 pm:
i would tell them what you think of him and why you like him you need to point that out to people so they can see where you are coming from

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cntrygrl2010 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 3:55 pm:
if you like this guy you shouldn't listen to what other people are saying. sometimes people think or say bad stuff about other people when they don't even know them at all. So if you like him and he likes u yall should give it a chance. Don't listen to what people say. Good Luck!

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Boytalk2004 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 2:21 pm:
Ask him if it is true and if he says no go out with him but don't let ur gurad down til u know he is not!

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KayleeBabe308 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 1:51 pm:
If you really like this guy, do not listen to anyone else! It is always right to trust your heart and instincts, and you should be able to make your own decisions about people. If he's a perfectly cool guy, you could always tell people to lay off or just ignore them, but if you like this guy, go for it, and stop worrying about what other people think. *Kaylee*

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Karen answered Sunday December 12 2004, 11:56 am:
Sweetie, forget about what your friends think about this guy! They are the ones who should be supportive and there for you! Talk to them! Tell them how you feel! You shouldn't care about what others think! Just follow your heart and stay with this guy! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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xOmY_qOoDiEs answered Sunday December 12 2004, 10:34 am:
if yOu rEalLy LikE hIm gO fOr iT. dOnt cARe whAt oThEr pEopLE sAy oR tHiNk. iTs oK fOR yOU tO hAVe YOur oPinIoN on hIm tO. sOrRy.gOod LuCk. [xO_hEaTHEr]

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NikNik answered Sunday December 12 2004, 4:46 am:
dont worry about what other people think...its not them likeing him or wanting to be with him and its not them who kissed him so tell them to get a life and stay outta your buissness.

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lacuna answered Sunday December 12 2004, 2:44 am:
hi there if he smokes pot think about it this way how many pot heads do you know that make a good living and care alot about their spouses and want to go and participate in life in general (that doesnt include going to toke one with the guys) pot heads are lazy and only worry about that next high he may care right now but personally i think it is only to get in bed with you and if you hook up with the pot head they are known to mooch off of others so lets put this in to perspective when you move out on your own and have a job the b-friend will be home tokng one and waiting for you to pay all the bills and buy his weed so he can get the high and the free ride on your tab so stay away from this one he is bad news

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pInKkAkEs082 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 2:29 am:
dont worry about it! if you think he is good enough for you then he is :) and dont listen to what everyone else says. i hate people like that - who dont like something & try to mkae others not like it! If you like him go for it.. and good luck -Katie

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sunshine1030 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 2:16 am:
if you really like him, and if your friend are your true friends, then they shouldn't care what you do, and you should go for it with him. i know that it's hard to do things that your friends don't approve of, but in the long run it's your life, and you should feel free to do whatever you want to do. unless you find out some really bad info on him, then i see no harm in dating him, as long as he's a good guy besides the fact that he's called a pothead...if he's got a good personality, then go for it. hope this helped

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M&S answered Sunday December 12 2004, 1:56 am:
I think you should just ignore your friends and go with wut ur heart tells you. On the other hand you should just find out if he really does pot and crack and stuff. You really should because I wuz in that type of situation. Beleve me! You really need to.

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LiLAnGeLDeViL4659 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 1:32 am:
Well, I will tell you what I have told everyone else that is *semi* to this question. Follow to what your heart tells you. Don't worry about what other ppl* think.. Remember if you do worry about what ppl* think all the time then how are you gonna* get through life! So yeah just like him for him and believe what you wanna* believe. The real person that can give you advice is you I can just help you think of what you can do. Hope I Helped You :)! Good Luck! If you need more advice ask me I might know what your looking for :).
Shannon

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xluvinux answered Sunday December 12 2004, 12:59 am:
If you like him, forget what your friends say. It's possible they say that just because they are jealous. You don't have to listen to what they say; if you like him go for it! =)
//laura

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