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hate myself and life
I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself?
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I cant really help you get a guy but i can tell you that guys are real mean to at such as a age when we are teens. I mean look at the adults.. alot of ugly people are married. I doubt your ugly but if you truelly think so im sure you'll be married and will be fine. A guy will love you for you and thats all-trix
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Who gives a shit what they think "they" are just shallow losers anyway! And your friends most likely think you're the greatest otherwise the wouldn't hang out with you, and friends get into fights all the time. And you should love life because it is soo funny sometimes!
*Kate*
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Don't tell yourself that you hate yourself. Your parents and friends love you no matter what. And friends fight. That's just what friends do but the you get stronger and the friendship is growing. Boys r boys... Don't listen to'em.. Not all guys like the popular girls.. Just give it some time. You will find a guy someday. Believe in yourself. Try not to think so negative about everything. Good luck!
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i hope you take this into consideration...ok...your just like i am to be totally honest with you...i mean i'm always negative about almost everything like the way i look but what people dont understand is they need to stop looking on the outside of people and get to know them and see whats in the inside...thats why so many people in this world are Haters because they are to judgemental...i mean everytime you think something negative about your life or something then think 3 positive things about your self and see if that helps...you could be a depressed person...i mean if you hate your life and yourself then you could have some kind of depression...i'm not trying to be harsh but i'm trying to give you an answer on what might could help you...talk to your parents about it and ask them if you could have a depression disorder or go to a doctor and talk to them about what you've been going through and see if they could give you some kind of med's for your anger...i hope i helped you in some way.-Nikki
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me tOo...tOugh.
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Don't even stress over boys. They are really not worth it. They are immature and don't understand what's right in front of them. Wait a little while and then you'll find a guy that is actually worth your time. If these guys don't like you right now, then they aren't worth your time. Parents and their kids always fight so don't worry about that and maybe you need to find some new friends. Don't get stressed out because you are having a minor slump in your life. Everything will turn out fine soon enough just wait for it.
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I've been there. You just have to not care so much what other people think. Keep in mind that nothing that happens at school will matter down the road. And since things are bad at school, you should get even closer with your family. They really are supportive. I think your main concern should be sorting out whatever is going on with them.
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your being way to hard on yourself..guys tell you your ugly..ohh tht shyt girll..you cant take it from them..try gettin professional help cuz it seems like your stressed out..and your only lettin the bad things take over your lyfe..and your not lookin at the good things..trust me theres alotta good htings in your lyfe..your just not payin attentioon..w/ your parents and fighting..again..talk to them mayb like theyll see how lyfes treatin yah and y you may get into arguements w/ them...theyyll calm down..boys..ohh dont worry..i feel the same way trust me..guys arent important rite now specially with wut your goin through..forget bout them..it may help..gys are always problems..hehe im me..we'll talk if yah wanna..iix3yOu4evEr
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You may want to go to thearpy. All this stress is probably overwelleming (or however you spell it) you. My uncle is one so if you live in CA leave one in my inbox and I'll give you some info. I hope I helped!
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you're falling for the wrong guys... you're falling for the ones that are superficial and don't care about anything other than cup size. ignore them. they're not worth it. you don't want to date them or be like the girls they date. it's not worth selling yourself out like that.
talk to your parents about having all the fights and such, they prolly are just as confused. schedule in some time every week/day that you spend with them, to do something together. i know someone who started going ice skating with their parents, and it's much better for them now.
and get some confidence! it's more beautiful than anything on anyone!
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you know i used to feel the same way. i still do sometimes. the thing that got me through it was doing things i enjoy. i would read, or go for a run. i would feel better about myself and find the strength to move on. i even went to counseling for a while. all of this helped, but what i found the most benneficial was talking it out with my friends and my parents, and sisters. i realized that they were worried about me and that they did care about me, but just didnt know how to say it. now i am sure a guy likes you, but maybe you just seem like you dont like them. i know i used to be really shy around guys but i realized,that came across as rude and mean. once i talked to them, i discovered that some did like me. but really talk to your friends and family.. and if you ever need to talk feel free to email me or ask another question.. stay strong..
me
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hey, everyone fights with their parents, I do all the time. Boys are jerks, and they try to make themselves look better when they make fun of other people, or are mean. Just ignore them and think for yourself. And you and your friends are going to fight too, its normal, but find Jesus and pray about it
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Whatever you do do NOT say that you are ugly, that just leads to bigger problems. and if you think that you and your friends fight too much then maybe you should talk to them or see what its like when you put yourself in their shoes, maybe they feel the same way. i should know because i used to feel the same way as you, i didnt think that anyone like me and i didnt know what to do, then i talked to my friends about it and we worked it out, and maybe no boys like you (or at least you think that none of them like you) because you have a bad attitude towards it, if you stop thinking about what other people think about you then maybe you wont be so stressed out and trust me stress is bad, i was so stressed out that i threw up every three days but then i talked to my friends and my parents and they got me through it. besides you have to have at least one friend that can lend an ear to you. and trust me, your life is only as bad as you make it so lighten up and stop worrying.
Good Luck! ~*Livie*~
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Hey Sweetie* okay all you can do is live your life! i mean what can you do ? kill yurself? no thats not an option and i wont let you! 0:-) but okay for the parents - if they love you thats all that matters! friends - talk to them and settle the fighting! boys - life isnt all about boys! and neither is being popular! popularity isnt important! hope i helped! ___x0 KASEY
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Are you a teenager? bc its normal...you'll get over it eventually..and if you don't, then go to the doctor or get therapy...but seriously..I know what you're going thru and it sucks..but it happens..you just have to wait for the right guy to find you..he'll like you for you..none of the other guys are right for you..bc if they were..they'd like you!! You'll make-up w.your friends, you're parents will understand that its hard being a teenager, and you'll realize its just as hard to raise one. But if you really feel like sooo upset all the time..you should go to the doctor and get some medicine or go to therapy...
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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just try and be happy, look at the brighter side of things. if you think your pretty then you are! dont listen to what others say about you, because what matters is what you think, and thats it! dont let them bring you down. You and your friends will be good again, just think of it as another bump in the road you need to get over. All kids fight with their parents. just try not to get into as many. but its great that you know they love you, and i hope you love them too! I hope I helped. leave on in my inbox if you need anything else!
Alexandra x3
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ok...its only natural for you and your parents to fight, I fight with mine all the time! Im glad you still realize they love you! AS for you and your friends, try talking to them, if you have been hurt than try writing them a note or talking to them explaining how you feel. If you have no idea what you did, chances are that you did do something unintentionaly. Just say "Did i do anything to offened you or make you mad?" and work it out from there. Ok GUYS! guys used to tell me I was ugly all the time! It's ok don't worry about it! I'm sure your not ugly! As for the popular girls they like...it's called being shallow! have you ever thought about why there popular? in order to be popular you usually are known for doing something morally degrading. You will find the guy that is perfect for you... you just have to be patient the good ones are worth waiting for! trust me...i waited! As far as im concerened theres nothing wrong with you...Your just HUMAN...everyone has problems and trials to overcome...just stay strong and once you are finished with your problem..you will probubly be even stronger knowing that you can overcome anything that comes your way!
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Talk to someone about it, like a consular or something. You need to talk to someone before things get worse.. find a friend you can relate to.. talking will help.
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You know, I can relate to how you're feeling. I'm recently in a fight with an EX best friend (I'm not gunna get into detail). Anyway you have to look beyond the assholes you're fighting with. Whether you're at fault or not, your life is not a game so if you really hate your life that much leave them be. Boys are idiots. They only think the popular girls are girlfriend material. The right guy will come along, don't worry. Now about your parents, talk to them, tell them how you feel. Maybe that will release some anger so there's less fighting, and it's good for you to realize that they love you. Take this into consideration: You only live once, so make the best of it!
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aww I'm sorry.. I know how you feel though (not exactly, of course, everyone's situation is different). If it helps any, I used to fight with my parents and all my friends, and I've never been hot enough for the guys. First off, the guys who've been telling you you're ugly are just jackasses (sry for the language) and you shouldn't listen to them. And secondly, I think you should go to a doctor or a psychiatrist. The doctor might be able to give you anti-depressants (they gave them to me and they helped a LOT) and the psychiatrist is just someone to talk to - you can tell them stuff and they're not allowed to tell ANYBODY anything you say (or you can sue them:-)). And lastly - whatever you do, don't hurt yourself. Nothing's bad enough for that. I hope I helped!
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