~About me~
Name:: Alexandra
Gender:: 100% gurl
Age:: 15
Birthday:: November 20th
Grade:: Sophomore! (10th)
Hair color:: Dark brown
Eye Color:: Brown
Status:: Taken
Sign: Scorpio
~Additional Info~
Fav. color:: Piink
Fav. drink:: Water
Fav. Food:: anything filipino
Idol:: Adrianna Lima, Mya, Angelina Jolie
Fav Movie:: Sleepers, Murder in the first
Fav. song:: Wonderful Tonight, What you so mad at?, without you, goodies, and anything by the temptations
Yeah, so I will help anyone. i've been through alot in my life... alot having to do with: family, friends, relationship, school and alot more... i know alot about health issues. I love to help people. so if you have a question just leave one in my inbox and i will answer it as soon as i can and i will answer it the best i can.
Website: my pictures
Gender: Female
Location: New york
Occupation: student - sophomore year in high school
Age: 15
AIM: xtemptashunz
Member Since: August 19, 2004
Answers: 86
Last Update: March 1, 2005
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i wanna smoke some weed because it look like it can be something to try . my brother said he tryed at my age hes 19 im 13 so do I and will i be able to stop (link)
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im not gunna say "DONT DO IT ITS GUNNA RUIN YOUR LIFE!!" like everyone else says, beacause well i have family members that smoke weed, and one of them is in there 50's and they have been doing it snice they were teenagers, and they are extrememly smart, and they dont regret it. Im 15, Ive done it once, and seeing ive been around the smoke since i was 6, i got high the first time. It was fun. That was a little over a month ago. And I haven't smoked snice, because i dont want it to get caught up with my schoolwork. Im not gunna lie, I'll prolly do it a few times in the summer. I guess what Im trying to say is, if your gunna do it, do it responsibly, dont let it caught up in your school work, you wouldn't want to fail classes because of it, dont become a slacker. And Dont do it that much, just every now and then to catch a little high. As far as i know, its not like cigarettes, so its not addictive, its only addictive mentally, not pyshically... so depending on how mentally stable/strong you are will depend on how fast you can quite, and its not like your gunna get addicted the first time you smoke. Have fun, and be responsible!!! Hope I helped, and if you need anything else leave one in my inbox
Alexandra x3
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Hey! Im looking into seeing broadway shows, i love watching them and i was wondering if anyone had some they'd like to recomend!?
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-Cats ... its magnificent, catchy, I loved it
-Phantom of the Opera .. beautiful, gorgous story line, singings magical
-Crazy About You .. my school did that as there musical last year, and it was astounding... so it must be much better professionally done.
they are all fantastic!
Alexandra x3
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how do u just make a guy go crazy.. and make him fall for you. i know to be yourself.. but what are little extra things that he will just love? any girls who know how to make their boyfriends go crazy?.. or guy.. what turns you on? (link)
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well my boyfriend is crazy for me.. and all i did to get him that way was be myself, i love to act dorky, and i think him seeing me act that way and not care.. i think he likes that cause it shows i have confidence. So let him know you have confidence, show it, dont say it. One major thing i know he loved was.. we went to the mall, and we went into a whole bunch of my stores (girly stores), and after a while he asked where are we going next, and i told him to take me to some of his stores. That way he knows your not all about yourself and your interested in his stuff. Hang out with him and his friends (hang with the boys), and if/when they burp or fart or anything, and they say excuse me or something else like they're embarassed, be like 'haha i dont care do what you want'. My guy seems to love that. I think its just he knows he can be himself around me, and he knows im interested in him and not self-centered.
Im not sure if any of that sounds appealing to use or anything, but If you want any more ideas, Leave one in my inbox and I'll conjur up a few more tips. Good luck!
Alexandra x3
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when i laugh really hard i start to pee..its starting to get embarrising. is this a problem? or what can i do to stop? (link)
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pee before you laugh.. or when you start to laugh really hard sit on a toilette?
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ok i need a serious answer on this because i am really confused. i want to shave "down there" but i don't know how because last time i did i got major razor burn and itched forever and it was soooo uncofortable so i don't know how to do it and how much to take off... do you shave all of it off? please help (link)
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Well use a fresh new razor, and shaving creme. shave off what ever you feel is enough, and when your done, put lotion down there so it shouldn't itch as much, and then sprinkle alittle baby powder down there also.
Alexandra x3
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What are the affects of taking the Morning after pill too late?
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Well, taking the morning after pill doesn't necessarily mean that you wont get pregnant. If sperm has already reached the egg, then taking the morning after pill wont stop you from getting pregnant. All the pill does is stop you from ovulating. So if you take it too late then you have a higher risk off getting pregnant.
Hope that answered your question.
Alexandra x3
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Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP! (link)
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Wait! Wait Wait, get to know eachother a little better before you take it to the next level. And then when he feels as though its time to take it up a step, he'll probably ask you. So just be patient and wait. Hope I helped. Leave one in my inbox sometime!
Alexandra x3
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so i was at school to day well pretty much like i am everyday and i realised that i really dont have any close friends sure ive got friends but no close friends i should really change that you no.but i dont know how (link)
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HA, its kinda funny that you should mention that, because I'm basically stuck in the same ditch as you. I only have one really close friend and that is my boyfriend, the rest, to me, are just an acquaintance, but I kinda like it this way. I say they are actually friends if we hang out, talk online/ on the phone every now and then. My suggestion to you is ask a few of your Friends if they wanna hang out sometime, or go shoping or something. BOND! Have fun. Then they will probably start asking you if you want to hang out more. So try that, and if that doesn't work then leave one in my inbox, and I will help you again.
Alexandra x3
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Heres the thing..there is this guy and hes in one of my classes and i like him alot. but all of my friends are asking him out for me and i really dont want them to but they juss go up to him and say Will you go out with her. and hes saying "why is every one asking me that" and hes getting really pissed and like that he will never want to go out with me. so how do i make my friends stop and also how do i get him to want to go out with me .. because all my friends say im a big tease and i flirt to much but i dont think i do.. PLEASE HELP
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1)Tell your friends to stop bugging him. Tell them that you'll do it on your own when you feel its the right time.
2)You cant make someone like you, but if he does maybe you should just talk to him yourself. Start out with a casual conversation. Then tell him that your sorry for how your friends have been acting, that you didn't want them to bother him like that. Then just tell him straight out "well its true tho, I have liked you for a while now, and I wanna know if you feel the same way". And let things progress from there.
Just remember tho, hes just a guy and if he doesn't like you in that way then dont keep on bugging him about it trying to make him like you. Theres plenty of other guys out there.
Best of luck to you! Hope everything goes well. Leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything else
-Alexandra
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No offense to anyone. If you take it offensivly, good for you. That is fine and dandy. But get the hell over yourselves.
Why is it that girls are all bitches and guys always seem to be assholes? (link)
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cause there teenagers and are 'stressed' out.
but not every girl is a bitch, unless you piss them off
and not every guy is an asshole... although there hard to come by, but alot of guys are really sweeties but their worried about their image so they'll act like assholes
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hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do? (link)
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EHHH.. thats a bad situation you got yourself into. heres what i would do. i would tell my boyfriend right away! it would be best if he heard the news from you instead of someone else. maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break and date other people. because if your liking other people then it really isn't fair to your boyfriend. just go talk 2 your boyfriend right away, and i hope things go well!
Alexandra x3
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I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself? (link)
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just try and be happy, look at the brighter side of things. if you think your pretty then you are! dont listen to what others say about you, because what matters is what you think, and thats it! dont let them bring you down. You and your friends will be good again, just think of it as another bump in the road you need to get over. All kids fight with their parents. just try not to get into as many. but its great that you know they love you, and i hope you love them too! I hope I helped. leave on in my inbox if you need anything else!
Alexandra x3
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I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help? (link)
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ok, heres what you do. seeing that you've only had your period for 10 months now its not gunna relgulate to a schedule, because its new to you body, thazt will take a couple more months maybe longer. Wear pantylinears just in case u do get a leak. Seeing that you dont carry a purse and your not gunna start, just leave a pad or tampon in your locker and when you notice that you have your period you can go get it, just put it in your bnder or sumin as your walking to the bathroom so no one notices. I hope I helped
Alexandra x3
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okay has anyone ever like put on coverup or something and it looks all flakey? is there anyway to make them go away or a certain way to put it on without it looking like that? (link)
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dont use as much, and/or after you apply the cover up put lotion on your hands, just a lil bit, and rub your face well wih it to blend the cover up better and then pat your face with a towel. hope i helped
alexandra x3
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I sweat under my armpits A LOT!! and i just want to find out a way nto stop because i always have to wear sweatshirts to cover it up. HELP ASAP!! (link)
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buy anti-perspirant deoderant. roll on deoderant works best
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Hey I have natrually thick wavy hair a few inches past my shoulders..and I try and scrunch it all the time...but I always have a few problems. I have a lot of hair products ( Scrunch spray, curl revial spray, moose, scrunching gell, regular gell..a lot more ) and I don't know which one is the best to use. Also it's really poofy when I scrunch it..any tips? Thanks so muchhh! (link)
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get our hair thinned, and then it would be much easier to style, and not as poofy. i have the same kind of hair except its curly instead of wavy. but anyways Use gel, put it on your hands and like smear it on them, then run your hand over and under and thru your hair, and do this till all of it is covered in gel, the take a fine toothed comb and comb thru it, it will get out excess gel. then scrunch it. after you have it scrunched spray a little hairspray just in case. hope i helped!
Alexandra x3
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what does popping your cherry mean ?
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popping the cherry means when a girl has sex for the first time for some girl the penetration will 'pop their cherry' (im not exactly sure myself as to what the 'cherry' is, but for some girls when it pop/ breaks, blood comes out. yeah, i hoped that helped some.
Alexandra x3
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16/f how do you know if you are a lesbion or bisexual? (link)
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u just know, its something you are sure of, if you wuestion it your most likey not. bosexual is when you are attracted to both sexes, and lesbian is when your attracted to just girls
Alexandra x3
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can someone please tell me how i can become a model? like im not expericened but i really want to become one! how can i go get pictures to where i can enter in a modeling agency? (link)
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find an agency somehow. idunno how they always found me and my sister by scouts. we just went out to the mall alot and out to eat and thats how they found us, they approached us. but the pictures cost alot of money so we never got into it. so yea, try oing out to public areas more ofter, scouts are always looking
Alexandra x3
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ok i put this up before but i just wanna know something eles ok well like i probably have add and i didnt tell my mom about it and im talking to a school counsler but i dont know if i should tell my mom should i?
help please
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yes, its not like it thats big of a deal either so yeah, tell her
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