Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 9:09 pm
Heres the thing..there is this guy and hes in one of my classes and i like him alot. but all of my friends are asking him out for me and i really dont want them to but they juss go up to him and say Will you go out with her. and hes saying "why is every one asking me that" and hes getting really pissed and like that he will never want to go out with me. so how do i make my friends stop and also how do i get him to want to go out with me .. because all my friends say im a big tease and i flirt to much but i dont think i do.. PLEASE HELP
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2)You cant make someone like you, but if he does maybe you should just talk to him yourself. Start out with a casual conversation. Then tell him that your sorry for how your friends have been acting, that you didn't want them to bother him like that. Then just tell him straight out "well its true tho, I have liked you for a while now, and I wanna know if you feel the same way". And let things progress from there.
Just remember tho, hes just a guy and if he doesn't like you in that way then dont keep on bugging him about it trying to make him like you. Theres plenty of other guys out there.
Best of luck to you! Hope everything goes well. Leave one in my inbox if you ever need anything else
TheTeenGirl answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:51 pm: Tell them to quit asking now, and say "if you don't quit, and I find out about it, I will be upset with you and not talk to you." Give them a threat that you're serious and want it to stop.
different answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:46 pm: Why dont you ask him personallY?
Some guys (like me) are just shy.
We simply get nervous around girls we like.
Rhe only way to hide this feeling is through anger. Just ask him. But I suggest asking him in private.and try not to intimidate him too much. Make him feel comfortable in the way you present your Question. [ different's advice column | Ask different A Question ]
xXtashmahottieOo answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:26 pm: My friends did that to me like crazy and truthfully i wouldnt talk to him cuz that would be a bit aqward. but if you want to go ahead. but theres no way to stop your friends ive tried it doesnt work. they say what they want. but dont let that get you down things will work out right i mean everything happens for a reason. The best thing to do is not react cuz then theyll get bored of doing it and stop...thats what my friends did and now were prctically going out...well sortof.
hope i helped if not sorry.
<3 always diane [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:21 pm: tell your friends to mind their own damn buisness and stay out of yours. if theyre really your friends they wont want to screw it up for you, wich it appears they are. maybe theyre jealous. whip out some awsome kung fu and whoop em with him watching. hell think its cool [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
iNdEeD2isBaK answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:19 pm: first talk to him
(you tlkin 2 him) LOOK IM SORRY ABOUT MY FRIENDS THEY R JUST BEING THE IDIOTS THEY ARE BUT THEY DO SAY ONE THING THAT IS TRUE...I LIKE YOU!!!
(you 2 ur friends) PLZZZ STOP BUGGING HIM AND ASKING HIM TO GO OUT WITH ME, I CAN DO THAT MYSELF.
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:16 pm: Hey hun,
Just have a sincere talk with your friends about how you feel and how you might not ever get your chance to go out with him due to their behavior. If they are real friends they will stop. :)
Also, If you want to get him to like you, don't act too flirty with him...just treat him like a friend but be like a little more than friend but not a flirt...understand? :) It will make him feel that you will wait for him. Just be yourself, babe. And if he doesn't like you there are PLENTY of other guys that you will meet and fall in and out of love with :)
Good Luck, hunny :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
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