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i am so sad
the guy i like with all my heart is mad at me and i dont noe why. i tryed talking to him but all i got was him cussing me out. then i tryed calling and trying to find out what i did wrong and all i got was him telling me not to be stupid and that i noe what i did when i have no idea what i did. i dont noe what to do?? i am sad bc i really like this guy and this is what i get. i have known him for a year now. plz help ??????
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Think about it. Did you say anything rude about him to anyone at all? Did you make fun of him behind his back? Did you make fun of him in front of him? Did you laugh at him? Did you talk to a guy that he hates, or maybe he is jealous of? Did you hit him, hurt him at all? Did you say something that could have hurt him but he said nothing about? Think about the last time you guys talked when you were getting along, remember the conversation, did you say anything that could have made him upset? and if you say no after thinking to the point wher it hurts, I say to just ignore him, and if you find out or guess then ask him if it was that and apologize, but I say let the guy come to you.
-TheTeenGirl
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anonymous -
Guys express themselves so vaguely don't you agree?
When me and my boyfriend got into fights, he did the same thing with me. I'm guessing that your boyfriend is too upset to restate what he thinks you already know so he ends up cussing you out. My best advice would be to give him some time alone to cool off and calm down.
If you two talk via internet also, maybe you can try writing him an email, it helps sometimes to see your feelings in writing.
If not, after giving him some time to himself, write him a hand-written letter clarifying the situation. Explain that you honestly have no idea what he blew up at you about. Although you don't know what you did, apologize saying something like,
"i don't know what it was that i did for you to blow up at me, but hunni, i never have any intention to purposely hurt you. i also apologize if you may have taken anything the wrong way, but baby, i love you, and it hurt me to hear those hurtful words from someone i love so much. please tell me what it was that i did so i can fix it, cuz it means the world to me to see you happy."
Make it really heartfelt and leave it on his windshield, or leave it at his door. :) I wouldn't suggest you give it to him in person, because if he is still pissed, there's no telling what he will do.
Good luck!
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Well since talking to him yourself didn't work out, you should get one of your friends to ask him why he is mad at you and what you did to him that made him mad. Or you can ask one of this guy's close friends and they might tell you.
-Karen
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get a friend dat is his friend 2 and ask da person 2 ask him why he's mad at u.
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Ask his mates if u still come up empty handed forget and move on. You got your whole life. xx
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