Hi my names vicki. I'm 19 years old. I can try and help help alot of people and give/offer good advice. Anything you want help on i will always try never turn away someone in need. xx
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my hair goes tousled/curly like sienna millers but how can i get it as shiny. i know hers is kinda blondey mines really really dark brown. (i dyed it that colour) my natural colour is light brown with natural highlights of dark and light blonde. is there something i can buy to strip it back its natural colour or will i have to get it proffesionally done? please help cos my hair is very long and you can see about 1cm of roots and it looks bad so i cant wait for it to grow out. i start college on the 12th so if i can do anything by then
i rate fives for every good bit of advice
sorry its so long
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I'm not sure whether i'm right or not but i think professionals can strip it but dont bank on my advice ring around the hairdresses and find out if there is anything they can do or any products that speed up hair dye growing out. Best of Luck Vicki x
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ok tomorro im going to a softball game in long island and jinnie finch is going to be there (pro pitcher) My uncle is driving down there..he can only fit 5 people..i want to bring 2 friends but i can only bring one. I guss i shouldnt have done this but i mentioned that *maybe* i could take them..(this is when i thought we would be taking our car which can hold 8) Both sounded excited but one seemed a little more excited than the other. how do i decide who to bring?im leaning toward the one who seemed more excited..of course it will get around to my other friend..i dont want her getting mad..what should i say to her to make sure she knows i really wanted both to go? my friend who seemed more excited missed out on a trip we took to an amusement park..and my other friend came..so maybe she will understand?
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To keep both of your friends and not cause tension in the group dont take eitehr and explain to them that there isnt enough room in the car to take them and then your not favoring the one over the other.
Hope i helped. xx
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I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help! (link)
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Just tell her but your still young yet you have loads of time to explore. Or better still just invite him over and invite him to your mom. Hope i helped.
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okay so im debating on whether or not i like this guy... like weve talked a lot on the phone recently and hung out alot at school...well he came over yesterday and then called me last night and was like man i wanted to kiss you so bad and i feel stupid for not doing it.. and then he said that if we ever break up he wants me to tell him the reasoning first... well i dont really reccall him askin me or anything... he told me he likes me... but does he think that were already goin out or sumthin?? or if he doesnt... how long do you think it would be before he asked me out?! thanks for your help in advance (link)
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I think it sounds as if he thinks you are. Instead of him asking you out why dont to do it the other way round and ask him its obvious he likes you so hes not going to turn you down in a hurry. GET IN THERE GIRL. Love vikz xx
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My brother has a girlfriend that comes over to his place on weekends. They always end up argueing. She stomps her feet and calls him everything but a white man. She tells him to do things demandingly. My sister is living there too, she and i dont know what to do about it. His girlfriend keeps telling him its his fault.. And that its not her fault most of the time. My sister calls me and says they r fighting and dont know what to do..So i came over. All I could hear is the girlfriend, stomping her feet and hollaring at my brother.. for something simple.. Which she makes a big deal out of. I walked into his room and told him he dont deserve to be treated like that.. then walked away.. He then got hollared at for me doing that..she said the he has to go out there and tell me and my sis that it was his fault and not hers..when he said it wasnt ..she starts stomping her feet..mind you they were in the bedroom and we were in the living room and you can feel it..It seems that all she is doing is bringing him down. He told her to leave ..she hollars and whines til he gives in. What can we do..how can i help..or let my brother understand it aint gonna stop..she aint gonna change. How do you tell someone (the girlfriend) that they have a problem when they are in denial themselves..Please help. (link)
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Tell your brother the way you see things and explain that once he's made a descion he's got to stick by it and be strong and not back down to her. If i was him i would get rid of her and never look back. xx
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i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do? (link)
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Just tell her straight which ever option you choose you'll proberly make her cry. xx
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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance. (link)
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I have dark brown eyes and there my best feature on my face. I use browns and black eye liner it looks really good and it brings the colour out in the eyes.
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I have this boyfriend, he's really nice but i never ever get to see him because he lives in a different town. Everytime i get the chance to go visit it seems like he has something else to do. He has cheated on me about 3 times already but we made up. He calls me every night and is a sweet heart. I dont noe if i should stay with him or break up. I feel so bad when i break up with him because ive done it before that i just go out with him again. what would i say? someone please help (link)
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If he's already cheated on you 3 times then he's bound to do it again. Get out honey before he hurts you even more. xx Hope i've helped.
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Hi,
I am a 27 year old male. I have a problem that has been plagueing me since the age of about 18. I can never meet the right person and it seems the last 9 years of my life, not one really special mate has come into my life. I have a great bunch of friends, am considered attractive by many in both looks and personality, but yet, the right woman never comes into my life. I have had only one serious relationship, that lasted a year. And with other romances included that means that out of the last 9 years, 7.5 years of that time I have been alone. All my friends managed to find attractive girls that were good fun and have serious relationships their whole lives, yet I was always the one left out, the one that was always alone.
All I want is a girl that I find attractive, that I get along well with, and it just seems meeting these girls is very few and far between, say once a year/every 2 years. I'll admit I've had many girls that have liked me, but I never liked them.
If you had to see the world through my eyes, it would seem like there is this intense design by a higher power preventing me from meeting this right person. I have been to numerous house parties, barbeques at friends houses and various other places and yet never ever meet this special girl. This is not by chance or bad luck, there is a reason for this happening, and I would like to know what it is, or how I can remove this obstacle from my life.
This loneliness is really torture for me. Its actually weaking me as a person, I am strong most of the time, but sometimes I just break down and cry because it seems like some curse has been laid on me, that I will be lonely all the time.
Do you have any advice on something like this?
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I know how your feeling. I'm in the same postion. The best thing i can offer you is to stop looking but look single. Instead of going out thinking right i wanna pull tonight just go out with good intentions of having a good time. Hope i've helped. If u wanna chat with me then mail me at vicky2k50@hotmail.com. xx
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ok this question is for guys only unless a girl would know but neway what exactly turns you on and what do u like for a girl to do to you? i know you guys are probally thinking what the hell but its for my health class on hormones and i have to survey guys on what turns them on! thanks bunches! (link)
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When i'm turning my b/f on i give him a bj but i also play with his balls at the same time that always tends to work.
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend (I ama female, if you were wondering). I'm 16 and he is 15. Although, it was a teenage relationship, we did love each other. It might not have been that deep and meaningful kind where people get married, but it was love nonetheless. Whenever we hung out, I'd get butterflies and I would be happy, something I haven't felt in a while. Towards the last few days before I broke up with him, he wasn't really there. I felt like he was avoiding me, he wouldn't tell me anything when I did ask him, and we barely talked. Then the day before I did end it, he told me he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me or not, which made me decide to end it. On the day we broke up, I cried...a lot. Then, that was it. Every now and then I'll think about him and get a bit sad, but otherwise I am very happy. Being as he was my first love, I relaized there will be others and that I should move on, and I am trying to be positive.I can't help but feel guilty that I am not that sad over our breakup. Any advice? (link)
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You did the best thing in breaking up with him. It was obvious niether of ur where happy in the relationship. I think you need to let go of feeling guilty about being happy adn just be happy. xx
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Hey im 16, and iv had sex alittle over a few times. It seems that almost every time i have sex, I get these weird pains in my stomach (almost like his thing is puncturing my insides), what is this? Can i fix it? (link)
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Sounds like you could be having an orgasim but your not completly clear on the pains. xx
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Okay, I actually think I have ADD. I've secretly researched it for a few months now, and I have a lot of the symptoms majorly. I used to be really good in school, I used to be able to focus and concentrate most of the time. Now, I have SO many things going on in my head and I seem to act like I'm listening, but really my head is off in like, a million different places. I told my friend that I had it and she's the type of girl that will just not concentrate because something is "boring". She thinks that she has ADD too. Everytime we talk about it, she starts laughing ("I have ADD, lol!"). It pisses me off so much. How is anyone going to take me seriously after she tells EVERYONE she has it, and starts laughing after? Its kids like her who use out the term ADD. I bet many students like her go to their doctor and say they have it. But what about us who actually think we have it? I feel like the doctor is just going to turn me away and say "yes, you think you have ADD along with the rest of the student body at your high school...". I NEED to get help quick, but how am I supposed to approach help, and how do I convince my friend that she doesn't have it, and not everything in this life is "fun". I can't even concentrate on the things I enjoy anymore... (link)
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Show your friend the research. Hopefully that will make her understand and then see that she doesnt have it. Although you might be scared of the doctor just thinking your like everybody else try it. Even explain you cant concerntrate on the things you use to be able to enjoy. Also try joing a support group even if its online so you can talk to people that dont treat or judge you differently. Good-luck let me know the outcome. xx
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Is it possible to find a tanning bed at a yard/garage sale, or would it be stupid for someone to sell one? I'm just wondering if I should be on the look out for one...but would someone sell a tanning bed? I'm just trying to see what are some other ways for getting one besides ordering one full price. Can you help me? (link)
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People do sell them you just need to look. I would advise you though that check every part of it incase its got defects because if it damages you then you have nothing to fall back on. xx
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I need cheerleading cheers ((NOT SIDELINES)) for my squad. i need ALOT of them please help me out i rate all 5's.
if it helps my colors are black and orange and the mascot is a bobcat (link)
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sorry just something i use to do in high school. xx thought it would make you laugh more than anything else. xx
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my sister and i have always gotten along great...until last week when she came home...shes 21 & im 14 btw..anyways, she became the first to find out about some "not so good" stuff ive been doing and told me i had to tell mom..I DONT WANNA! she said if i by next week shes going to!im so mad @ her! PLEASE HELP! i dont want my mom knowing and i dont want to loose the awesome relationship w/ my sister either! (link)
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Sit your sister down and explain to her that you dont want to upset your mom and promise her you wont do it again. Explain that you've made a subpid mistake and you've realised that now. Even if you have to lie to her it might work. Just make sure she doesn find out your lying about that. xx
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Is it true that your boobs stop growing 2 years after you got your period? (link)
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No they dont. You stop growing at the age of 21. xx
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hey, i am a single parent of a one year old son, my relationship with the father of the child feel thru last year in november i was livivng with him and left to comeback home and i was unemployed at that time i left my job to move towns and live with him then after i came back home was not employed for 3months and had no form of income i asked the father to support hes child not with cash we agreed he could but the stuff he needed and send it on its own but he refused told me if i cant take care of he son i should bring him and he will do so every since i have not asked for any thing but i feel there is a need for him to support he child i am since employed but my salary can just about manage the costs, i dont know how i can get assistance form him for he has not been cooperative lately, my mother has adviced me to seek alawyer for maintenance but my dad feels there is no need for it says i should not worry about him he wiill come back one day wantin to see him but the tables would have turned. waht do i do now (link)
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Take him to court they'll soon make him pay. xx
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ok im startin to like a gurl and i want to get to kno her more wat r sume good convo starters and things to ask and talk about?
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Ask her what her fave music is and movies un stuff. Ask her general convo like what does she like doing for fun etc..
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i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
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Tell him how you feel and fight for him.
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