I have this boyfriend, he's really nice but i never ever get to see him because he lives in a different town. Everytime i get the chance to go visit it seems like he has something else to do. He has cheated on me about 3 times already but we made up. He calls me every night and is a sweet heart. I dont noe if i should stay with him or break up. I feel so bad when i break up with him because ive done it before that i just go out with him again. what would i say? someone please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nocturnalkid answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 12:34 pm: Stop. Right now. He can say all the sweet things he wants, but actions speak louder than words. He's not all that nice if he's cheated on you three times. Stop playing the part of the fool! You deserve better than that, so long as you actively seek it. I don't see how hard it could be to break up and stay broken up if he lives in a different town. Let him go, find someone better, and live a productive life.
JadedinNowhere answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 8:09 pm: most likely if he cheats on you once, he won't be able to stop because he got away with it. And, the fact that he got away with it three times probably gives him more confidence. If I were you.. I would end it. I mean he may be nice but using you like that is what I wouldn't call a sweetheart. [ JadedinNowhere's advice column | Ask JadedinNowhere A Question ]
x3babiigurlx3 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 8:02 pm: if i was you i would break up with him i mean if he cheated on you 3 times he might do that some more....all im tellin you is to follow ur heart and decide to break up or stay together....but i would break up with him...
kleokriesel answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 6:10 pm: He's cheated on you THREE TIMES!!!! He doesn't care about you, he takes you for granted. He just acts sweet to keep you whenever he doesn't have someone else to care about him. Dump him and don't feel bad. You need to get rid of this slimeball. [ kleokriesel's advice column | Ask kleokriesel A Question ]
Link answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 3:32 pm: If he cheated on you. Then you should stop going out with him ok Once a cheater always a cheater ok hope i helped bye [ Link's advice column | Ask Link A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 3:05 pm: Tell him like *hey we need to work this out* are you going to make time for me* whats goin on do you really wanna be with me..* ask him if he gon ever have time for you.. if not you need to dump him.. you need to be with somebody that will see you and *not cheat on you* you shouldnt of gave him chance after chance... you should of moved on a long ass time ago..*atleast thats what it sounds like to me* no girl deserves to be cheated on unless they stay with the asshole and keep givin em chance after chance knowing they cant trust em again and will not have the same trust for them ever again.. and you probably worry alot like if he's done something and you not know bout it...see you should be with somebody where you dont have to worry and will always keep the same trust with somebody..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
vicki2k50 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 3:01 pm: If he's already cheated on you 3 times then he's bound to do it again. Get out honey before he hurts you even more. xx Hope i've helped. [ vicki2k50's advice column | Ask vicki2k50 A Question ]
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