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I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help!
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Casually ask your mom if she thinks girls at your age should have boyfriends.
Slip in the benefits of having a boyfriend while your talking to her.
Then say something about liking this guy,Luke ((ONLY IF HER RESPONSE TORWARDS YOU HAVING A BOYFRIEND IS POSITIVE!!!))
If thats the case,tell her he asked you out.
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Babe, I'm 13 and I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend. But that never stopped me. I just never tell my parents and keep it on the down low. If he calls and your mom is suspicious just tell her hes just a friend. If ya have anything your worried about I can help ya out! I'm used to it! Just leave one in my inbox! ♥
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What makes you think you need a boyfriend? You're so young. You probably hear that a lot. Don't rush life. If you really can't handle not being with this boy, just say to your mom please try to understand that I have a boyfriend. We won't do anything nasty but I wanna be with him. Hopefully she'll understand. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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A guy is a guy and even if you do like him then it best to be truthful with your mom. Even if you don't want her to be you mom will always be in your life, not some boy. Hope I helped, and sorry if I sound a little mean
Daisyswim
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Your young, there is lots of time to have boyfriends.Hun, i'll tell you now all the pain that they put you thru being assholes all the times sometimes isnt worth it. The sweetest guy is a jerk. I swear that to you. If i were you, i would ask your mum if your aloud to go out with boys. If she says no, ask her if you can go out with them in group dates (dont call it group dates when you ask) call it.. a bunch of friends hanging out, and the guy you like will be there. Don't sneek around, when she catchs you (and she will catch you) she wont trust you and then everything will suck after that.
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Thanks hope everything works out. Is he cute? :-p
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Thats tough...I went through something similar to that.. I think you should tell your mom and have your freinds around (they can back you up and make you feel comfortable) When you are wiht your freinds and your mom at the same time say : Mom, is it OK if I have a b/f and can date? : If she says yes, say something either you can tell a white lie like becasue this guy asked meout and I really like him and your freinds can say yeah they would be sooo cute together. Or you can say that you have been with him for 4 weeks... Hope I helped! (Always respect your mom though if she says no)
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just be honest. if you tell her whats up BEFORE she finds out herself, she will trust you more. dont center your life around him or your mother wont think you are responsible enough. if you have a B average dont bring it down to a C because you're too busy talking to him on the phone. if she still says you cant have a boyfriend, i hate to say it but you can still go out with him just make sure that if youre going to the mall with him you bring a friend and HER boyfriend too, so you can say "hey mom can i go to the mall with Cathy?" or something like that and shell be like "sure, hun, ill drive you" or whatever shell say. just dont let her know hell be there to. i have a friend who had six boyfriends in the eighth grade even though she wasnt allowed and her mother never found out cause she kept her grades up and didnt talk on the phone with him too much.
hope i helped!
<3<3 anne givings
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I really can't believe you asked this because I have the exact same problem except I'm only embarassed to tell me mom. She will tell my brother, and my brother will tell the whole world! Well now here's where I give you the advice:
Say to your mom that a really nice guy asked you out. See what she says. If she doesn't allow you, then go no further. Explain to Luke your problem with your mom. If he really loves you, he will understand and maybe he won't hang around you when your mom is with you. ALSO...is she does see you with him, say it's only your FRIEND and nothing more than a friend. If she doesn't believe you, you could say something like "why does it matter if my friends are guys or girls, they are both awesome to hang out with!!!"
I really hope I helped, and maybe I will take this advice from myself! Much loveee GOOD LUCK!! :)
You can IM me with more questions on OxSummAchickAxO!!
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first ask your mom if it would be ok if you had a boyfriend if you did not do anything with him if she says yes then yull be fine if she sees him but if she says no never let her see him and like one day if she sees you hugging him just tell her that hes going through somethings in his home life that hes needs a friend to help him handel them but if she sees you kissing him i cant help ya there
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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Just tell her but your still young yet you have loads of time to explore. Or better still just invite him over and invite him to your mom. Hope i helped.
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