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Me & my sister...
my sister and i have always gotten along great...until last week when she came home...shes 21 & im 14 btw..anyways, she became the first to find out about some "not so good" stuff ive been doing and told me i had to tell mom..I DONT WANNA! she said if i by next week shes going to!im so mad @ her! PLEASE HELP! i dont want my mom knowing and i dont want to loose the awesome relationship w/ my sister either!
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if she thinks your mom should know, then she probably should. your sister is the person that knows you the best and you should trust her. if your mom gets mad, then she gets mad, but if you know it's bad you shouldn't have done itn the first place (but i wouldn't suggest telling your sister any "bad things" ever again)
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What have you been doing?
Btw.. Your mum WILL find out.. They always seem to.. So if she finds out some other way.. Its going to be really bad for you, if your honest, and just come out and tell her.. you will see it wont be all that bad!
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Omg that sounds like exactly what happened btw me, my sister and my mmom, same things happening and like (almost) same age diference. okay well...shes your sister..and your moms your mom. well...duh. if theyre really the great poeple you say, then they'll understand. they might get mad, but after that theyl do anything to help. and make sure when youre talking to your mom you say things like i love you, i came to you because___, im sorry, i want you to trust me, etc. make a list, lol thats what i did. but i didnt even use the list because..well...i forgot. eh..good luck to ya kid.
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your mom is going to find out sooner or later thats just how moms are...the best way to find out is if she hears it straight from you, otherwise she will find out from your sister and you may be in even bigger trouble for not telling her the truth...but if you are that into keeping it a secret try telling your sister how much it means to you that she keeps the secret and tell her you may not do whatever these "not so good" things are...hope i could help...<33 ~danni
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you obviously dont have an "awesome" relationship with her.
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Your sister is just looking out for you and doesn't want you to do anything bad, like all sisters do. You need to talk to her privately and tell her that your personal life is something that you don't need to share with anyone else, especially your mom, and that you don't have to tell her. Tell your sister that she can know about the things you do but you should be able to tell what you want and don't want to people. Make an agreement with her and tell her not to tell your mom.
-Karen
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Sit your sister down and explain to her that you dont want to upset your mom and promise her you wont do it again. Explain that you've made a subpid mistake and you've realised that now. Even if you have to lie to her it might work. Just make sure she doesn find out your lying about that. xx
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Just have a conversation with your sister and tell her that you feel that the information is personal and you dont want to share it, even with your mom. Just talk to her and convince her that you would like it if it was just between you and her. Dont get in an argument though, stay calm and try to get her to go on your side. So, try that and if that doesnt work..try begging and pleading. Sorry I didnt help much! I hope everything works out, keep me updated if you want to! :)
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Your big sis is looking out for you..which is pretty cool.Ask her pleease not to tell . Say " didnt you ever do something mom and dad never found out about?' maybe that will bring back memories for her and let you slide. Ask her to let you get away with it just once..and the next time she catches you she can tell right away. I hope i helped..if she doesnt budge write bac to me..i would love to help you out more..i hope everything works out smoothly though!
-melissa-
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