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hey my name is danielle...danni for short...i live in boston massachusetts and am a 15 year old female...my screen name is xxdancinbabi15xx so if you need to im thats where im at im here to give advise to people no matter what the question is...so ask me anything and i will try my best to help you!
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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one
i got my braces off like a month ago...ive had them on for a very long time...and no it dosent hurt very much its just like a pulling feeling because there are pulling off the braces but they then have to use this tool that scrapes off the dried on cement on your teeth and it just makes your teeth get really cold and its an uncomfortable sensation, i didnt enjoy that part, but it takes them like a half an hour to do them including x-rays and stuff so it dosent take to long...hope i could help...~danni
my sister and i have always gotten along great...until last week when she came home...shes 21 & im 14 btw..anyways, she became the first to find out about some "not so good" stuff ive been doing and told me i had to tell mom..I DONT WANNA! she said if i by next week shes going to!im so mad @ her! PLEASE HELP! i dont want my mom knowing and i dont want to loose the awesome relationship w/ my sister either!
your mom is going to find out sooner or later thats just how moms are...the best way to find out is if she hears it straight from you, otherwise she will find out from your sister and you may be in even bigger trouble for not telling her the truth...but if you are that into keeping it a secret try telling your sister how much it means to you that she keeps the secret and tell her you may not do whatever these "not so good" things are...hope i could help...
I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back?
dont get into anytthing with you teacher...im guessing that they are much older then you and techer student relationships only lead to trouble with family and the law...i know that its not gonna be an easy thing for you to just not like him but you should try not to...hope i could help....
ok thers this guy that i like so we will call him joey. ok so i like joey a lot and he liked me for a while but then stopped liking me and we became really good friends now he is like in love with my best friend. im so jealous and mad. but my friend told me that she doesnt like him, but i think she is starting to. but she doesnt no that i like him. but like how do i get him to like me again and not her? please help me i really like him and if he does go out with my best frined i dont no what i would do!! thanks love ya!!
the first thing that you like MUST do is tell your best friend that you like him a lot and if she is your best friend then she will back off of him and let you have your way with him even if you dont go out with him....just keep talking to him and flirting with him and hopefully things work out....hope i could help...
ok, well there's this friend that i have, and her name is . i dont know what to do becuz she always lies to me. she always lies to me. when she says that she is coming over my house, she doesnt, she always goes to some other guys house. the last time she did this, she was missing for a day. i was really worried and so was her mom. i felt guilty, because what if something happened?? she was sposed to come to my house right?i just dont really know what to think. the last time she didnt show up, she was missing for 2 1/2 days, she doesnt even call me to tell me she's ok or even her mom. i know that i should just forget about her becuase she's using me to go to guys houses(her mom wont let her go to guys houses)and then i end up feeling bad, but the thing is she always tells me that she was sad and her da was drunk and hit her or something, she makes me feel bad for her and then i just cant stay mad. to add to all this, her boyfriend is thinkin of breakin up with her becuz he wants to go out with me. i just dont know what to think, if you cant help, thats ok i know it doesnt seem like much, but it is to me. by the way im a 14/f.....help pleez if u can!!!!!!!
1st of all you need to think hard about the fact that she is using you...if it werent for you being near these guys then she may not even be your friend...you cant let her get to you, she is putting you through much worry and stress when she goes missing, and you shouldnt have to deal with that...its not your fault that she is not getting treated right at home and she has no right to use that against you...you cant give in to her and you have to talk about how you are feeling used...abou the boyfriend situation, you shouldnt go out with him right away because that is gonna make her feel bad, think how you would feel in a situation like that, thats what i always do good luck hun...hope i could help...
ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 6 months... and then things started to change. so i broke up with him. then the next day he asked me back out and i said yes. and then after like a week i broke up with him again because it was different then before and i didnt like it. and he keeps calling me when hes in tears and i dont know what to do.. if i went back out with him ide be doin it because i feel bad for him and i dont wanna hurt him. more and more people are telling me "he'll change for you... he'll be different" and its all retarted and i dont wannna go back out with him.
any suggestions on what to do next???
thanks in advance
13/f
if you dont want to go out with him then dont force yourself too...he will eventually get over it its not like you 2 are set to be married...hes not going to think about i all of his life, it may seem bad now but it wont last for long, you should tell him that you dont want to go out with him because it dosent feel right for you and he may not be happy about it but you may feel better about the situation after you consult him...hope i helped in some way...
I'm sixteen years old, and I'm in a long distance relationship. (I'm a girl.) I mean long distance. I used to live in Mississippi, but my parents moved to California about a year ago. I met this guy through my sister, they were really good friends when we lived there, and we completely hit it off. We've been together for a year now, and I fly out there every chance I get. I mean things were serious, he has bought me a ring and everything, and we always talked about how we were gonna get married, how many children we'd have, etc. Lately, things have been kind of rough. He gets so angry with me about everything I say, and it gets scary. I admit, sometimes I do bring it on myself, but he always gets entirely too pissed. Tonight, I was talking to him about my friend, and he kept talking about how ugly and disgusting she is, and I asked him if when we broke up, he said that same stuff about me. He got completely pissed off, said I was fucking someone out here, and that I was a liar, and all I ever do is start shit with him. Well, we broke up. I'm feeling really fucking alone and empty right now. I just need to know how to feel better.. I can't stop thinking about it and I'm going insane. I want him back so fucking badly, he's my best fucking friend in the whole world and I really, really, REALLY am hurting. I thought we would make up, so I didn't take it seriously, and then his mom made him get off the phone, and I just knew it was over. I was crying really badly, and I told him and I hated him and I wished that he was dead. I regret it so fucking much, but he's not gonna care. Please, just give me some advice on how to get over him, or get him back and stop pissing him off, or something.
wait till he comes back to you
I think my best friend is calling my ex-boyfriend behind my back and she is calling my new boyfriend 2...she is telling my new boyfriend that I'm messing around in school with my old boyfriend...which isnt true....now my new boyfriend is mad at me....i think she is mad that my old boyfriend still likes me and he dont like her and i have a new one....i think she is jealous....when i was going out with my old boyfriend she told me she liked him a lot and she was talking 2 him on the phone everynight....which she shouldnt have been doing because he should have been talking 2 me...but now she says she dont like him and i think she is lying and i dont know what 2 do...i dont think she should even try 2 go with him cause me and him went with each other 4 a long time....What should I do about her? Im 15 and a female
you have to tell her to quit it because that is sooo not right for her to be doing...and she must not be such a good bestfriend if she is doing that stuff to you...and your most likely right about the jealous thing she probably just wants attention because you are getting so much of it...you really need to tell her to stop...hope i could help...
ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot?
i bet he is just very modest and dont like to say that he is good-looking...just keep flirting with him and if you do meet him go wtih the flow and dont seem all uptight about it...if you are still concerned, when you meet him try and look the best you can...i could tell you to be yourself and if he dont like you by judging you on your looks then he is not worth it...but guys these days go by looks sometimes....hope i could somewhat help...
My friend is mad at me but I don't know why. She got mad because I got back together with my boyfriend that I broke up with and she said this is all out of hand. Everytime she gets mad and tells me why she is mad I try and solve it and I end up sayign in the end that I am really sorry and I love you so much I don't want anything to come in between our relationship. Each time I say that she really seems not to care and she says you always say that junk. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just said I am okay and that's just to bad. I don't understand I DID NOT do anything to her at all. I want us to still be friends and we get in a lot of fights like maybe 2 or 3 a month and she starts mostly all of them actually all of them. I don't know if it is worth keeping the relationship or not I really want to but you know it might be for the best?? Help!
if she gets in all these fights with you when you didnt even do anything then she is not a good friend at all...and since youve already tried talking to her about it and she wont accept your appologies then there is not much yuo can do except try to just stop talking to her because you dont need a friend like that but if you really want to stay hyer friend then you could try and tolerate her being so mean to you...hope i could be of some help...
ok so the kid i like just came online. and my friend was talking to him, telling him to go out with me, and its like he wont listen. why do u think hes doing that?
he is maby shy or he just wants to be friends...or mabe he feels like he is being pressured by her asking him all these quetions and stuff ast once...give him time...hope i could help
ever since i moved i've felt misserable and depressed... i moved to africa a little ova a month ago and left a girl that ment the world to me... i would do anything for her... but i might never get to see her again... all i can do is hope shes on-line when i am... all i want is to be with her and i cant... so idk wat to do but talk to her whenever i can... wat can i do to talk to her or even see her again? i'm not goin to give up or forget about her. shes the only thing keepin me alive...
im not gonna lie to you...you probably wont see her again and eventually she is going to move on and hopefully so will you...the best you can do now is just keep on talking to her online and let her know how much you miss her...hope i helped...
Ok I am tired of saying this boy so I am going to call him C. Well I have been mad at C because he didn't try to talk to me about those rumors that have been going on. But today he touched me on my arm. You know in those friendly ways to say whats up.Well anyway I was at my locker when it happened so I just looked up a little bit to see who it was. I didnt say anyting through. What should I do. Also I gave him my number lets say about two weeks ago and didnt call me yet and yesterday he asked my bestfriend if she wanted his number and she took it. He didnt even ask me yet.
he may be one of those shy guys that waits for the girl to make the first move weither it is talkign to him at school or calling him...you should try and talk to him...mabe he just wants to be friends...hope i could help....
okay, me and this guy, robbie, started talking as friends at the beginning of the year, okay, so we became pretty good friends too! but then, my teacher permanatly seperated us because we talked too much! and that was the only class i had with him because he is a senior and im a freshman. so, my sister just came to my school, and is becoming friends with him, and she is always telling him something embarassing about me, or something like.. " becky said you look bad today " you kno? anything that will make him not like me. and so, he completly stopped talking to me, and it really sucks because i had started to like him. and now she came home today and was like.. " hey becky, robbie thinks you hate him!" and i want to yell at her because its her fault.. but i feel bad.. i dont know what to do!! please dont delete.. i need help soo bad!!
it seems to me as if your sister likes robbie too and she is telling him all this bad stuff so that he wont like you anymore and he will like her...you really need to talk to her about it because if you dont then she will keep on telling him stuff and he may never talk to you again...you should also start talking to him again too...hope i could help
im gonna restate this
my best friend broke up with her boyfriend last year in like march. during the summeri started to like him and she didnt seem to have a problem and i was always waiting there with me until he came online. then he asked me if i liked him and i was being stupid and said no. so then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said not anymore cuz she doesnt like me.. so she told me and i felt pretty stupid but got over it. a couple days ago i was talking to him online and flirting with him and i started to really like him again. so on friday i was online with him and i told him i was sorta dissapointed because no one was coming to watch me play basketball the night cuz they all had something to do. i didnt tell him what time it was or anything, i just told him what my teams record was and the name. i think he went online to the website and looked up the schedule. so anyway when i got there i didnt even notice he was there. right before the first half was over i was walking outside with my friend to get a drink and he said hi, but i didnt know it was him. after i came back in he said my name so i looked and i got all nervous, but i said hi back. after the game i was walking out but my dad was pushing me out of the gym so i noticed that he got off the bench as soon as i came in from the court but i never got to talk to him. i dunno if he likes me or not.
from my opinion...this guy definitly likes you!! if he went through the trouble to look up your game time and stuff then he must have really wanted to see you...i think he likes you so go for it if your friend is okay with it and everything...good luck!! hope i helped
this is kinda long so bear with me! :)
a lot of the friends i made were from middle school and we've been friends throughout high school. the thing is, they were a-ok people in middle school. but when high school rolls around it appears that they've changed into hypocritical, outspoken, dramatic, and selfish people. don't get me wrong, i'm not exaggerating nor am i taking things out of context. if you met them, you'd know! take for example a girl who makes fun of the fat people in our school, when she weighs 200 lbs. a girl who complains and whines over an A- on a test. someone who cannot accept the fact that they are wrong. someone who doesn't make any effort for your birthday, or christmas, when every year you get them something.
because of their "new" personality traits, i dropped them because they did not fit my basic ideal aspects in a friend anymore. and whenever i find a new friend, in the end they end up betraying my trust, using me for money, or being just plain inconsiderate to a point that i cannot tolerate anymore.
note, this has happened with nearly 95% of the friends i've had my entire lifetime...
i'm not a bad person for them to be obligated to do such things, but i do admit that i can be a little too trusting and naive at times. is that what they're taking advantage of, or is there something else...? why would they do this to me?
also, because these experiences have given me a new perspective on friendships (not to trust people so easily!), how do i know if i can fully trust someone and that they will be a good friend???
lots of people change in highschool, i have had some of the same experiances as you...my best friend used to be one of the nicest people i know and now she is selfish, stuckup and greedy, even my parents think so...i had to tell her what i thought of her and she didnt take it so well and we are not friends anymore but i eralized that i am better off without her...its really hard to tell if you can trust somebody or not unless you become friends with them and find out...you have to use your judgement on which people seem like they could become a good friend to you....hope i helped in some way...
Well, see I was at my friend's house and I didn't like my boyfriend at the time so i broke up with him with my friend. I was happy and stuff. But as soon as I broke up with him i felt really bad because I didn't only brake up with him I was mean and rude to him. The next day I talked to him and he said he stayed up the whole night crying and he was praying that I would come back to him. I did go back to him because I relized I did like him and it just took awhile to relize it. So now we are going out again and things are better then ever. Except, I told my best friend and she said alot of things like she said that why did you brake up with him if you didn't like him. I said I didn't like him at the time and it just took me awhile to relize it. Also she said alot of guys like me because I am "Hott" but she said by the way you aren't. That got me mad 1 because not all the guys like me because I am "Hott" they like me for other reason also. And 2 because how could by best friend say that to me that I am not pretty. I was mad and I don't know why she said that. What should I do? She also said alot more and she wasn't to happy. I think she is mad at me now and I don't know what to do?? Help!
it seems to me that your friend as a big case of jelousey...when she says all that stuff she is just trying to make you think that you shouldnt be with him and it seems as if she is trying to breake you 2 up...she does not seem like a very good friend at all..you have to talk to her and ask her if she likes him and tell her that she is not being a very good firend lately and mabe she will open up...hope i helped in some way
Okay here it goes... i rarely ask questions.. but I really need some advice right now... I have this boyfriend and I really like him... but I also have this one guy on my mind and I have liked this one guy for about 1 year already.. well i see him every once in a while... and we kiss and hold hands and stuff and no i havent done that since going out with my boyfriend... but i can't get him off of my mind... and I really like him and i think he likes me too i mean he holds my hand and kisses me and stuff like that.. but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend... what do you think I should do.. thanks i will rate high
well it seems as if you relaly like both these guys but as we all know you can only choose one...you have to think about all the conciquences, good and bad, about what you...you could end up duping your current boyfriend for this other guy and then have a bad relationship with this other guy and then want your boyfriend back...and whos knows , he may not take you back...its really hard to be tron between 2 guys but you just have to decide which one you feel more comfortable with...good luck!! hope i help in some way....
I'm looking for girls with any make-up tips to give!!! ANYTHING helps. Also I'm looking for someone who's willing to send me pictures of themselves with some neat eye shadow looks and tell me how to do them. Thanks
i was always the makeup outcast because i never new how to do it but then i would like look at all the other girls in school and see how they do thier makeup and when i would go over friends houses i would see what kinds of makup they wear and how they wear it...but some tips of my own...i use eyeliner, it helps make your eyes look bigger and makes them "pop"...using dark eyeshadows like browns and dark blues can sometimes make they eyes look smaller and not as pretty but when matched with the right outfit cark colors can look good it laso depends on your skin tone.....i prefer light clolors like pinks and greens...hope i could be of some help....
I dont even know where to start. I'm 19/f I've just recently lost my job, me and mom are arguing all the time now i've just lost my boyfriend (He does say hes not sure what he wants, his hearts telling him to stay then his head and family are saying leave) He has dumped me though. I cry all the time and feel down. How can i pick my self back up i dont want to be depressed. I do have a history of self harm and dont want to go back. Please please help. :-(
this is a very serious problem here...hurting yourself aint gonna help anything but it will make situations even worse...im not sure i cant do too much for you on this one excpt tell you that god put you on this earth to live a good life and not to harm yourself in anyway so just try and do things like extra curricular activities it may help.....