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well this kid and me are good friends and ive known him since 2nd grade and we have been friends too... and i dont know but i think i like him.. and im not sure if he likes me but i think he might... how do i know if he does.. and please dont say ask him though not tryin to sound mean...
please help..
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yew can either tell him or get one of your friends 2 ask him


OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?! (link)
do something to him that he doesnt like!


i am in dance and i have to wear 2 piece costumes. My stomach is kind of flabby and I have love handles. Does anyone know how to get rid of these? Also how to tone my inner thighs. If you have a diet and exersise program 4 me it would be appreciated. Thanks for the help in advanced.
p.s i hate running on treadmills and its to cold to run outide (link)
you can go to a gym and work out or do pilaties.


okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not. (link)
you should tell him b/c you dont know he might like you to. its sounds to me that he does!! you should deffinately tell him b/c he might be to shy to tell you.


i have a whole spring break to make 300$! i need it at the end of the week! i borrowed my sisters ipod for a day and then someone stole it out of my purse! i have filed a police report but the chances fo finding it are very slim. PLEASE give me ideas besides just babysitting to come up with 300$ in a week! i dont have a job because im 15 but i dont have enough time to apply and make 300 in a week.

PLEASE give me any idea you have! i'll take it! I RATE! I"LL DO ANYTHING!

TIMES GOING FAST! (link)
you should tell your sister first of all and then you should try to look of a job or something.
for a job you can do somthing around your neighborhood or something.


I have a simple question that I can't find the answer to. In the middle school I go to they have a P.E. class. In P.E. class we do jumping-jacks. What do jumping-jacks help you build? Your arms, legs, stomach, or something? (link)
jumping jacks help build arm and leg muscles they also make you lose weight


ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~ (link)
if you still want to be firneds with her then tell her to stop doing drugs and if she doesnt then dont be friends with her anymore b/c if you continue being friends she might pressure you to do drugs also.


Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class? (link)
yes teachers expect you to come to school prepared and if you forget something then you are not prepared


My friend is soo depressed, that everytime I'm with her, she brings me down too. And I try to cheer her up, but she just gives me one of those fake smiles. It is breaking up our friendship now, and I don't want that to happen. What do I do to help her?! (link)
ask her to talk about it


okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..



no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!! (link)
you should tell someone or call your frined and ask for his number and call him and tell your friend what happened


I have never really understood how the feet move/feet positions (Where they are) while slowdancing. Can somebody explain it to me? (link)
you just kind of rock side to side. slowly. you should try it with a friend that knows how to and they can help explain it better


i feel like im not a sensitive person. for example, if someone got hurt, it kinda doesnt make me feel sorry for them. i really want to be nicer, i just dont know how=) (link)
start caring about other people and see if it helps


me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad? (link)
no thats a really good thing that you havent fought with him at all. that means that you both agree on most of the same things and you can talk to each other about anything.


a lot of my friends tell me to dump my boyfriend because hes hurt me a lot. but hes also made me so much happier. i dont know what to tell them to stop them from telling me what to do. no matter what they say im not going to leave him. i'd rather die first. literaly. it just gets annoying when they do this to me. its getting me mad at my friends which makes my boyfriend mad at them because i get mad at them. and i havent had too good of friends in the past either. we've been going out for 1 1/2 years. i dont know what to tell them. any ideas? (link)
tell them that you really like your boyfriend and tell them how you feel about him. all that matters is that you really like him.


Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas (link)
you should put pictures of things you like or prople you like. for example your favorite singer or band or favorite spots player.


Ok well yesterday i was playin tackle football with my friends well now i am covered in bruises and i am in alot of pain any suggestions to help me get rid of th pain dont say take advil or anything like that because i tried that like a hour ago and it didnt help so any suggestions to help other than that. Any advice will probably be appreciated (link)
you should put ice packs or heating pads on the bruises and they might relax you.


answer fast my friend took 5 of her 50 mg depression meds and shes only supose to take 1 willl she die?????? (link)
i dont know but you should ask an adult or look it up online


what can i do 2 keep myself busy while my best friend is out of town for 6 dayss?!?!
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you can talk online and on the phone. you can also play games and go places with your friends


ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend (link)
you should tell someone b/c you never know if it is going to happen again. she may be mad at you for a while but it could help her


HELP!!
I am totally in love wif this guy in ma class which i fine the only problem ma best m8 hoo i have known since i was 3 fancies him 2 and i dont want to give up my best m8 but this guy keeps talkin 2 me and she keeps givin me these dirty looks and i havent told her that i like him. Plz Help Me !! (link)
tell her that you like him to and if she cant accept that both of you like him then she isnt a good friend




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