Question Posted Saturday February 26 2005, 2:27 pm
me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad?
xoPandaBabyxo answered Saturday February 26 2005, 7:56 pm: Why would that be bad?? I mean, that's pretty good. But even if you two get into a fight, that's a sign that you two care for eachother and you want to keep your relationship alive. Pretty soon you'll start bickering like an old married couple. Trust me on that one ;] But right now, you guys are doing fine. No worries.
ocbabey41 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 6:36 pm: no ite perfectly fine to spend a lot of time together just make sure you both have some space. not fighting is good for you too it means you both see eye to eye on alot of things which is also a very good thing
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday February 26 2005, 5:34 pm: No. If you never fight that's obviously a good thing. If you don't really like each other and you just stay together to say you have a bf/gf yeah that's bad. All people are different and you're lucky wnough to find someone you don't fight with. Be happy. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday February 26 2005, 5:04 pm: i think its a good thing youve never fought... me and my boyfriend have been goiing out for 2 months and we haven't fought and we're REALLY happy... but try not to spend tooo much time together because than there won't be anything to look forward to and you might get sick of each other... you can try spending time with each other in a group of people... this way its not always like its only you and him... have fun [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
SouthernBarbieGirl answered Saturday February 26 2005, 4:30 pm: Nah...I wouldn't worry about it to much. As long as you guys are comfortable with each other and you both like each other then theres really nothing you have to worry about. Fights usually come when things get complicated. When sex, other guys or girls come into the picture is when disaggrements arise. Just be happy you have a good relationship and deal with the problems when they come...don't stress! [ SouthernBarbieGirl's advice column | Ask SouthernBarbieGirl A Question ]
HeatherFeatherz answered Saturday February 26 2005, 4:09 pm: ♥ not fighting with your boyfriend is a defintate GOOD thing!!! but spending a bunch of time together really depends on whether you are enjoying the time or starting to get sick of him! if thats the case try to back off a little but don't be to strong and make him feel like you don't wanna be with him! i know how great it is to have your space ( my boyfriend goes to another school and i like never get to see him) but then again if you guys have fun when your together and it doesnt seem to get old then spend all the time you want with him!! and cherish every moment of it!!!
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greencard answered Saturday February 26 2005, 4:05 pm: No, that's not bad at all. Enjoy it, because once you get into the 6 month - 1 year range, you WILL fight. It doesn't matter how easy going you are, or anything. Fighting is normal, but you guys are still in the kinda new phase. You haven't started to get on each others nerves yet. God, how much I wish that my boyfriend and I could go back to that phase in our relationship. lol [ greencard's advice column | Ask greencard A Question ]
AnDiE answered Saturday February 26 2005, 3:59 pm: no.. thats not hard to believe cuz you said yall are both easy going people.. thats probably why you get along so well!! and your way lucky cuz a lot of people are like.. contantly fighting!! :) [ AnDiE's advice column | Ask AnDiE A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 3:47 pm: Well spending time with him isnt bad but maybe too much will get annoying and things will get old and your relationship could end maybe real easy cause of you guys seein eachother so much.. you might get tired of seein eachother everyday.. but always make sure you have time for yourself too..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday February 26 2005, 2:51 pm: Aww, that's great! My guy and I went 11 months without a fight. Don't worry about not fighting...it's not necessarily bad. If you go out for awhile, you may find things that annoy you about the other person and fight about them a bit, but it's fine to not fight. Either that or my guy and I have real problems. We hardly ever fight. We just talk about everything...
Lol, I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
SAMzasis answered Saturday February 26 2005, 2:50 pm: This is a really retarded question. No, it's not bad. That's incredibly great. Infact, that's the type of person my ex was. But then again, I'm the type that LOVES to argue and fight, so really, we're all different. If you like arguing, do it. If you don't, then don't. Be yourself. If you two have different like-ness for argument then yea... most likely, you two won't go so far... But yea, Hopefully my advice helped. [ SAMzasis's advice column | Ask SAMzasis A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday February 26 2005, 2:29 pm: No, that's not bad at all. It's great that you two don't fight because it shows that you don't disagree about things and that your relationship is strong. It's good that you two spend a lot of time together. Not fighting is good when it comes to being in a relationship with someone.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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