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me and my bf are always joking around, and we aren't serious that much. i feel like i don't know him quite as well as i would like and that we never talk about anything serious. any suggestions?
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how old are you i mean hell there is a limit to what you should know about your bf until your about 21 you shouldnt know everything i mean that would be creepy so yah i dont know dont worry as long as yall are happy ull be fine
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BRing up serious topics!! Make conversations that wont lead to joking around. Stuff like What do you think about this? OR you can start the conversation seriously and talk to him seriously so he understands that you are not joking around! I think he might think that your joking around when your talking to him too. Just talk more with eachother and you will get to no him!
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Well tell him that.. tell him you dont feel like your relationship is serious jus tell him that you would like for you both to be open with eachother..and still joke around and stuff but also have a serious part of a relationship while its not playin around and everything..much luv dez
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You need to talk to him and tell him if you can start being serious with each other and that you can still joke around but you want to be serious. When you two are joking around, try to stop and ask him if you can talk about serious things and ask him questions. Tell him that you want to get to know him better but you can't, since you always joke around. If he's your boyfriend, I'm sure he'll understand and will be more serious.
-Karen
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alto fo couples feel this way and i have had that problem before... one fun way to learn something about yor bf while being sily but serious at the same time is to make a box full of questions on little slips of paper and sit down to dinner or something and taketurns pulling and asking questions... if he doesnt answer punish him ... like he gets no kiss but if he gives you a good answer give him a kiss... who kwos it miight be stupid id suggest trying it out...
-becca
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