ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~
amore05 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 7:58 pm: OMG only 12 and talkin about this kind of stuff?
wow.
Hey well listen what you need to do is to talk to your friend and say wow i never knew you were into these things and talk to her about it, and ask her why is she talkin about this stuff.
and try to tell her whats right.
good luck.
MaNdAbAbYgUrL answered Sunday February 27 2005, 5:17 pm: if you still want to be firneds with her then tell her to stop doing drugs and if she doesnt then dont be friends with her anymore b/c if you continue being friends she might pressure you to do drugs also. [ MaNdAbAbYgUrL's advice column | Ask MaNdAbAbYgUrL A Question ]
ShortyJS answered Sunday February 27 2005, 4:24 pm: if she is doing drugs, then no you prolly dont want to be friends with her, because it would be a bad influence on you,and you prolly dont want the trouble. and i would also tell someone if she is doin them.
charmed-cherry21 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 4:00 pm: If she is doing something you don't approve of then no I wouldn't be her friend. But try to get help for her first.
AskAlyssa answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:40 pm: sweetie i really dont think you should be friends with her anymore b-c if she is already talking about doing this stuff she probably will. if she is a really good friend to you then i think you should tell someone and help her b-c bad things happen to ppl who do drugs! try and save her b4 she starts doing that stuff! hope i helped [ AskAlyssa's advice column | Ask AskAlyssa A Question ]
LilSport1992 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:28 pm: I think that you talk to your friend. You should talk to her and ask her if she plans on using any drugs and what was going on. If she is doing drugs or is going to you should tell an adult so things do not get even more serious. Contact an adult and tell them everything even from that night. She might get mad at you but then eventually she will see that it was for everyones safety. Good luck and contact me anytime at XxPatsGirl1992xX and let me know how things are. [ LilSport1992's advice column | Ask LilSport1992 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:22 pm: Yes still be her friend...but talk to her about how shocked you are to find out all the things she does/thinking to do. You can still be her friend even though you have differences..i would break it off if you see shes changing waay too much and shes doing all this stuff alll the time. (hopefully she wont)As long as she leaves the drugs..etc out of your friendship then keep being her friend. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
LiSaxOBaBii answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:14 pm: only 12!!! that's crazy. You really have to talk to her. I would feel uncomfortable too because i'm really against drugs, but she needs your help. Definetly, take some time to tell her you are conserned. [ LiSaxOBaBii's advice column | Ask LiSaxOBaBii A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:57 pm: Well if thats not your crowd and your not comfortable with it.. then dont be her friend.. friendship can be fun with out drugs.. um well when you hang out with her jus make sure you stay outta trouble.. but she hasnt exactly done anything to you for you not to wanna be friends with her.. jus wait and see if she does something round you that makes you uncomfortable..and also if she is gettin involved with this kinda stuff and your not most likely ya'll will not wanna hang round eachother cause you guys are oppisite but dont follow her.. much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:53 pm: You shouldn't just drop your friend because she's talking to a boy about drugs and such. Maybe she's not even doing that? She might just want some information about it all. I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how your feeling about all this. Ask her why she's talking to this guy about drugs, ciggarettes and alcohol. Maybe she has a really good reason for all this.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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