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hey there! I am 14 and i know how to give great advice! i am willing to talk to you and help you through all your problems! ask me anything n i wont judge you or anything! promise! :)
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I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help?
ok...well i have the same problem but the opposite! i am skinny and i hate being it! yanno i dont think any one is truley satisfied with themselfs! in life sociaty expect all girls to be skinny, thin, big hips , big boobs, big but kinda perfect ppl! but to to you the truth there is no one out there who went through there teenage years like that..and you may think that they did and didnt have a self image problem...thats wrong b-c there is no such thing as a perfect girl! ir you want to become this "perfect person" to me in my opinion it is hurting Gods feelings in a way...b-c he made us and to tell ourselves we are ugly or fat is wrong...you are the way you are for a reason and there is nothing that matter with yoU! if you MUST loose weight try getting on a healthy diet..like salads and cut down on snacks...BUT NEVER STOP eating..that slows down you matablism and makes you gain MORE weight when you do start eating !! dont do it b-c you want to look like that "perfect person" do it b-c you want to be healthier! ...hope i helped ya!
How did you get that cool butterfly on your page?? It really makes your website look cool!
Please be specific with your details. Where did you get it from, what website. Where did you go to enter the information. THANKS ALOT ! I RATE 5s!!!!!
hey there!
yeah well i got mine from looking at other peoples xanga's..if you dont know what that is it is like a website that you keep a diary in...i dont have a certin website....umm but i dont have a certin websire! i am soooo sry that i cant help u alot here! but if you do have a xanga or know ppl who have xanga's try looking to see if they have any pictures!
Good luck on finding something like it!
I think I'm depressed.. its like sometimes I can be really happy and have a positive outlook on life, and then other times I feel like my life is falling apart. I don't think I'm suicidal, but Im just afraid that someday i might be if i dont get help. I told my dad i wanted anti-depressents or therapy, but he said no cuz he doesnt believe me that im depressed. he just wont take me seriously. what should i do? what are some ways to be happy w/o anti depressents??
alrighty...your mind is VERY powerful..i think in a way you are pushing yourself and thinking about it too much! you just have to live life and belive that life is good! sociaty expects us teenage girls to be like that..to hate life and to want to die! dont get caught up in all that! .i went through something simular to what your talking about! the best thing to do is keep a journal! when you feel like you are going to cry or wanna die! get that journal out and start writing down ALL your problem! just get all your emotions out! you dont want to be on anti depressent basically those are for people who are really really really down.. and are VERY suicidal! ...just live you life happy! always think happy thoughts! dont think about the bad! dont let this go any further because like you said your scared that it might go furthar! your mind is very powerfull and you can tell yourself that you are fine and you can pull yourself out of this! keep me updated babe! i am always here to talk online if ya need! hope i helped!
i comfort eat a lot, how can i stop this its starting to make a difference in my weight. thanks appriciate it
the best way to stop this is to start doing something else for comfort! for me i would go punch a punching bag! lol yeah i know its different but try going for a walk or writing in a journal! set something up! when u reach for something ask yourself..."do i need this or am i eating for comfort"! hopefully that might help yea!
What happens when you move away a million miles away, do people that you loved still think about you or do they just forget about you and never think about you again? Will they ever see you again? You dont know, but you think to yourself, what if they dont ever see me again, what are they going to think while i am away for so long, will I always be in their heart or will they forget about me and not know who i am if we do ever see each other again? I know that they will always be in my heart no matter what happens, will all my old and very good friends remember me though and will i always be in their heart, just tell em this please because i want to know, because i think about everyone back at home all the time, and what if i never do come back?? thanx a bunch if you could answer this!!!
well...i dont think that the people who realy truley care about you will ever forget about you! i am sure your a great person b-c you care soo much about other people that i dont think its possible for people to forget about a great guy like you! if you do feel like your friends are slipping away it might help to keep contact with them and always talk! i hope i helped!
It seems my world has fallen apart. Im depressed all the time and I feel so lonely the whole week. Ive thought of suicide , but I dont think I can do it. Theres only one person in this world that is keeping me alive , and I feel that I am slowly slipping away from him.
-Suicidal Teen
everybody goes through hard times in life and yours is now! try your hardest to keep your head held high! life is tough for you right now but you have to remeber God is just testing you! Hold on to that friend that you have! talk to him tell him how you feel! dont comit sicide b-c you might not no it now but people do care for you! i am one of them :) i hope things get better for you but if u ever need to talk seriously i m me Ohbabygurl91! i am always here to talk!
your in my prayers
Alyssa
OMG i dont know what to do...i cant eat i cant sleep, ppl are calling me werid cuz i wear nerdy clothes what should i do??? HELP ME
well can u not sleep b-c people are calling you weird? or is there another reason. try and figure out why it is that you are unable to sleep or eat. it doesnt matter what people say to you! all they want is a reaction out of you! soo just act like it doesnt bother you and i promise it will get better. they will get board with calling you weird!
Alyssa!
do u like the guitar
hmm thatz a differnt question but yeah i think its ok!
ok, so im going out with this guy, and i dont know if he really lyks me or not, sometimes it seems lyk he does but then other times it really doesnt. what should i do, should i tlak to him or not? thanx
well guys are funny like that! i think that you should talk to him and let him now how your feeling! it might be best for the relationship! :) try talking to him and tell me if that works!
im on drugs im goth and i think im cool but then one day some one came up to me and said ur a wierdo...... wut shuld i do
from drugie
KATY T. U MAKE ME LAUGH! lol
So i have this friend who cann make anyone belive they are beautiful but she can't make herself belive it... what do i do?
I think alot of time girls think that the person telling then they are pretty are lyiing and think that u are just saying that to make them feel good! some girls dont always see it themselves? i think u can keep telling her shes pretty and it still wont make her feel better! sometimes not havig a boyfriend makes that person feel bad! try fining her a HOTTIE (chad micheal Murry)
THanks mandi!
Alyssa
There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.
Luv Ya xoxoxoxo,
XoKisSeSoX
yeah i have had this feeling before with a guy! the best thing to do is let him know that you just want to stay friends and nothing else. in a way you are lucky though that you have a guy that cares so much about u! so0o what ever makes u feel better do..either tell him to kinda back off alittle or just let it be...eventually he has to get the picture
My friend is soo depressed, that everytime I'm with her, she brings me down too. And I try to cheer her up, but she just gives me one of those fake smiles. It is breaking up our friendship now, and I don't want that to happen. What do I do to help her?!
everybody goes through a stage in life that makes us sad and depressed. and hers is right now! if you are really good friends with her tell her what you just told me and tell her u are worried about her and that you want to help her! if that doesnt work then you should really tell someone b-c id she is REALLY depresed it could result to her hurting herself of even death! soo plz take my advise and tell someone!
I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence?
well....every gurl goes through a stage of not being confident with themselves. you will get through it, you just have to keep the good attitude for yourself and not care soo much about what people say. i dunno about your religion but we are all gods children and we are all gorgous no matter what other ppl say! dont forget that hun! hope i helped
i know this girl who goes to another school who is my absolute bff and she had a girl sleepover this night and that girl absolutly hates me! and she told me how much people talk behind my back and how fat and ugly i was and it really is hurtng my feelings b/c i never really did anything to her until tonight when i called her a bitch and now i just feel so emotional and i just feel like telling my best friend that if she wants to be friends with her she could be but she won't find me talking to her anymore. so i'm really confused and don't know what to do anymore
oh hun! you need to let your friend know that you wont let her be friends with u n talk behind her back! girls are mean sometimes..all they want is just to see you cry! dont let it get to you babe!
i think im cursed or something.. i have been sick (stomach flu) about 5 times in the past 2 months. it has been on and off. I was sick right before christmas, the day after christmas, new years(yea i couldnt go to a party or anything) and then once in January. Now Im sick again. Its horrible i will throw up, lay down, then when i get back up i have to throw up again. and all i ate this morning was a powdered doughnut. i also used to have an extreme pain on my right side.. it was so bad it made me throw up and i wasnt able to walk.. could someone tell me whats wrong with me.. or how to get rid of this stomach flu? (i have gone to the doctors but they didnt find anything)
sweetie did you ever go and get this checked out!?! you could have...something SERIOUS! plz go get it checked out! i garentee the doctor will help! and if you dont have a doctor go to a clinic!
Ok, my head hurts really bad. Its not a headache ( I know when I have a headache) and Its kind of a weird feeling, like my head is a melon and everytime I lay down or bend over, my head feels like its goign to fall off. My nose is all stuffy and I have no idea if I am getting sick or what. What do you think this is, the flu? What should I take (over the counter) to help me get better? Thanks
No...my father had this and he had meningitis! it is a illness in your spin. you should take i b profin or some kind of pain reliver and if that doesnt work then go and see the doctor! :) hope you get better babe!
ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~
sweetie i really dont think you should be friends with her anymore b-c if she is already talking about doing this stuff she probably will. if she is a really good friend to you then i think you should tell someone and help her b-c bad things happen to ppl who do drugs! try and save her b4 she starts doing that stuff! hope i helped
I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.
no your not anorexic i think you are just worried and that you want to stay at the weight you are in! i think you should loosen up and eat alittle more b-c you might not know this but you do need to eat some junk food to keep ur nutriton balanced! hope i helped
how do you know if you have mono? like what are the symptoms? does it have symptoms? i dont know anything about it and so i dont really know if i have it...! thanks yall!
my sister had mono...and yes there are symptoms! you get really sick almost like a cold but its worse b-c you cant stop sleeping! also there will be a pain in your spleen. which is on the side of your stomach. it will hurt especially after you eat. if you really want to know go to the doctor and get a blood sample! haveing mono does not always mean you kiss someone also. you can get it from sharing drinks..and other stuff! so0o if you think u have these symptoms go get tested! hope i helped ya!