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I don't like him but does he like me?
There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.
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XoKisSeSoX
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ohhhh puppy love go with him if a lad bein dat nice 2 u take the offer its a miricale lol
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He's just being friendly. If you don't like him, then it doesn't matter if he feels that way about you. Just be his friend for now.
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deff. ask him. boys are crazy like that. you never know what theyre thinking.
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Yeah, it sounds as though the guy does like you.
I've been in this situation before, and there's two ways to go about it:
I was super-mean to him and more or less completely ignored him. It worked, but he didn't talk to me for a month and I felt really mean. But now it's fine so if you're brutal then that's the way to go.
The second is to tell him that you don't like him flirting with you and you like him as a friend but nothing more. This way he will DEFINITELY get the idea.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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well.. first off, you have to make sure he really likes you, then talk to him a little, become friends and chill sometimes.. get to know him, and then, if you start to like him, go for it.
hope i helped.. xo
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this happens to a lot of people, so you dont have to worry!! just act normal, and dont make it look like you are interested if your not...if you want to know how he feels than ask him...theres nothing stopping you! from there, tell him how you feel...hope i helped and dont be afraid to ask me for advice!!
-roxy2005
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oo la la it seems like somebody has a little crush on you...you should definitly ask him how he feels!! If you dont like him then dont bother with it and just leave it alone...
mucho love
kayla xoxo
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Well, if you are having probs. with him then just tell him! Just say something like "You know we arent b/f g/f and i think we would have a better relationship if we are just friends." And dont force yourself to go out with him just because you feel bad for him. Just ask him how he feels and tell him how you do. Thats the best i can come up with!!!
-StEpH_x33
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hey sweetie! well it sounds like this kid really likes you! And while thats flattering i definitely understand what you're going through. He'd make a great friend you just don't want/see anything more from it and that's totally fine. I've had experience in this situation and the first time i went through it i was just so not used to all the extra attention i was getting that i pushed the guy away by being a bitch which really wasn't smart, but what can i say? i didn't know any better however im glad i can warn you about it. I mean normally the first thing u'd want to do when you find out someone likes you but you don't like them is push them away or get them to not like "like that"-i don't think its the smartest decision but i have made it before. Instead i would recommend treating him like a friend no more no less. Any time your with him treat him like any other guy, and if you hang out with him tell him your really lucky to have him as a good friend. Dropping subtle hints might give him a hint as to what you view the relationship as. If that doesn't work you might have to be more deliberate and talk to him and flat out say "you know i only like you as a friend and thats very important to me but right now i don't want anything more". there is nothing wrong with telling people what you need and want as long as you are nice about it! anyways best of luck and please let me know what happens, i hope my advice helped you. xoxoxo -sar
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It sounds like this guy likes you and if you don't like him as a boyfriend, then tell him that you want to be friends with him. If he constantly bugs you and if it annoys you a little bit, talk to him and tell him that you want him to stop. If you don't want to go out with him but he asks you out, tell him that you just want to be good friends with him. You should give him a chance but since you don't like him, then you don't have to. You should ask him how he feels about you too.
-Karen
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all I can say is tell him you just want to be friends and that you appreciate his kindness when he does something nice ( but don't say it too much or he will get misleaded and he'll think you like him!)
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you should find out if he likes u. if he does tell him u only like him as a friend. i hoped i helped. please rate!
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in my opinion it seems that he likes you by the way you describe him...i bet that he likes you but he knows that you do not feel the same way about him and he is to scared to tell you so he may be giving you hints that he likes you more then just a friend...you should in someway ask him how he really feels about you and if he says that he likes you more then just a friend (which it seems like he does) then tell him in the nicest way possible that you like him as a friend only and thats how it should be...hope i helped
<33 ~danni
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He does look like he likes you. Since you don't like him at all and you rather be friends, tell him that. If he does try to ask you out, just tell him you rather be friends. You don't want to mess up the relationship you already have by going out. And if all this super nice stuff and him saying stuff to you is bugging you, tell him to stop. You can't make yourself like someone, so he has to understand you don't have any kind of feelings for him.
♥ Krissy
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well maybe u should give him a chance but if he is anoying to then just tell him or write him a note sayingi dont like u like that
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yeah i have had this feeling before with a guy! the best thing to do is let him know that you just want to stay friends and nothing else. in a way you are lucky though that you have a guy that cares so much about u! so0o what ever makes u feel better do..either tell him to kinda back off alittle or just let it be...eventually he has to get the picture
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