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my #1enemy
i know this girl who goes to another school who is my absolute bff and she had a girl sleepover this night and that girl absolutly hates me! and she told me how much people talk behind my back and how fat and ugly i was and it really is hurtng my feelings b/c i never really did anything to her until tonight when i called her a bitch and now i just feel so emotional and i just feel like telling my best friend that if she wants to be friends with her she could be but she won't find me talking to her anymore. so i'm really confused and don't know what to do anymore
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ok what i would do is i would tell your friend that you don't really appreciate having that one girl talk behind your back if you didn't even do anything..and ask your friend to ask that girl what you did to make her say all that mean stuff about you..and if your friend would rather be friends w/ her than you then your friend isn't being a true friend to you..i hope i helped!
*FrAnKiE*
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oh hun! you need to let your friend know that you wont let her be friends with u n talk behind her back! girls are mean sometimes..all they want is just to see you cry! dont let it get to you babe!
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You should talk to your best friend about this and tell her how much this other girl is hurting you. Also say to her that when the other girl is around, you won't be hanging out with her. You don't want to be called down by someone you did nothing to. When your best friend wants to hangout, make sure it's just you and her. Maybe you could get your best friend to talk to this other girl about this all. Once she talks to her and tells her how much it's hurting you and her, maybe she'll smarten up. This other girl seems a bit jealous. She probably wants the closeness with your best friend, like you have with her. She probably just wants to be you and have a best friend.
♥ Krissy
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well don't call her a bitch or anything cause that will make the situation worse (believe me) you should actually ask her, or ask one of her friends that you know why she said that
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i think its dumb that you wont talk to your BEST FRIEND because you dont liek another girl. i know how not talking ot your best friend feels i wuz just in a fight with her over a guy. we r friends again which is soo good but anyway.. just tell your friend that you dont liek the other girl and that itsz fine if shesz friendsz with her but if shes hanging out with her then i dont want ot be there. let her know that you still want ot be friendsz and everything liek that cuz i know you dont want to not be friendsz with your BEST FRIEND because of this girl. Keep me updated hope i helped =)
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Dont resort to something like that. Just tell her how bad that girl really hurt you and just tell her that when shes around that girl and hanging out with her then dont expect you to be around at that time becasue of the situation... but tell her that if she wants to hang out someother time without her then thats fine with you, you just dont want/need to be put down like that... and I'm sure that you're beautiful and that the girl is only jelous and threatened by you becasue she wants to have the kind of relationship with your friend that you do. tell her "dont hate if you cant imitate" haha
Hope I helped!
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What you told you friend was a very good thing because it goes to show that you don't want to hang out with her friends that are mean to you and that you should think before she makes these kind of friends. You need to talk to your friend and tell her about how you feel about this friend that she has made and explain to her what she says and does to you. Tell her that you will still be her friend and will talk to her but you aren't going to hang out with her when this friend of her's is around. It's alright to feel confused about all of this but you just need to talk to your friend and explain everything.
-Karen
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dear #1 enemy,
ouch. all you can do is say you're sorry. ask your friend if the things she said are true. if they are ask your friend why would she be friends with such a horrible person? sereously, good luck, IM/email me if it doesn't work out
((shortie))
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one must die! ok what you can do is tell her that, you really value your friendship with her, and that if you are gonna continue to hang out with her and her friend that she needs to not be so bitchy, or you're not going to be able to continue. Or just kill the bitchy one :)
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Throw your shoes at her. Perferably the right one. Trust me on this one...
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anonymous -
What you're thinking of doing isn't the best thing if your friendship means a lot to you. In a way, you're literally blackmailing her for being friends with someone you don't get along with. It's not right to make her choose between her friends, but here's a suggestion that might help you.
Talk to your friend about the conflicts you are having with the other girl, but remember not to pressure her into choosing sides. Tell her that you don't want to tell her who and who not to be friends with, and that your friendship still means a lot to you. Come to some sort of an agreement, like if your best friend wants to hang out with the other girl, tell her not to invite you along for the sake of possible conflicts. The same goes for if she wants to hang out with you, to not bring the other girl along.
I wish you the best of luck, and don't let that hurtful girl get to you. She's probably just insecure or competing for your best friend's friendship. Hope this helps!
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