Member Since: February 27, 2005
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Last Update: February 27, 2005
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I'v always had low self esteem and latley i'v been feeling a little better about myself. I always wish how i had a bf or someone who cares about me like that but i never ask guys anything cuz im to shy. I'm kinda the type of girl who mostly has guy friends but not the really hott popular ones because im to shy to talk to them. I'd just like to have someone there for me thats more then a friend but i never think that anyone will like me. I hate having low self esteem and i try to do things to help it but nothing ever works. is there a way to make me feel better about myself besides a "make over" cuz im not tha girly and its juss not my thing, and is there a way to maybe get noticed more? (link)
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step in during a conversation or start your own conversation with friends. If you have a friend that knowsz say a hott guy that you like or just a guy that you wud go out with [ your friend has to hang out with this guy a lot ] go over and talk to your friend while that guysz there. be yourself i know you sed your shy but you dont have to be. if you just join the conversation and get yourself involved no onesz gunna know your shy and you will build up the confidence to talk to a guy that you like. Hope i helped keep me updated =)
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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend (link)
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oh you reeely need to tell someone about that. that is horrible if your friend doesnt know wutsz rong with wut happened then you need to talk some sense into her. definately talk to someone about it. keep me updated hope i helped =)
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all my friends have boyfriends.. and my best friend.. who ive been through everything with has ditched me for her boyfriend who i hate so much right now.. she doesnt talk to me when we go out cuz shes too busy slobering over him and its disgusting and it pisses me off more than you can ever know. sure my friends are good friends when their BOYFRIENDS arent around. i wa sjust ditched tonight.. my best friend had her boyfriend.. and my other friend had hers.. and i pretended to sleep on the couch while they humped eachother and shit. i cant take it.. someone just help me calm down and make me feel better (link)
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third wheel.. been there done that! i hate it too.. if your friend is going out with her boyfriend tell her you dont want to go and dont lie and say your busy say because you dont want to be third wheel liek always. it will make her realize that her being with her bf and you makesz you feel uncomfortable. hope i helped keep me updated =)
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ok theres this boy i really like and i have a feeling he likes me to but he also seems as shy as me even though he seems to hide it bettr than me. But to the point. Ok i really like him and i want to say something to him even if its just "hi" but the thing is when i do see him my mom and my friends mom is there and they always watch us so its really embaressing and then i ignore him when i dont want to!! plz help!!! (link)
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when your around him, your mom and your friendsz mom dont act as if you liek him. BE YOURSELF! if you cant be yourself around him then he aint worth it. I am finding this out now. Just go up to him and be like hey.. dont be shy. Being shy never got anyone anywhere. If you know people hew know him ask for his s/n talk to him online. itsz soo much easier trust me. To get to know someone you talk to them online. But like i sed be yourself. Hope i helped keep me updated =)
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i know this girl who goes to another school who is my absolute bff and she had a girl sleepover this night and that girl absolutly hates me! and she told me how much people talk behind my back and how fat and ugly i was and it really is hurtng my feelings b/c i never really did anything to her until tonight when i called her a bitch and now i just feel so emotional and i just feel like telling my best friend that if she wants to be friends with her she could be but she won't find me talking to her anymore. so i'm really confused and don't know what to do anymore (link)
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i think its dumb that you wont talk to your BEST FRIEND because you dont liek another girl. i know how not talking ot your best friend feels i wuz just in a fight with her over a guy. we r friends again which is soo good but anyway.. just tell your friend that you dont liek the other girl and that itsz fine if shesz friendsz with her but if shes hanging out with her then i dont want ot be there. let her know that you still want ot be friendsz and everything liek that cuz i know you dont want to not be friendsz with your BEST FRIEND because of this girl. Keep me updated hope i helped =)
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Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!! (link)
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ok.. this means he's cheating on his gf with you which isnt always a good thing. yeah you might liek him but he cud just be a player and only say that he likesz you that much so that you will do stuff with him and he will be off the next day. But if he really does like you I wud tell him to tell you hew he likes more his gf or you and if he reely wants to be with you then tell him to dump his gf and make sure he does so he doesnt play you. Keep me updated hope i helped =)
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OKAY, someone made a s/n almost exactly like mine and is telling me that im gonna get my ass kicked ass school but they wont tell me who they are and is putting up stupid away messages such as: "having sex for money"
and tellling me that my boyfriend is cheating on me and stuff. and she says that i've been mean to her in school. but i have no idea who it could be because im not really a mean person.. what to do?! lol (link)
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i actually knew something that happened similar to it. they made a s/n and was saying reely bad stuff about my friend. we eventually found out hew it wuz but that wuz about 3 months latur cuz i just recently found out and it happened um.. like sept. but anyway i wud liek notify aol if yu have aol and if not find a way to get their computer liek shut off. i wud have a good idea hew you think it is. dont get too involved tho because things cud only get worse. hope i helped. keep me updated =)
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hey im just wondering, if u cut is it like wrong.. is it that big of a deal.. if its not for attention it just helps you deal with yourself then does it matter? do you need help if you do cut? (link)
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No one shud cut themselves.Why wud you want to do anything to hurt yourself?? i have to admit there have been plenty of times wen i thot about it but i never did it and everything worked out for the better. itsz a very big deal one time cud lead to another to another to another and so on. my point it dont do it. Hope i helped =)
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I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly. (link)
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As long as you eat.. i mean i cud see like if you didnt eat or you ate every once in a while that you were anorexic but you sed you eat. if thats true then you shudnt need to worry. But if you do worry see a doctor or talk to someone of more experience about it. Keep me updated!Good luck hope i helped =)
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