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I'v always had low self esteem and latley i'v been feeling a little better about myself. I always wish how i had a bf or someone who cares about me like that but i never ask guys anything cuz im to shy. I'm kinda the type of girl who mostly has guy friends but not the really hott popular ones because im to shy to talk to them. I'd just like to have someone there for me thats more then a friend but i never think that anyone will like me. I hate having low self esteem and i try to do things to help it but nothing ever works. is there a way to make me feel better about myself besides a "make over" cuz im not tha girly and its juss not my thing, and is there a way to maybe get noticed more?
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well as you may know guys...well the hott ones...usually like girls that are pretty and
popular becuase thats how guys are...even though this may sound low but you could try and be friends with the more "popular" girls if you arent already...or you could try and be friends with more girls in general, popular or not. if you have low self esteem you should try this, my friend has the same problem and this is what she did: you write a list of the things that you like about yourself when your not feeling so good about yourself. it may help <33 ~danni
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step in during a conversation or start your own conversation with friends. If you have a friend that knowsz say a hott guy that you like or just a guy that you wud go out with [ your friend has to hang out with this guy a lot ] go over and talk to your friend while that guysz there. be yourself i know you sed your shy but you dont have to be. if you just join the conversation and get yourself involved no onesz gunna know your shy and you will build up the confidence to talk to a guy that you like. Hope i helped keep me updated =)
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well i think that dont always have to go out wit the famous kids. cause that usually puts more pressure on you, and in the end will make you feel even worse is u mess up on accident. so if you want a bf you might consider the ones you already know. but if you dont like any of them and you really wanna go out wit a famous popular guy i guess your just gonna have to show them that your wat they need. even if it seem scary. the only way to concure your fears is to live them. i hope i did good!
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I honestly belive that there's someone for everyone and you jsut havent found him yet. He'll come soon enough. Just be concirned about making friend with people not looking for a boyfriend. Then eventually you'll find that person who you feel comphortable around and maybe something between the two of you will work out. Get one of your freinds that you talk around alot to introduce you to some guys also. Sit with them at lunch and the conversations will flow since you have someone you know well and talk alot to there. Also, just wake up in the moring feelg a little more confident about yourself knowing and actually beliving your beautiful. He'll notice that in you. Don't worry so much about it.
He'll come, x0x Jordy|♥
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It's hard to be confident when you shy.Sometimes you just have to face your fears.Your fear is being embarrassed.You don't want to say something stupid or do something stupid.You have confidence but it's bottled up inside you and you don't want to let it out.But sometimes you have to pop the cap on the bottle.Go up to one of the popular peoples and before you do breath.You can change yourself a little bit by adding a little makeup,change your style,and your hairstyle.It's also good to talk to them if they drop a pen or something.If they don't,take one of yours and ask them if it's theirs.That's a way to strike up a convo!
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To feel better about yourself, you need to take chances and not be shy anymore; start talking to guys and be confident. To get yourself noticed more often, you can start dressing up differently and you can do your hair differently too. Start scrunching or straigtening your hair; that's not girly at all if you ask me. Just be yourself and act differently than you would normally act. Just try to talk to more guys and you won't be shy anymore and you will eventually feel better about yourself.
-Karen
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