Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!!
Lights_Fade_Out answered Monday February 28 2005, 11:38 am: if you really like him, and he really likes you, then he would dump his girlfriend. if he dosent feel anything with her, and he feels with you...that is a real connection, and i think that he should be with you rather than be with someone that he DOSENT like. ask him. pressure him into saying what he is going to do about it. you shouldnt be stuck in the situation, he should. you dont have the girlfriend/boyfriend, he does. dont be afraid to ask. =D
LexybelNLisa answered Sunday February 27 2005, 4:00 pm: hes cheatin on his gf w/ uou. if he were to dump her and go out w/ you, wudnt you ba lil suspicious and not trust him 24/7 b/c of da fact dat you kno hes chated be4 and he cud easily du it agen??? i personally wudnt b able to live liek dat, but w/e ur desicion (plus, think of his *curretn* gf's feelings if she were to find out he'd cheated w/ you or w/e)i think it's bettter you not get into it...
gud luk! [ LexybelNLisa's advice column | Ask LexybelNLisa A Question ]
x_next_2_you_x0 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:09 pm: if this guy has a girlfriend and is cheating on his girlfriend with you...what if you become his girlfriend how do you know he wont cheat on you with other girls? what if he is telling you what he feels about you and is saying all the same stuff to his girlfriend...guys usually just cant be trusted but you need to make sure he is for real and isnt just playing you...i dont know if you would want to do this but you should talk to his current girlfriend about it...hope i helped <33 ~danni [ x_next_2_you_x0's advice column | Ask x_next_2_you_x0 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday February 27 2005, 1:49 pm: If he really wants to be with you/likes you, he'll dump his girlfriend and go out with you. Until he actually does dump her, don't believe the things he says and don't mess around with him. When/if he dumps her, you'll know he does like you. Then maybe you guys can start something up. But until then, just talk to him and be his friend.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
uacctk14 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 11:17 am: it sounds like he's playin you so i say if he likes you so much break up with her if he doesn't in 1 week then he's obviously attached to her and not you...srry! [ uacctk14's advice column | Ask uacctk14 A Question ]
aLeX821 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 10:44 am: ok.. this means he's cheating on his gf with you which isnt always a good thing. yeah you might liek him but he cud just be a player and only say that he likesz you that much so that you will do stuff with him and he will be off the next day. But if he really does like you I wud tell him to tell you hew he likes more his gf or you and if he reely wants to be with you then tell him to dump his gf and make sure he does so he doesnt play you. Keep me updated hope i helped =) [ aLeX821's advice column | Ask aLeX821 A Question ]
eclipseag answered Sunday February 27 2005, 5:07 am: oh, how sweet... isnt it, that a guy thinks you are thw sweetest thing and likes you... yet doesnt feel the same way about his girlfriend... what are you ever going to do?? Here's a fun theory: He's cheating on his gf now... what makes you think that he wont cheat on YOU?? Thats always something to keep in mind. [ eclipseag's advice column | Ask eclipseag A Question ]
SAMzasis answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:51 am: Um..... Get away from the ill-society, and join a nudist colony. That would help you a lot... Believe me. It will. I've had a friend that did that, and her love life just went sky high. -AH wait, I lied, I, nor anybody I know, has done anything like that. I think you need a lolly-pop.... Go get yourself a nice lolly-pop
mylinhthan answered Sunday February 27 2005, 2:25 am: anonymous -
To be brutally honest, you need to re-evaluate this guy. If he is currently cheating on his girlfriend with you, think of if he would cheat if you were to go out with him? I'm not saying that the "once a cheater, always a cheater" phrase applies, but see if he'll break up with his girlfriend after tonight; I'd say give him a week at the least. If he doesn't break up with her, I don't think he's being true and I'd advise dropping him. Cuz if all he said to you was honest, he'd take into consideration for your feelings and pursue a relationship with you instead.
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