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BITCH!!!!


Question Posted Sunday February 27 2005, 3:04 am

OKAY, someone made a s/n almost exactly like mine and is telling me that im gonna get my ass kicked ass school but they wont tell me who they are and is putting up stupid away messages such as: "having sex for money"

and tellling me that my boyfriend is cheating on me and stuff. and she says that i've been mean to her in school. but i have no idea who it could be because im not really a mean person.. what to do?! lol


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gakkuhideto answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 7:08 am:
That's happened to me before, someone made a screen name that was very close to mine, everyone at school thought it was me.

First of all, you now know for the future not to give out your screen name!

And what I did was I told my parents (I was like twelve, but even if you are older than that you should tell your parents), and my dad went online and talked to them. He said that he was tracking their IP address (he wasn't though), and that he was my father, not me. They got scared and signed off. We also notified the police for harrassment. After a few days, they stopped and everybody has forgotten it now.

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Magic answered Sunday February 27 2005, 6:12 pm:
just change your password and they wont be able to sign on your sn

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theloveless answered Sunday February 27 2005, 4:08 pm:
Ick!
This person sounds really stalkerish! I think you should apologize and coax them into telling you who they are. Be like, none of this will be used against you. I just want to know how I hurt you. Chances are they may tell you. Then find them in school and beat the live F*** OUT OF THEM!!!
Stealing someone's identity is punishable by death.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:11 pm:
Well jus walk your back and see who likes stare you down and shit.. cause who ever hates on you the most is most likely the person.. and also um maybe get a new screen name and it has to be somebody who knows you.. and it could be somebody fuckin with you too.. but much luv to you and best of luck dez

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xObEaChbAbEoX answered Sunday February 27 2005, 11:18 am:
well, it could be one of your friend's mad at you for something? or someone jelous of whatyou have example bf, etc

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uacctk14 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 11:15 am:
areyo u karen?? and tell everyone it wasn't you and tell ur bf whats goin on and tell everyone tht someone is infotraiting you

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gsngirl7 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 11:08 am:
Try either blocking her or reporting her to whichever internet you have. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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Kels answered Sunday February 27 2005, 10:59 am:
1) block them- then you wont be worried anymore
I know it will be hard to, but its right, belive me, {been there, done that}
2) even though you like your new screen name, make a new one! one thats even better, and only tell your friends. If someone talks to you on it that you dont like, block them.
3) if you want, make 2 new ones, in addition to the one i described above. {screen names i mean} then with one, only tell your close friends, with the other let it be known, but still, it a problem or someone who is a problem, presents it/themself, block them immedietly, i know it seems hard, but its better!!

Hope I Helped-
*Kels*

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aLeX821 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 10:41 am:
i actually knew something that happened similar to it. they made a s/n and was saying reely bad stuff about my friend. we eventually found out hew it wuz but that wuz about 3 months latur cuz i just recently found out and it happened um.. like sept. but anyway i wud liek notify aol if yu have aol and if not find a way to get their computer liek shut off. i wud have a good idea hew you think it is. dont get too involved tho because things cud only get worse. hope i helped. keep me updated =)

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XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:31 am:
well first of all this girl seems real mature and I wouldnt bother with her. your friends know what your sn is and what its not. Second of all I htink now you need to be a little bit more aware o your surroundings and actually take a look at who you talk to and who you dont and who you throw the slightest attitude to and who not. You should be aware of the people that are capable of things and who isnt. Just take a look around at people maybe in your version of th (scrub/loser) catagory and maybe pick one of them out that you htink it might be. And then try and talk to her. Thats jt about as much advice as I can give you for now.. anymore questions ask me. let me know what the outcome is :-D
-Ashley

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Karen answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:55 am:
There are a few things that you can do. One being that you can start, saving all of your coversations with this girl who is harassing you and then take them to school because at my school, there is a new rule, stating if anyone is harassing you through IM, they can then get in trouble if you have proof and such. You can also have friends watch you so you won't get your "ass kicked ass school." You should probably make another, new screen name, and only give it out to people who you talk to and tell them not to give your screen name out without your permission and such, that should work. Talk to your parents and tell them that someone is harassing you online and that you want it to stop. This will stop, if you just ignore this for now and if it somehow continues in school, talk to your principal or guidance conselor. People are just really dumb and taking their time, making a screen name and harassing people, don't you say?
-Karen

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S_C answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:10 am:
Save and print the conversations you are having, and take them to the principle at school. That's just about all. Or you can ignore her. Thought I'm not taking you as seriously since you "laughed out loud" at the end. What's so funny about someone wanting to kick your butt at school. I had a friend who I ticked off really bad, and there were rumors that she wanted to kick my butt, I knew she'd win so I was scared as all, my mom found out and flippin called the school (i was super mad) it was all a misunderstanding though, what those people told me was a complete lie. But your school does not want fights to happen, so you warn them before one could possibly brake out. Seriously, print out the conversations you are having, when you get to school ask to see the principle, or like if you have seperate administrators, or if you want to see your guidance councilor, or just a teacher you'd trust talking to, and show them the conversations. Good luck, hope you don't get your butt whooped!

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Shortie answered Sunday February 27 2005, 7:33 am:
dear s/n,

YOU HAVE TO TELL SOMEBODY. have another conversation with the person and print it out. this way, you'll have proof. show it to your parents, show it to your principal. its better being alert than being worried every day. its funny because this exact same thing happend to my sister about...a month ago. the school found the person but she refused to say she did anything. they let her go. our dad called the police, sooner or later, there were police all over the school. they checked the lockers and everything for a knife(because that's what the person online threatend her with) and everything seemed to be okay. what you should do is ask all your friends about the sn. show the conversation you printed out and then you tell the principal. but you must tell your parents first. this might seem a little long, but it is a lot of help! threatening people isn't exactly the best thing to do and you're gonna show that kid why...

that last sentence didn't really make sence....
oh well, sereously... hope i helped

((shortie))

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MicroSurjj answered Sunday February 27 2005, 5:21 am:
Watch Rocky, and follow suite dear, OR trace her ip and tell your internet service provider that a malicious virus was sent from that location. They'll shut her down :)

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SAMzasis answered Sunday February 27 2005, 3:47 am:
Um.... "ass kicked ass school" please decode that for me dear. I have no idea what you're saying. Also, thinking that you're not really a mean person, is you, being self-centered, and think you're full of it. No one is "Not really a mean person" You're being an egotistical piece of crap. But I feel sorry for you, so here's my special advice, straight from ME to YOU.

STEP One: Nail your boyfriend down.

STEP TWO: Kill female you see.

STEP Three: Repeat step Two, but with Gay people as well.

Yea, a gay man, may be after your boyfriend. You better watch out man....

Have a nice day!

~SAM

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