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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?

wel make sure you know the guy actually likes you first, then pick a time when your alone with him and just ask him! Just remember guys are mostly more afriad of girls than girls are of them

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i realy want a boy friend (it's my first one) but i dont what kind of boy i want. what qualities should i look for in a man?

1. good looks
2. funny
3. fun to be with
4. can be yourself around him
5. he would lov eyou know matter what you looklike

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Well, my boyfriend has been away on spring break for the past week and a half and I miss him a lot. He told me to call him during the day, and nights to talk to him.(As I usually do) So, I tried calling the first night and his phone was off, the second night it was still off. Well, last night I finally got to talk to him on AIM, and he said he missed me & missed talking with me. I really miss him, too. And it made me real happy that he said that. Anyway, does anyone know anything I could say to him to make him feel like I really missed him? Because I dunno, he's always first to say those types of things, and I don't want him to feel like I don't like him. Thaaanks.

Ariel

maybe you could send a letter, it's always nice to get mail

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alright.. well me and this guy started talkin one night for the first time, and ive always thought he was super hot so i thought i would go ahead and start talkin to him for the fun of it.. so when we got to talkin it ended up he thought it would be a good idea to do soemtihng together.. and we did.. and we kissed and did stuff together.. and then spent the next liek 3 days together (this was during spring break)and yes we were all over eachother .. so i thought i had a decent chance and he told me adn other ppl he liked me.. BUT there is another girl, and he is at the movies with her right now, and this is an ex.. and she still has feelings for him but i dont know if he feels the same.. and i really thought i had a chance with this guy.. and he made it seem that way to but now that that other girl is back in the picture i dont know what to do.. its competition with her.. and i dont know what to do to win him over..? :/

i think you sould ask him about it but, dont sould too mad at him. just be sure to ask him at the right time in the right way.

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In the past couple weeks, ive gained 10-12 lbs and i cant stop freaking out. My exercise and eating habits havent changed and i dont know why but i keep putting on more and more weight. I feel so disgusted with myself. Can anyone explain to me why ive gained all this weight all of the sudden? (No, im not pregnant.) I dont overeat. I actually burn all my calories. Any way i can lose all this weight because exercise and eating healthy arent working?

i would realy see a doctor or atleast tell an adult maybe they can help you

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Okay so my best friend is all of a sudden being a total jerk to me. She's saying I'm stupid when I'm an A- average student and she's a C average student. She's saying just because it took me a longer time to move up a level in gymnastics means I'm not as good as her when I'm the one who got her into it and she's only moving up a level because she wants to be better than me. I work my butt off to get the scores to move up but she gets a score 4 points lower than mine and she can move up. I have other friends but I spend more time with her. What should I do?

dear "best friend" maybe you could talk to her, but if she's still a total jerk then forget it. just be a bitch right back at her.

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ok i had this 1 friend... but we got in this big fight over a guy and now we arent friends anymore... but she got all these people to hate me even some of my other friends... one of them even brought a knife to school and thretened to kill me... every1 is calling me a slut because i gave her ex head... i didnt even want to he made me do it... and she calls me a slut and the very next day she goes and has sex with her ex... every1 is spreading rumors about me that i have aids and that i give out blowjob... i have been getting nausty phone calls and text messages and i want them to stop... how do i get the rumors to stop? and how do i get some of my friends back?

dear old friend,

i suggest acting really nice for a while to show your friends you care. maybe they'll realize you're not a slut or any thing else. OR you could make your friend look realy bad so everyone realizes she's the slut.

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Can someone please explain to me what carbs and calories are and the difference between them?

calories are the heat energy in food. carbs also give you energy. if you do not burn off all this heat and food energy you can get FAT

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I really don't know what to put this quesion under. But here goes..... does anyone know where I can find the screenplay Mean Girls?? I need it really bad so if anyone knows where I can find it, that wuld be great. I sorta need it A.S.A.P.!

Thanks again,

dear movie,

I don't think Mean Girls is in theaters now, but you should be able to find it at Blockbuster or something.

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I am 15 and I just cannot get any guys to notice me. Sure, I have plenty of guy friends, but I find it very difficult for guys to look at me as more then a friend. I'm not exactly skinny, but I guess i wouldn't callk myself extremely huge. I am just overweight. I work really hard to lose weight and it usually works, but I always get so depressed when I see all my friends who weigh like 115 pounds and how they always get the guys to notice them. How can i get guys to notice me and really see the real me, not just what is on the outside? How can I make them see the real me? How can I deal with the stress I have, and how can i lose enough weight to make guys want to be with me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

dear fat,

Do you like brownies? Just be yourself and get a guy who likes brownies too!

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all my friends have boyfriends.. and my best friend.. who ive been through everything with has ditched me for her boyfriend who i hate so much right now.. she doesnt talk to me when we go out cuz shes too busy slobering over him and its disgusting and it pisses me off more than you can ever know. sure my friends are good friends when their BOYFRIENDS arent around. i wa sjust ditched tonight.. my best friend had her boyfriend.. and my other friend had hers.. and i pretended to sleep on the couch while they humped eachother and shit. i cant take it.. someone just help me calm down and make me feel better

dear all wrong,

the best thing to do is speak up for yourself. your friends might not realize there being mean to you. if that doesn't work, look for a boyfriend and let them see how it feels.

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ok theres this boy i really like and i have a feeling he likes me to but he also seems as shy as me even though he seems to hide it bettr than me. But to the point. Ok i really like him and i want to say something to him even if its just "hi" but the thing is when i do see him my mom and my friends mom is there and they always watch us so its really embaressing and then i ignore him when i dont want to!! plz help!!!

dear the one,

try to be near him when your mom and friends aren't there. usually boys are more afriad of you than you are of them. he may and may not like you but if he deosn't try to get over it and keep looking

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Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??

dear old,

just remember you are too old because other people are always older than you!

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if sperm touches your vagina,(& may have gone in a little..) is it possible to get pregnant?

dear pregnant,

usually people only get pregnant if it goes all the way in-or you get your period that day

im me at princeton0173 if things don't work out

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hey im just wondering, if u cut is it like wrong.. is it that big of a deal.. if its not for attention it just helps you deal with yourself then does it matter? do you need help if you do cut?

if you cut you do not need exactly "help". you just need to decide whats more important, your health or your happiness. either way there are better ways to make yourself feel good.

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