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My old friend
ok i had this 1 friend... but we got in this big fight over a guy and now we arent friends anymore... but she got all these people to hate me even some of my other friends... one of them even brought a knife to school and thretened to kill me... every1 is calling me a slut because i gave her ex head... i didnt even want to he made me do it... and she calls me a slut and the very next day she goes and has sex with her ex... every1 is spreading rumors about me that i have aids and that i give out blowjob... i have been getting nausty phone calls and text messages and i want them to stop... how do i get the rumors to stop? and how do i get some of my friends back?
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Okay first tell a parent/teacher/guardian about the knife because if the knife gets bought to school again and things get out of hand someone get hurt or even worse killed (which sounds very dramatic but it has happend - started out as a school fight between girls and finished in someone getting killed)
Next, if this guy really MADE you give him head then you should definatly report him. Don't be scared that he's going to hurt you if he finds out or anything but definatly report him. Only report him if he really did make you if you were willing then don't.
As for the girl, stay away from her. You don't need people like that making up shit about you. Go join some after school activitys like a sport or anything like that and see if you can make some new friends or if you don't want to join anything like that just see if there's anyone around your area willing to get to know you.
Next, the phone calls and texts. Change your number, I know it's a hasle but if you want them to stop you have to change your number at least untill the rumours stop and people see some fucking sense that this girl is bullshitting about you.
and next, the rumours. Ignore them, I know it's what everyone says but there's no use going round trying to change peoples minds, let them get along with it and show them that it really doesn't bother you. Make sure you don't walk round with your head down or don't try to avoid walking past someone who belived the rumours by taking the longer route or anything. Just show them that it really doesn't bother you since you know the shits not true!
eh, that was long but I really hope I helped
and good luck. If you ever wanna talk you can IM me on siimply x emily
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dear old friend,
i suggest acting really nice for a while to show your friends you care. maybe they'll realize you're not a slut or any thing else. OR you could make your friend look realy bad so everyone realizes she's the slut.
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Okay for one thing I would tell the teacher or someone that someone brought a knife and wanted to kill you. Then i would stand up for yourself and not get yourself into situations like giving a guy a head. If you didnt want to you should have simply said "NO" and walk away. Stand up for yourself and clear the situation out with your friends. Tell her calmly what her problem is, and sit down together and talk to her.
Always there..
Donna
ps ignore everyone and if you do well in school and stuff you can put this all behind you and you will be better than them when you get older.
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get on stage grab a mike and scream out the truth
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