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Question Posted Sunday February 27 2005, 12:39 am

all my friends have boyfriends.. and my best friend.. who ive been through everything with has ditched me for her boyfriend who i hate so much right now.. she doesnt talk to me when we go out cuz shes too busy slobering over him and its disgusting and it pisses me off more than you can ever know. sure my friends are good friends when their BOYFRIENDS arent around. i wa sjust ditched tonight.. my best friend had her boyfriend.. and my other friend had hers.. and i pretended to sleep on the couch while they humped eachother and shit. i cant take it.. someone just help me calm down and make me feel better

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chaos answered Monday February 28 2005, 10:01 am:
I would have so got up and walked out of the room while slamming the door. That's just disgusting. You need to confront them and tell them how you feel. Then go find some real friends that would never do that kind of crap to you. I admit it's hard balancing the boyfriend/friend thing, but they aren't even trying. Maybe they will see the light when their lives are all screwed up and their hearts are broken.

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Spike answered Sunday February 27 2005, 11:48 pm:
Just tell them how you feel, and if they dont listen, Id find new friends.

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taLuLax3 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:02 pm:
i am kinda going through the same thing, try saying something to them, maybe they'll take it into consideration that they could be losing a great friend.

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xOxFrankiexOx answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:14 pm:
Alright this is what you gotta do..#1 tell her that you are tired of her ditching you to go w/ you boyfriend somewhere..and #2 if she doesn't listen to what you have to say about that then she obviously isn't a very good friend..and she would rather spend her time w/ her boyfriend then her best friend which totally isn't right..i'm so sorry that you're going through w/ this..but seriously you have to sit her down and talk to her about it you gotta tell her that you feel left out and that you feel that she has no time to spend w/ you and only time spent on her boyfriend..because would you rather tell her the truth and probably get some feedback on what she's gonna do..or deal w/ seeing her and her boyfriend do nasty stuff in front of you..i'm this isn't the best but good luck sweetie and if you have any other questions just drop one in my inbox ♥Frankie

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aLeX821 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 10:56 am:
third wheel.. been there done that! i hate it too.. if your friend is going out with her boyfriend tell her you dont want to go and dont lie and say your busy say because you dont want to be third wheel liek always. it will make her realize that her being with her bf and you makesz you feel uncomfortable. hope i helped keep me updated =)

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kra2ii5h0rtii3 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:44 am:
maybe you should talk to her. maybe you should try to get a boyfriend too. i went through the same thing, but my friend never ditched me because i talked to her and told her what she is doen rong. juss try talking to her.

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Princeton_Girl answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:04 am:
dear all wrong,

the best thing to do is speak up for yourself. your friends might not realize there being mean to you. if that doesn't work, look for a boyfriend and let them see how it feels.

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SAMzasis answered Sunday February 27 2005, 4:08 am:
Next time when you're in a position like that, ask ask for either a three-some or an orgy. Quantity, over Quality.

~SAM

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday February 27 2005, 1:22 am:
well think, is they really love eachother, its goin to happen that they wanna spend more time with the ones they love. i'm not sure if i'm really helpin, but i'm tryin to tell ya wats goin on. but i think that they should be allowed to love and spend time wit there bf's, but they sholdn't be dithcing you. i think you shold tell them how you feel. if they dont care about you, then you might consider new friends. i hope i was of service.

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MummuM answered Sunday February 27 2005, 1:12 am:
First of all, that is just wrong. They shouldn't be all over eachother while your still in the room. That stuff that they're doing should be done behind closed doors. That's just rude of them. They also shouldn't be ditching you/ignoring you when they have their boyfriends around either. There's nothing wrong with your friends having boyfriends, but they shouldn't be ditching you. Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever. I think you should talk to your friends about this and tell them how much it bugs you. Tell them you think it's totally rude what they're doing to you. They should understand your point-of-view on things and if they don't, don't hangout with them for awhile. Maybe once you don't bother with them, they'll realize what they are missing and will smarten up!
♥ Krissy

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