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i cant get a guy because i am fat
I am 15 and I just cannot get any guys to notice me. Sure, I have plenty of guy friends, but I find it very difficult for guys to look at me as more then a friend. I'm not exactly skinny, but I guess i wouldn't callk myself extremely huge. I am just overweight. I work really hard to lose weight and it usually works, but I always get so depressed when I see all my friends who weigh like 115 pounds and how they always get the guys to notice them. How can i get guys to notice me and really see the real me, not just what is on the outside? How can I make them see the real me? How can I deal with the stress I have, and how can i lose enough weight to make guys want to be with me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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it depends on what kind of relationship you want with a guy. If you just want guys to notice you and the hook up and those kinds of things then do crunches, every night do 100 on each side. it REALLY helps with lovehandles and bellies. Run and go on walks for better legs. Also, wear black shirts and shirts with stripes, those are slimming, lowcut shirts are good too, if you have big boobs. If you want a guy for a real relationship then just be the weight you WANT to be. if you really want somebody who loves you, then you dont want them to fall in love with a person your not. If you have a good personality and your not fake and your not dumb then im sure you could get a guy you want! good luck hope it all turns out alright!
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Well hun you should except yourself the way your built..maybe try not to worry about how people look or think bout you..i know thats gon be hard but who cares.. you should be with somebody who excepts you like way you are anyways.. and jus be yourself hun.. sooner or later a guy will notice that your a good person inside and that it doesnt matter bout how you look.. you want a guy who would like you even if you gained more weight or lost it.. if you had a bad hair day.. you want somebody like that not someone who jus gon judge you and most likely make you feel like crap the whole time..much luv dez
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Eat Less Do More
Put down the fork
Or not, some guys like more cushin fo da pushin
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i was overweight when i was 15 and i lost loadsa weight and slimmed down from size 16 to size 10.i thought this would werk but i still had low confidense so it wasnt the body size which get the boys to notice me it was cos i had low confidense so maybe it isnt your weight thats the problem so just stop putting yourself down adn think of the things which make you special.hope i help.xxxx
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You shouldn't worry about what other people think of you. Try flaunting something else great about you that they would notice, like your eyes, your personality...
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Hey..im 15..overweight..and no boys at all are interested in me. Its hard sometimes..but you gota hold your head up high. Wait for the guy who sees you for you. Wait for the guy who doesnt have to have a skinny girl to be with..those are the kind of guys who probably arent worth while anyway. Keep hanging with your guy friends..you sound friendly which is excellent. Keep hangin with them and being yourself. Dont lose weight just to have guys notice you. Wouldnt you want a guy who dates you because he really likes you..not just because your skinny? Being overweight is kinda a good thing because when a guy likes you..you know he likes you for what on the inside and out. I see so many pretty girls get hurt because the guys use them only for their looks. All your friends know the real you..and thats the important thing. You cant pull aside a guy..MAKE him see the real you..and make him like you. The guy who will sweep you off your feet will see the real you..just from how you act during the school day..and the wait will be worth it:)
Dont lose weight just for a guy..do it for yourself! If your going to go on a diet..do it gradually. (i cant stress this enough) If you go absolutely nuts on your diet..you may lose like 4 lbs..but then you'll find yourself cheating on your diet and you will end up right where you are now again. SO gradually work your way into eating healthier. (example: if you eat 1 serving of junkfood every day..cut it down to one serving thats smaller for every other day) Eat balanced meals..and slowly increase your excersise pattern.
I hope i helped..and dont worry..your not the only one waiting for a guy to like a girl for her inner self..im waiting too..along with a lot of others around the world. We just gota keep being ourselves..and trust me the wait will pay off!
-melissa- :)
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If guys just look at you and decide not to go out with you, just because you aren't like the other girls, forget about them because they are just mean and retarded for doing that and you don't deserve to be done that to. If you want guys to notice and see the real you, you need to just talk to guys and let them get to know you. Hang out with them and flirt with them once in a while. Dress up differntly and do your hair differently also. To deal with your stress, you need to start think positive and knowing that there are guys out there who wouldn't care about the way you look. Have confidence and that will help you get noticed too. To lose weight, so guys can notice you more, just do three simple things, eat healthy, watch what you eat, and exercise daily. Start eating foods with less carbs and calories and drink water instead of soda. This will help you a lot and your self-esteem will boost up once you start seeing results and knowing that you are losing weight.
-Karen
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Honey you dont need to look good for guys to notice you, you just have to be yourself and not anybody else.You should show your real emotions and yourself. Also you can start a balanced diet and try to excersice at least 3 times a week.
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dear fat,
Do you like brownies? Just be yourself and get a guy who likes brownies too!
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Sweetie, guys that only look on your outside appearence are too shallow anyway..and you deserve better. You will find a guy that will love you for you soon! Dont worry about your weight because this world always wants people to be perfect and they are never satisfied. So dont spend so much time worrying about your weight..I know you want a boyfriend and you will get one! You will get a boyfriend who loves you no matter what your size/shape and that is the guy you want to be with. Not some shallow guy who will take advantage of you and leave you.
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It shouldnt always be because your skinny, and your have a hot body -- I know sucks you see all your friends getting guys and you just sit back and watch, if you wanna lose weight talk to your parents, and to your doctor -- you just dont wanna lose it the wrong way. Guys are pricks sometimes...but im sure you'll find someone who will treat you right <-*
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Aww, hey. Well, you think weight seems to be your issue. Maybe its not. Maybe you have low confidence. Have faith in yourself. If guys dont like you for you them f*** them!! Ask your guy friends about them. Your guy friends obviously like you that they are friends with you.
♥ Michelle
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