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ok i get this report about how i do in school each week. and when i 1st started getting it my dad said that if i get ONE bad thing on it than i am grounded for the whole weekend...no phone. no computer. no friends. no tv. no music. and then something bad was on it and i really dont wanna b grounded this weekend so i told him i forgot it somewhere and that i cant find it so he told me that he wanted to see it on monday and i was free this weekend but he said that if i forget it on monday or if its bad than i get grounded for 2 weeks...and in the next two weeks ill be going to 6 flags and the kiss concert so i dont know what to do because i dont know if he would take those 2 things away from me because he payed for them both..what should i do? be free for this weekend and have a good time like a plannned?? or risk being grounded for 2 weeks..but then again he might forget..please answer! soooon! ill rate. (link)
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he sounds a bit too strict. you could just say that you cant find it and where you thought you left it its now gone. or u cud just give it to him and just say you were having a bad day. i fink you should do what i sed first but just make sure your next report is good then he might forget about it. good luck and i hope you hav fun in the concert if you get there!
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hi its me again okay i have a question well me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he says he can't have kids . well we have been having safe sex and i am not scared of it i am just wonderin can i get pregnant if he say's he ant have kids and he doesnt wear a condom when we have sex again?i mean should i trust him on him saying he cant have kids or should i ask someone like his sister? i just dont know if i should believe him and plz answer my question here it is again. Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend says he cant have kids? (link)
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this is a tricky one, if ure close with his sister just say how come ure brother cant have kids.. whats wrong wiv using a condom neway? u can get ones that he doesnt even know hes wearin one, hope i helped let me know if u need any more advice.xx
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Hey, Advicenators!
I injured the ligiments, tendons, nerves in my right knee along with the hamstring. I used to be able to jog a mile in 12 minutes (uphill) without my knee hurting. I could run the mile (uphill) in seven minutes without my knee hurting. Now, I have a hard time jogging four hundred yards! I'm taking it 'slow', walking.. blah.. but, I'm now walking about three miles (once again, uphill) every day, and I can jog about 400 yards (you got it, uphill) without pain.. but I want to be as good - or better - as I was before I hurt my knee.
I stretch before I exercise, and I walk a little more than a mile three times a day, and I jog half a mile once a day. I love swimming, but it's still a little cool for that. How can I get my knee in top condition for this summer, swimming and such?
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maybe have phisio(sp?) on it wehn i broke my ankle i had phisio on it and its more or less back to normal!hope i helped xxxx
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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?
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i think the real problem is your jealous of your friend zoe.. and you have a low self esteem,you have to be careful cos this jealousy could turn into you hating her so you need to write down at least ten things that you like about yourself and if youre that hung up on your glasses than get contacts.i promise you the moment you start having more confidence you will ahve the boys queing up to go out with you! hope i helped let me know what happens! xxxxx
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I need some good advice. I am homeschooled and I would like to get into something like football. This years been rough and im considering going back to public school for 10th grade. If I go to public school though my parents are afraid that my attitude might change to match the people around me (which is very true and might happen and it'll be worse). Should I go back to public school and stay caught up, play sports, and be around other people. Or should I stay homeschooled and not be influenced by the people around me? (link)
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even though there are education benefits of being home schooled youre not getting a teenagerhood if you get my meaning?having a attitude is all part of growing up,and you need life experience as wel.have you always been home schooled? or whats the reason your parents decieded to homeschol you?let me know! hope i helped xxx
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I have a little issue see I get turned on by gurls. I basically grew up around guys and i always heard them sya damn look at that a.s.s. or she got a nice rack and I always ignored it like why do i want to hear this now when I ee a gurl i think the same excact thing i wonder what she looks like naked, what tricks she can do, just things that I would think about wit a guy. I have never done anything with a gurl and want to experiment but I am scared because i dont know how to approach a gurl to let her know. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? And could you give me some hints on what to do when you are with a gurl do you do the same things you do with a guy and are there any special tricks?
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first of all how old are you? if ur older enough go to a gay bar and just try it,ive got a gay sister so dont be ashamed if ur a lesbian.
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ok well my boy friend wants to do something today but i dont... what should i do PLEASE HELP (link)
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tell him ur not ready, if he goes in a mood hes only after one thing..dont do nething til ur ready youl only regret it.hope i helped xx
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How come everyone thinks im mean? all i do is tell the truth. I gues they just cant handle the truth. Do you guys appreciate it when people tell you the truth or stupid lies? I would rather know the truth not stupid lies people tell me to feel better gosh.
Whats your opinion
Ya_gots_to_luv_me :) (link)
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good on you,id love to be like that,it takes alot of guts to do that.ive got a mate like taht and shes great i ask how i look and evreything.so tell them to stop being so senstive
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I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help? (link)
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i ahd this problem to but on a much bigger level and its changed my whole perspective on life.i was diagnosed with luekemia two yeras ago when i was 14.i lost all my hair and had loadsa pple looking at me all the tiem.so just br gratefull that your body is good and well.all your parts werk dont they?and to get rid of your stomache do tummy crunches.50 a night.just dont deliberately harm your body over sumit like a big belly!hpe i helped xxx
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I am 15 and I just cannot get any guys to notice me. Sure, I have plenty of guy friends, but I find it very difficult for guys to look at me as more then a friend. I'm not exactly skinny, but I guess i wouldn't callk myself extremely huge. I am just overweight. I work really hard to lose weight and it usually works, but I always get so depressed when I see all my friends who weigh like 115 pounds and how they always get the guys to notice them. How can i get guys to notice me and really see the real me, not just what is on the outside? How can I make them see the real me? How can I deal with the stress I have, and how can i lose enough weight to make guys want to be with me? PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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i was overweight when i was 15 and i lost loadsa weight and slimmed down from size 16 to size 10.i thought this would werk but i still had low confidense so it wasnt the body size which get the boys to notice me it was cos i had low confidense so maybe it isnt your weight thats the problem so just stop putting yourself down adn think of the things which make you special.hope i help.xxxx
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There is this woman at work who really is being rude to me.
The managers all like her, and I tried telling one of them that she was really being rude, and they all jumped on me.
what do I do? Should I just ignore her? obviously I can't go to any of the managers because of the extreme favoritism. help!
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i had this problem in werk too.what i did is took her to one side and sed "what the hell is your problem?" "what have i ever done to you?"
it werked she had nothing to say now we understand eachother.she might just be try to big herself up just dont rise to her bait just ignore it but if you cant then confront her.whats the werst that could happen.hope i helped let me know what happens?xxxxxx
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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
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yea it is.if you were ready you wouldnt be asking on this advice site would you?
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My mum told me today that she had been diagnosed with breast cancer. She will have to have an operation and go through radiotherapy. I'm so worried- she will have to be in hospital for 4 days then go once every day. I'd be thankful for any information about the symtoms of radiotherapy and cancer, ways to make her feel better about it and any other things that would be useful. Thank you. (link)
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my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer this time last year and she just got the all clear.im nt goin to lie to you its gonna be hard but you will find a way to cope..you just need to be there for her and not show that your upset all the time cos she dusnt need you to worry about.talk about things you can do wen shes better.im not to sure whats the symptoms of radiotherpy bcoz my mum had chemo so she lost all her hair.go on a search engine and type in symptoms of radiotherpy.you also need to find sum1 for you to talk to maybe a aunt or a friends mum? just remember that you need sum1 for you to get thru this aswell.i know its gonna be hard but youl get thru.the best thing you need is a sence of humour!hope i helped.good luck loadsa love xxxxx let me know how things go
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I need some advice:Every time i go to bed at nite i
> cant fall asleep, it takes me a long time, i get a
> good 9 hours every nite, but i just cant fall
> asleep, ive tried writting down all my problems on a
> sheep of papper, like, homework due, chours, owe
> someone money, stuff like that, then i solved them,
> but its not the stress thats keeping me up then what
> is it? how can i fall asleep? (link)
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why dont you try havin a bath before you go to bed or dont watch tele in your rwm cos it keeps you up.also r u eatin chocalate or food wiv lots of suger in?i have truble sleepin aswell but that is because i usually hava lot on my mind.hope i helped xxxx
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so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost (link)
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your step mom is just lukin for someone to blaime and saw you as an easy target.she should have been mature about it and not blaime a kid.i wouldnt ever talk to your former steop mom shes a waste of space i would ring your real mom and meet up and just hav a heart to heart.also be honest with your dad cos you dont wana anouther mom who u dnt like.just tell him ur scared and he should be able to reasure you that it wont be like that agen.if taht doesnt werk talk to an aunt or a frends mum.hope i helped let me know what happens.xxxxx
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two nights ago i was walking out of a resturant with my family and i stepped off the curb and the yellow thing in the parking lot that like stops the cars from going or w/e was right there and i didnt know it and i stubbed my toe really hard on it(i didnt hear it pop and it didnt bend) and it hurt like crazy i dont think its broken because there is no discoloration but ive been icing it..what else should i do to make it stop hurting and how can i know for sure its not broken and does anyone know what i might have done to it? (link)
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if it still hurts a few days after and its swolen then go and get a xray to make sure it not broken otherwise just keep doing wahat your doing.xx
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See, last night I put in my tampon at about 6:00. I wore it all night long and accidentally fell asleep with it in and wore it until 9:00 this morning. My stomach hurts a little but maybe that's because i got a little drunk last night? I dont know though, I'm scared because i've read so many things about Toxic Shock Syndrome. So what should i do? Thanks!! I rate! (link)
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i would wait a few hours but chances are youd know about it if you had tss so i would tell someone just in case but i done that before and ive been fine.it might be period pains.hope i helped xxxx
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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE! (link)
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hia hunni
i reckon it s that hes shy or to pt it bluntly hes embaresed to talk to you in skol cos hes ggot a crush on you or sumit.he sownds like that.why dont you just not talk online and if he asked why say cos u neva say hi in school so i cant be arsed talking to you.hope i helped.xxxxxxx
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