Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 10:55 am
ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!
gavinhenson4eva answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:01 am: hia hunni
i reckon it s that hes shy or to pt it bluntly hes embaresed to talk to you in skol cos hes ggot a crush on you or sumit.he sownds like that.why dont you just not talk online and if he asked why say cos u neva say hi in school so i cant be arsed talking to you.hope i helped.xxxxxxx [ gavinhenson4eva's advice column | Ask gavinhenson4eva A Question ]
hopelessnlove answered Sunday February 13 2005, 10:51 am: either means he's too shy too talk to u in person, or he's a jerk off that likes you secretly but doesnt want ppl knowing...what kinda person would you consider him as? [ hopelessnlove's advice column | Ask hopelessnlove A Question ]
nachoxqween answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:57 pm: It sounds like he likes you, but is too shy to admit it. I know a lot of guys like that. Like, I talk to my neighbor a lot outside of school, but in school he completely ignores me. [ nachoxqween's advice column | Ask nachoxqween A Question ]
Cath answered Saturday February 12 2005, 8:13 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Try saying hi at school. If he completely ignores you then ignore him on the computer. If he says hi back but does not really make comnversation it could be that he is just shy to talk to you in person. My exboyfriend was shy to talk to me at school but he was always calling me and wanted to talk for a long time on the phone. Now that we are just friends we usually just say "hi" at school, but he talks to me after school on the phone and we actually have a conversation that way. But if he completely ignores you... then he's just a bastard who is afraid of being alone and gets lonely after school.
Sorry I cannot offer much help. Take care. ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
lilhelper2 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 5:04 pm: Dear irate, this boy you are talking to on the comp might not be the boy at school.but if he is maybe he doesnt want to be seen with a girl it might make the other boys not like him [ lilhelper2's advice column | Ask lilhelper2 A Question ]
runrunfasterfaster answered Saturday February 12 2005, 1:21 pm: It sounds like he is shy/uncomfortable around you, and it's easier for him to talk to your through the computer or phone. Just try talking to him at school more, and make him feel comfortable. :)<Br>I think he DOES like you though. Good luck!!!
xohcoblonde answered Saturday February 12 2005, 1:02 pm: some guys are shy about things like talking infront of his friends and stuff. and well I would just say straight up to him do you like me because if he is giving you mixed signals then I don't know what else to do then just going straight up. I had that problem once. I was talking to this guy name Austin and he was all like saying he likes me and stuff and asked me out and shit and then at school he never like talked to me.. and well then I learned he didnt like me that he messed w/ me instead. But I dont think that is happening to you. Just go straight up and talk to him. Ask him if he does or not
GodRockz91 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:51 pm: Well, some guys are shy about being open about who they like , b/c they are afraid they'll get turned down .. Just ask him plain out while your talking to him on the computer .. Just tell him that you'r confused about all of it .. And if he likes you then he'll come out and tell you .. ( I've had that kind of a problem too ) =)
guitargrl01 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 12:15 pm: He's prolly just shy. I know there are a few guys i can't talk to for hours on the computer but in person, i ignore them. Try to come up to them and start a conversation. Things might be a little shaky at first, but after a while things will be good. Hope i helped! ♥ [ guitargrl01's advice column | Ask guitargrl01 A Question ]
LostAngel answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:49 am: I agree with xxSammiWammi. It sounds like he really likes you, but he's too shy to talk to you at school. If you like him its YOUR job to chat it up with him since he's shy. Alot of guys feel uncomfortable talking with girls they like in person so they rely on the internet to talk because its much easier. Ask him why he never talks to you in school, maybe he'll even tell you he IS shy!
I have the same problem actually. I know its so confusing. Most guys are monkey butts!! lol
Karen answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:48 am: If you see him at school, walk up to him and just say "Hey, how's it going" and then the conversation will start. This guy may just be really shy and online, he can hide that and pretend that he isn't. This guy probably likes you, since he always IM's you online, once you sign on. Just start talking to him more and he will start talking to you at school. Some guys are like this but they usually change, once a girl starts to talk to them more often. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:45 am: Well, Maybe you should try and talk to him after he IM's you. Ask him why he only talks to you on the computer and not at school. I mean, if he doesn't want to talk to you because of who he hangs out with or who you hang out with, then he is a jerkoff. [ CoUnTrYgUrL77's advice column | Ask CoUnTrYgUrL77 A Question ]
KaYlA1213 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:42 am: the next time you see him at school just smile and say hi. if he talks back then just start talking to him more often, just stop and ask him how his day's going or something. before you know it you'll be talking at school and on the computer! then maybe you can get a better view on if he likes you or not! i hope i helped!
*Kayla* [ KaYlA1213's advice column | Ask KaYlA1213 A Question ]
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