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(16/f) what could i do for my b/f that is totally awesome, but is also totally out of the blue, too? thanks.

When he leasts expects it...kiss him.

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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out.

A way to avoid this is putting a rubber band on your wrist, like a bracelet, and snap at it whenever you feel you need to cut yourself. Seriously.

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how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?

If you are mature, 13 or older.

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okay..so i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months..we have gotten close to getting to know each other but we are both so shy and like i am not really sure he liked me even though i heard that he did. Then something happened and we REALLY don't talk now..not even say hi and we usta say hi before.. He somtimes walks around near me with his friends a lot..but i want to try and get to know him and atleast be frinends wit him.. He doesn't seem to be tryin to get to know me though but i do kno he is really shy. Should i try to start talking to him again or is it not worth it? and cud he possibly like me?

I think his feeling for you are getting stronger, making him more shy and more uncomfortable to hang around you as often. So I think that he prob likes you, but don't be too sure.....start talking to him whenever you can. In class, in the hall, at lunch; whenever. Send him some signals that you like him. Make eye contact. When he looks at you, smile and look away. Something. Anything. Go for it!

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I can do sprints, I'm fast at that, but I dread the mile because it's hard for me. does anyone know how to get in shape for long distance running?

Run a mile each day around your neighborhood, at school, or on the treadmill. Make sure you are doing the following stretches:1.) Flamingo(aka quads)2.) Hamstrings3.) Ankles (This means you spell out a word with your ankle, so you won't get shin splits)Also drink plenty of water throughout the day!Carba are good when it comes to sports also! It helps you gain energy! (Examples of carbs are macaroni and spaghetti)Practice makes perfect!And if you are in track/cross country:After you get better, never try the old slow-at-first-fast-at-end trick. I know, I was suprised to hear my coach tell me to sprint the whole time, but it works, b/c you keep your place and nobody passes you. It really depends on your pace though... ♥ :O)

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whats the difference between being christian and catholic?

They are pretty much the same, but Catholic is a smaller group of people.

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ive been asking for a digital camera for years now and my dad said i could probably get one for my 15th birthday next month..ive been looking to get a Sony Mavica MVC-FD200 Digital Camera, but does anyone know what other good brands i can get digital camera and maybe also record video/ movie shots

i may also get it this week instead of waitin another month, im not sure

Kodak from Best Buy.

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(Sorry, i wasnt sure what category to put this under!)

I'm afraid to have feelings for people and I dont know why. If I find a guy I like...and then he starts liking me, I start backing out, and its always like this. There was ONE guy that I liked a lot and he liked me a lot but then we only became friends and we were really close, you could say he hurt me because now we hate each other and hes the closest ive gotten to anybody at all...so could anyone help me with my problem? Do you know whats wrong with me??? Please help :( Im getting extremley upset.

You are too nervous and not ready for a serious relationship. Be patient, the time will come...

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my mom is a alchoholic and has been in california for re-hab for 4 weeks.. how can i handle this..?

Well, just remember that It's never your fault! :O) I think you should always keep in touch with her, and help her through this. It must be just as difficult for her as it is for you. Or more.

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this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*

Your friends have issues. Help them relize the dangers of drugs, and if they don't care, you need to tell someone-for their sake. It IS a huge deal. Find more friends that don't do weed. It's for the best. I'm not trying to be rude either! I truly wish you the best of luck!

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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

Um, sorry if this advice sucks...

Tell the guy through a note your feelings, and that way your friend can find out easily from the guy; which you want. In the note write all of your feelings and thoughts.

Just in case things get akward, talk to him like you never gave him the note to make him more comfortable. :D

Your BFF might be upset about your feelings for this guy, but she should understand if she IS your bff. :)

Basically: "(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)"-NOOOO!!!!! lol. If this didn't help, I'm sorry, but I hope it did, but ask everyone on advicenators. :)

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(15/f)
I want to kiss my boyfriend but I'm really nervous so I want to start with a kiss on the cheek. What are somes tips? Like as far a lipgloss and such. And, What should I do? I know it's sounds stupid, but, I don't know how! What about afterwards? What if we both get embarassed?Please help in any way! No stupid or rude remarks please! I really need help.
*-That's Rachel-*

DON'T wear any lipgloss! Wear good-smelling chapstick. Kiss him whenever you feel the time is right-trust me, you'll know. Afterward, smile and hug him. Agh. *sigh* lol, and relax!! The length of the kiss shouldn't be too quick...but if he likes it right away, maybe longer.

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



Don't get caught in this mess. Fourteen is WAY too young. If it's true love-it can wait.

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I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!

--KeLs--

Girls: Missy, Molly, Meredith, Samantha

Boys: Adam, Tyler, Tom

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I like this guy and he likes me, but we both are too shy to ask each other out. I have decided to make the move-how can I ask him out? When should I? What do I say!

Maybe during lunch at school. Make sure hes not with his friends, and just casually be like, "Hey, lets hang out sometime." DONT say: "Lets go out." Big no-no. Lol. Only do this when you are 100% confident in yourself.

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I haven't been catching up on the latest trends, so does anyone know what is "in" now as far as shoes,clothes, and accessories go?

At my JUNIOR HIGH school people have tiny backpacks, tight jeans, basically aeropastle and the eagle shirts/clothes, layered hair, scarf belts...

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whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)

Muffin, Cupcake..... ^-^

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Why do boyz always tickle their girlfriends???? I know it's stupid. But Idk

I never thought they did.......maybe to have a reason to touch them, or hear them laugh? To make them smile/happy? :)

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I didn't know what to put this under but i truley need some advice... i will rate rate you high even if you just try. I'm got in a fight with my teacher today and i got arrested and my mom picked me up at the jail a few hours later. I have court and that was my last strike so i am gettin sent away. this has been streesing me out all day , and i can't stop crying. The hardest part was seeing my best friend crying in my arms and telling my boyfriend.. ne ways what I'm asking is what should i do or say that will make everyone feel better including me.

...you're not alone.....you are never alone...

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i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!!

Clearisil

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