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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..
im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals
he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk
i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)
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well see i know what you mean cause i have the same prob.! and you just fliirt w/ hm a little you know? and if she gets signs just deny everting! lol well if you need more answers plzz come back!
`~*Dani*~`
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Ok: first of all, if you and this guy get together right now, when your friend likes him, 1 of two things can happen: either your friend wont care and she will be happy, or she will hate you for "stealing" him. Most likely the second. I think you should just wait a while, and introduce your friend into other people and once she stops mentioning his name and talking about him, etc, than you should tell her that you like him and hooook up with him. :D good luck!
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Um, sorry if this advice sucks...
Tell the guy through a note your feelings, and that way your friend can find out easily from the guy; which you want. In the note write all of your feelings and thoughts.
Just in case things get akward, talk to him like you never gave him the note to make him more comfortable. :D
Your BFF might be upset about your feelings for this guy, but she should understand if she IS your bff. :)
Basically: "(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)"-NOOOO!!!!! lol. If this didn't help, I'm sorry, but I hope it did, but ask everyone on advicenators. :)
♥ :O)
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Deffinitly talk to your friend about this. I think that you like him also because you and your friend have the same taste in guys. Think about which you would rather do, have the chance of loosing your best friend or dateing some guy who probably wont last more then at least 2 years { unless you would have a good relationship with this guy}. Theres no problem with him being in a lower grade then you. Do what your heart tells you too.
~Brina~
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