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drugs


Question Posted Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:18 pm

this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*


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vicki2k50 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 9:27 pm:
Well i'll tell no lies i use to drink to blank out my problems but now i dont because intime someone realised what i was doing and reached out to me helped me. Was there 24/7 to talk to about my problems and it really does work. Explain to your friends that your there for them if they need someone to talk to explain that you want to beable to help but dont know how. See how that goes. They can only be helped if they want to be helped. If all else fails find new friends. Good Luck.

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runrunfasterfaster answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:18 pm:
Your friends have issues. Help them relize the dangers of drugs, and if they don't care, you need to tell someone-for their sake. It IS a huge deal. Find more friends that don't do weed. It's for the best. I'm not trying to be rude either! I truly wish you the best of luck!

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superGiRL21 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 7:04 pm:
i can totally empathize with you right now. it seems like everyone is into smoking pot because its the latest "fad" or something. i don't know if thats really the case or if its just me, but that's the vibe ive been getting. the thing is im not opposed to that stuff either and i will participate in it-when i feel like it. i guess i'm not quite sure what your question is but bottom line, you can't control what other people choose to do with their lives and if it bothers you then you need to think about it differently cuz i think u're gonna have a hard time changing the behavior and attitudes of the rest of your school. do what you think is right for your life and make decisions that you want to make, you can be sick of the fact that "everyone" is doing these things but theres really nothing you can do about it, so instead of wasting your own time worrying about them, keep yourself busy and do stuff that you want to do. Best of luck-hope i helped at least a little.

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angieroonie answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 6:47 pm:
I know how you feel. i hate drugs and i dont understand why people do them. you have to voice your concerns to your friends. tell them that you love them and dont want them getting hurt.

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CraziForRey619 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 6:37 pm:
I think that some people SAY they drink and do drugs for the attention. Not everyone at your school is that bad. I think you should talk to your friends and TELL them that it bothers you. Besta Luck

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Teza answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:56 pm:
i think that you should tell your friends how you feel because it might make them think and maybe acually stop. i also kno a lot of ppl that smoke n drink n shit and its also cuz it makes them forget about problems but sometimes its really hard for your freinds to stop. i mean you really cant make them stop. its really their decision but tell you friends how you feel and maybe you can help them stop x0

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icey0990 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:36 pm:
All you can really do is tell them how you feel. This can really make them think and it can stop them..sometimes all it takes is that one special friend who has the guts to speak out. Other than that your options are limited..i mean you could tell their parents or something..but people usually dont do that because the whole school will find out and end up talking about you behind your back..so its a sticky situation. try talking to them..if it doesnt work stay friends with them but you just let them know there will be no drugs when they hang with you.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:28 pm:
Its great that you stay away from that stuff and are against it because like you said it is a horrible thing that people do. You could get in serious trouble by being by your friends when they are drinking and smokeing but i know that you wont want to give them up but for a heads up dont be by them when they do that stuff. I like your opinion about drugs and drinking. A lot of kids in my school almost half the school smokes and other stuff. A lot of kids in my grade which is 8th smoke and i think thats pitiful!!!
~Brina~

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shake answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:27 pm:
Your friends are dumb. Why do you hang out with idiots and tards? Are you in fact and idiot or a tard?

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xXtashmahottieOo answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:24 pm:
You should tell your friends you feel this way. I mean drugs are TERRIBLE (i know from experience) DONT DO THEM. my dad was a huge druggie until this year and my sister and I are scared . If your friends wont ley off then tell someone else how you feel.
i hope i helped!
<3always Diane

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