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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?
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Its way wrong, even 14 and 17 year olds DATING is horrible, my god, thats just so sick, your friend is with a big fat pervert, thats for sure. Tell her parents, I bet they don't even know about the 17 year old guy thats dating there minor daughter.
-TheTeenGirl
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they cant legally get married...and you should NOT tell her parents for her..that is something that she needs to do on her on. personally, i think it is just flat out stupid for a freakin 14 year old to get married. respect her privacy and stay out of this one and dont say anything to anyone,
~*Sarah*~
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Ok, now getting married at 14 is bad enough but once you add the "not telling your parents" part...man, that's serious. Anyway, you should tell her parents because she, alone, is too young to get married. I hope I helped some, and If I find out that this is a prank question then you're dead.
xOo Nikki Anne xO
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oo..same thinq happend 2 my friend
14-18
they waited nd` a few weeks ladurr it was off
she did tell hurr dad it to0k gut kuz the both
told hurr dad 2qether...true luv :)
hope it helps
-tay
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Don't get caught in this mess. Fourteen is WAY too young. If it's true love-it can wait.
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You cant get married that young, and it isnt your place to get involved in. You should let her tell her parents when she is comftorable. You can tell your to tell her mom fast, and you can tell your mom, but it isnt your place to tell her mom.
♥ Michelle
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You have to be 17 or 18 to get married without a parents concent.. Unless your in vegas.. and then i think you still have to be.. so dont worry bout it.. it prolly wont even work.. they'll break up before they get married
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you definitely should tell. if your friend is in trouble, then by all means tell her parents. what she is going to do is rediculous. you need to do the right thing and help her. her parents need to know something as serious as this. think if your child was running off getting married without you knowing. i think you should call her parents and request a time to talk to them about something important.
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Most states wont let someone under 18 get married. Espeacially to of them. But if thats not how it is in your state then i would tell her parents i mean its something she cna get in big trouble for. At least tell her mom (or just 1 of her parents) Cuz if she does she might end up regretting it. She shouldnt even be dating this 17 yr. old. Plus my friend got married to a guy who was like 19 and she is 16 her parents had to sign papes so you wouldnt have to worry about her gettin away with it if her parents didnt want her to because they have to sign papers so this should releave some stress off of you! good luck-trix
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uhmm im sure that it would be pretty tough to tell her parents if you guys r that close. but wat i think is that mayb they r in love and feel that is where their relationship is at right now! im not really that sure if it is right or not but its really their choice and nobody elses!
erica
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first of all that is way to young to be married she is throwing her life away to some 17 year-old! You also can not get married at the age of 14 you have to be 16 years-old or older. Even if she was going to get married at the age of 16 he would 19 and that is illege (sp). I think that you should let her tell her parents but if she does not tell them in like the next 2 weeks you need to tell them.
hoped i helped
x0x morgan
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They should wait til ther older to get married and when he turns 18 it will be illeagal.
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I think thats way to younge to get married its not even legal to get married over here at 14
I think shes is throwing her life away she has the rest of her life to worry about marriage and at 14 is way to young just support her its her choice
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roxie
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well i thought it was illegal for a minor to get married.. but maybe its different where you live? but i would have a talk with your friend and let her know the responsibility that comes with being married. well i hope everything goes ok! hope i helped =) ♥
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She can't legally get married until 16. But...if she does try to get married at 16, there was most likely be questions asked...like, when did they get together? When did they first sleep together? He could be done for rape if this got out and they have/will have slept together before she is 16, even if she does it totally willingly. Make sure you warn her of that!
It's very sweet and it might work out...but it is so easy to believe that you are in love if you want to be, and if this is her first serious boyfriend it's even easier...although things should work out. She has a minimum of two years before she can legally get married, with or without parents permission, and she'd have to go to Scotland for that (Gretna Green is the only place that marries under 18's). If their relationship lasts that long, then everything should be fine!! If they break up, then it's fine too - no-one got hurt, at least not divorce-and-kids hurt!
I'd say leave it a while. She could get really, really mad at you...it might be better to, if you are really concerned, tell her to tell her parents or you will.
Of course it all depends on what her parents are like...some people's parents are really difficult to talk to. If her's are, make sure she's not just doing this to rebel against them. Yes, they should know, but in the end it's her life and they can't really stop her once she's sixteen. Now, however, they could press all sorts of charges against the boyfriend, because he is over 16 and she is under, and as they are engaged, you tend to presume they've had sex. If they know about the boyfriend and know stuff is serious, her parents should be OK with it. It'll take a bit of getting used to but...if they don't know him or know how serious it is, they could be very shocked, especially at the thought of their 'little girl' growing up. They are likely to panic and even ban their daughter from seeing her fiancé...14 seems very young, especially to a parent.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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That is way to young. You have to tell her parents because first off he'll be 18 soon im guessing and she will only be 15 and thats illegal.
~Brina~
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well im some coltures you can but i'd say its way to young, maybe talk to her about it but let her tell her parents, unless you think the need is very seriouce. But yes... getting married to a 17 year old at the age of 14 is way to young in my oppinion.
Nat*
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For one he shouldnt have asked her to marry him cause he's to young and she's way way to young. I mean dang he's hardly out of school maybe not even out of school. They needa both wait til there older and more mature. If they get married this young then you know u it aint gonna last and it's gonna mess up both there lives. Just wait til they get older. Also if she dont tell her parents which she should that shows another reason that she aint mature enough to get married cause she wont even tell her parents about it. If she dont soon then you needa go ahead and tell her parents before she makes a huge mistake in her life. Maybe I helped keep me updated on this sitution please. Rate me
Kisses Jess
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Well first of all, if you're under the age of 18 (in some places 16) you can not get married without parental consent. This is just stupid high school romance. Nothing will happpen between them legaly/seriously for at least another four years, maybe more. Does she not have a brain. Do they both not realize that next year (or this upcoming year) he will be going off to college (unless he's some kind of bum) then what will they do. Not even an idiot parent would let their child marry this early. Except for people in certain cultures that marry early. Somehow I doubt this is a real question, and if it is, then there is something seriously wrong with your friend and her boyfriend. They are way to young and immature to even know the meaning of love (though they guy probably has a better perspective on the meaning) But really, if this is true, then the girl can't get married without her parents consent, or without being emancipated (which you have to be 16+ to do) He probably was just giving her a promise ring or something meaning when they're both older and if they are still together, to save herself for him then, or asking her that when they're older, and deeply in love, and out of school, and still together, would she ever marry him. I know that I sound rude in this response, but... well there's lots more I'd like to say, but I'll just keep it to myself.
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Damn is that gurl fricken crazy tell her parents because chances are if she does this then next year it would tecnically be illegal for them to do anything other than kiss i am telling you tell her parents and tell your friend she is fricken crazy im sorry but 14 is no age to get married and i am just telling you the truth and tell your friend she is crazy im sorry for being so harsh but it is true
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If u i were u i would tell her parents i dont think its right to get married at 14 and 17. Tell her parents ASAP thats wut i would do.
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