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confused teen
I didn't know what to put this under but i truley need some advice... i will rate rate you high even if you just try. I'm got in a fight with my teacher today and i got arrested and my mom picked me up at the jail a few hours later. I have court and that was my last strike so i am gettin sent away. this has been streesing me out all day , and i can't stop crying. The hardest part was seeing my best friend crying in my arms and telling my boyfriend.. ne ways what I'm asking is what should i do or say that will make everyone feel better including me.
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You should be locked up, jesus christ your last strike? Holy god im happy your going away. Well what you should do is make someone your bitch the first day you end up in jail, or if you dont prepare to become someone elses bitch. Good luck in jail.
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I would keep telling them and yourself that it isn't gonna be the last time you see them. Just remember that you can send letters and call them. I wish you the best of luck!
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Tell everyone you didn't mean for this to happen and that you're really sorry.
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well i can relate to both you and your friends/boyfriend because i have 5 sisters, and 3 of them were sent away. it is a VERY hard situation to be in. one of my sisters went away, and when she came back 3 years later, we were close as hell. we are now the closest we've ever been. being sent away only helped her to mature, meet true friends, and help her learn ALOT about life. she thanks God everyday that she is where she is today, and she is thankful for being sent away because looking back, she sees now that it has helped her, and in no way has it hurt her. it was hard being away from her and sure, i missed her when she was away, but i knew i would see her again ...and nonetheless, i did. and now, everythings okay again. so, my advice to you is let your friends know that you're scared and that you dont want to leave..maybe this is something you need THEM for and you need THEIR support instead of you trying to comfort THEM. just always remember this...if you really have a true friend and boyfriend...then you will have them in the end...no matter where life takes you. chances are you will probably meet tons of new friends and have a different outlook on life when you come out of there...for the better.
well good luck and i know you'll be fine. just remember this isnt the end of your life. you just have to go there and deal with it. and then when you get out you'll be free again. take it day by day and write when you get upset or mad. be good and dont act bad when you get sent away because it would only make it worse on you. be good and listen. take care and please get back to me if you need anything else. i'd love to hear from you when you get out or if you end up staying or what.
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-ashlea
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Nothing, im sry to say, people cant feel better about you leaving right away its gunna take time and your gunna be the one most sad. Good behavior is what i suggest and then maybe then will let you come back, and i kno where you are coming from except i havent gotten to bein sent away yet but jdc sucks. try to keep out of trouble and try not talkion back say it in ur head and when you leave your class you can blow up
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Maybe apologise to the teacher? However hard it is, it will make you the bigger and better person. Tell your family and friends you will never do it again - and apologising to the teacher should help them believe that. Even though you're being sent away, you can still change and turn over a new leaf and make everything OK - maybe, if you are really great and help everyone and are really kind wherever you go, you can get sent back home?
Make a mini video of all of you having fun and you saying to everyone that you will see them loads and write and stuff, even though you're not gonna be around much. Make copies of it and give one to your family, one to your friends and keep one yourself so you can all always remember the good stuff. And it might help to remind you what you're missing and why you have to be 'good' from now on so you can maybe go back! Write a goodbye letter to all of them and apologise to everyone who you have really offended - it'll make you feel much better!! Maybe even talk to a doctor or GP about anger medication? I have a friend with a really bad temper who's always getting into trouble because of it...they can give you medication to help you calm down, or counselling and stuff to figure out why you're like that. :)
Good luck and I hope everything turns out OK for you!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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You could tell them to remember that no matter what happens in life, it will always be ok. And tell them that you're going to make things right so none of this will be replayed in their lives. And do try making things right, fighting never solves, you'd rather be in trouble for being a smart mouth to a teacher than hitting them. You just have to know that when kids and teachers are in battles, the teacher ends up winning half of the time because they're the adult, and remember, that is HALF the time they win. That means the rest are mostly idiotic perverts to their students and are rude. But most likey that teacher is innocent. So just spend time with your friends, when you're alone you just end up drowning your face up in tears, making it more depressing than it is, and it may seem bad right now, but just remember that what is happening to you right now is right, even if it feels like crap, so just tell your friends that its ok even when it doesn't feel like it.
-TheTeenGirl
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if your a serious problem child and everyone knows it then put on a brave face and tell them all that you are going to go away and change. tell them you have your mind set on figuring your life out. your family especially will be proud that you realise you need help. so tell them that when you come back you will be better. tell them all to keep in touch. Good luck honey.
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