hey..im jus ur average 17 year old.
ive been through my share of ups and downs,havnet experienced it all yet, but i'll do my best to awnser any question you have
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How do I get rid of my writers' block? (link)
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stop writing...
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can u get stds from masturbation or a disease or something? (link)
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uhhhhh...im pretty sure you cant..ya...uhh i realli dont think so.
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so i work with this beautiful girl who is very distracting in a good way..... we have alot in common and always have something to talk about wether it is just bullshitting or serious... anyways i don't really have a specific question... so "hopelessnlove" what should i do???;^) (link)
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i think you should tell her how you feel, and see where it goes from there...you seem like a cool guy, i bet she likes you. Try to hang out wit her outside of work and see what happens. goodluck
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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help. (link)
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your still young...wait for the perfect kiss...i didnt and i still regret it!!
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Ok this is a really stupid question...but please bare with me. I can't apply eyeliner! Whenever I do, it looks very fake, and it looks like I just drew a line around my eyes. How do you apply it properly so that it blens and looks my natural?
I rate 5's!!!!
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hmm it's kinda hard to explian..but i'll do my best...
When putting on eyeliner you can't do it too thick or its will turn out looking fake, you have to keep it as close to your eyelashes as possible..When i do my eye makeup, if im using a pencil eyeliner, i put it on first then kinda blend it with eyeshdow to make it look more natural.Or some times ill put it on the inside/underside of my eyelid..like right underneath your eyelashes..or if i want a more dramatic look ill do my eyeshadow then use a liquid eyeliner on top of that...not thick... a thin line strait along the top of ur eyelashes.
hope that helped...goodluck
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At school I sometimes feel I am too mean. I joke a lot but lately I have been feeling like the jokes are too mean. I don't want people to be insecure about themselves around me. If my friends and I joke around I'll say something a bit harsh and I'll feel like I hurt the person's feelings. Even if I say "Oh, but that joke doesn't work because you're skinny," or something I still feel bad.
Now, don't get me wrong. I am not a mean or horrible person. I am very caring and kind. I just feel I can sometimes get too witty and make a rude, unkind joke. Can someone just help me try and be less mean? Thank you. (link)
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just joke around, but always make sure you watch wat you say..a witty person is always fun, but if they take it over the top people tend to get pissed off. So when you feel like ur about to go over the top just stop making jokes....and whatch what your about to say....once you've done that for a while...you'll get used to it and not have to worry about what your gunna say...
good luck
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is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year? (link)
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never heard of that one...
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I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?
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iono....ur guuna hafta explain more than that...although love is somewat unexplainable....get back to me on that one..
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i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not? (link)
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Theres this new fad its called bieng Bi sexual...that way you dont have to choose...dont ask me anything about it.i totaly dont swing that way..but you might...goodluck
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I have been going out with my boyfriend now for 3 monthes. I am 14 years old. Last night, we went to a house party. Ther was this game were we had to give head. I didn't want to give his bestfriend head, but all the girls were doing it. The game was called "rainbow."
I feel so guilty, and gross, what can i do to feel better?
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ew...what the hell kinda gameis that...did ur boyfreind just whatch you give his best freind head...thas not right...just dont do that shit anymore and youwont have to feel gross...
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ok, well i like this girl, and i no she likes me 2. we went out for like a week, but it didnt really feel right, but we still both like each other! wat do i do? (link)
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Just be freinds with her for a while, get to know each other better. And onnce you've done that you can decide if you still want to be with her. Good luck
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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something... (link)
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na its normal..i didnt get my first kiss till middle of 9th grade...everyone has there own time. Just make sure yourfirst kiss is special!
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hey, i just had an idea to make my friend a cd. One with cheerful songs so when she's feeling sad it will make her feel better. Does anyone know some good songs that will put her in a good mood?
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Don't worry be happy now!!:)
wHEN your sad your face will frown and dat will bring everybody down..doont worry.....be happy!
Dont worry be happy now!
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There's no way in explaining what happened without using a lot of words, so I apologize. I'm 16 and female by the way. I just don't want the people that read this and give me advice to get the wrong idea about things. I've been with this guy for almost 6 months, and recently he told me he doesn't feel the love anymore and that he wants to break up. Me, being stupid, begged him to stay with me. He said that he wanted to take a break to see if he missed me and such. Throughout our whole relationship he was so loving to me and we've both cried over eachother a lot. He's being completely contradictive right now like after he said he wasn't in love with me anymore, a day later he said he still loves me just not as much as he used to. The other day he said in the really pleading voice..."lay with me before you leave baby..please?"..and he cried when he told me he didn't wanna be with me so what the hell is he thinking? I have no idea whether he's just lying to me or if he really wants to work it out in the future. I talked to one of our mutual friends and she said he's afraid to break up with me cause he doesn't wanna hurt me but a few people say that we've just spent too much time together and he needs a break to really feel the love again. We were with eachother almost every day for the past 6 months...I don't know. Someone help me. I know he's good at heart..he really is and I didn't want anyone thinking he was an asshole for what he said. (link)
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im sorry babe thats not a good situation. But i know how you feel.He is just a 16 year old boy and hell if us teens know what we want at that age anyways.so either he thoght he was in love with you, but he was really just lusting you, and now he doesnt wanna hurt you so he's kinda screwing with your heaD, or he may really not love you as much as he thought he did.That happend to me...my philosphy is you can never fall out of love with someone, you just learn to live without them. Mybe he, for one reason or another, is learning to live without you. Just give him space, and if its meant to be he'll def come back to you. But for the mean time dont let him hurt you. Just live your own life, and let him live his..and if your lives collide again, then let it happen. i hope i helped!!goodluck!!
P.s.-have fun with your open time now. get your mind off him, do things taht you wouldnt be able to do if you were spending all your time with him!Go have fun with the gurls!!!
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where is a good recipe website? (link)
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foodtv.com
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my friends say i talk about this kid i like way too much, and now that i think about it i kinda do. what can i do to stop? i mean i like him so much i can't get my mind off him. what can i do? (link)
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i had that happen to me a while ago. If you really like him then its not bad to show it...althoguh my freinds got kinda annoyed with me talking about it 24-7. so i just started writing stuff in a journal...saved their time and mine. I know how it feels to really like someone and not know how to handle it...so good luck, find a journal and write down how you feel about this kid...he might be someone special you never know. goodluck
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Hey well i am like having all these problems with my mom and i love her very much but she just yells at me sometimes for like nothing and im really freaked out because she gets me mad and depressed i feel like killing myself or like cutting myself!
signed
Depressed little gurl (link)
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damn, you dont have to take that kinda shit. Your her little girl she shouldnt treat you that way, let her know that. Tell her how she makes you feel, but do it camly and respecfully, and if she still doesnt treat you right, then talk to a counsolor about it maybe, and maybe they can help ya'll out. ..goodluck
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OK i want to throw a party at my house while my parents are gone. My house is too small so im thinking of using my grandmas house which is right next to mine. Does anyone have tips on how i can run this so i wont get caught...and ideas on what we can do at my party? (link)
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woudlnt do it at your grandparents house..cuz then if you get in trouble it will be with your rents and your grand rents, do it at your house, that way the party cant get too out of control...man just tell ppl your rents are outta town, and the party will come to you!!gOODLUCK Dont get in trouble, make sure you clean up real good, and leave no signs of a party, or they'll never leave you home alone again...
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this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K) (link)
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try being honest with the guy, you are who you are,and you cant take back stuff you've already done, so tell the guy the truth and see where that leads you...if he doesnt like you for things that you've done, well hes not worth your time...good luck
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I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you (link)
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ok i didnt completly understand that, but i will try my best..lol Ok so if you really dont like him smoking, let him know and if he wont cut down on it for you then hes not worth your time, and you just have to keep inviting him to do stuff...plan ahead so he cant get out of it on shortnotice. and the whole shy thing...thats kinda hard to get over...but you just have to come out of your shell be yourself and have fun, hopefully that will make things less akward wen ya'll are round each other. also for the fone, its hard to find things to talk about if you dont do it a lot, espeically with someone you dont no that well, just find soemthing you both have in common and talk a lil about that, ask him questions about his past, and just stupid lil questions that will help u be less shy around him in public.other then that he sounds like he likes you, so just be yourself and things should work out.goodluck let me know if i can help you out anymore.
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