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confused, very confused
i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not?
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Honestly, all giRls feel this way; it's only natuRal -- and it most ceRtainly does NOT make you a Lesbian. You can look -no haRm done in that; just don't staRe.. it's just Rude. Just don't woRRie about it; it's honestly no biggie! =D
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you are comparing yourself to them but its weird its kinda automatic
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If you like flirting with guys, and like girls your not a lesbian your a bisexual! at 14 girls sometimes get confused because of what different feelings they seem to get dont worry about it, if your not a bi or lesbian it will pass.
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It could just be a phase. Either that or you're bisexual (liking boys and girls)..
Good Luck =)
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My dear, there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian but it's something you have to fugure out for yourself.Sorry that's not real helpful I know. Don't worry about it you are young yet.Your feelings will become more clear as you get older.
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Well.. it's hard to say.. but I always look at girls! more at guys.. but when I look at girls I don't think of them as HOTT but more as of gorgeous.. like not in a lesbian wayy! I think you are probly getting confused with how you feel about girls..
Hope I helped!
Keep me updated
Dani3ll3
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ok think you may talk to guys but do you like girls for this question no one can help you but youself do you feel akward around guys it could be normal becuse of your still going through perberty ( im not trying to be mean ) and you feel closer to girls cause you have a lot of stuff in comman but you need to decide on your own
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Theres this new fad its called bieng Bi sexual...that way you dont have to choose...dont ask me anything about it.i totaly dont swing that way..but you might...goodluck
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That is sick.....just ask a guy out
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No one can actually tell you if you're a lesbian or not. It's not like, you can go into a doctor's office and get tested with ADD, you either have it or you're not. Sexuality is such a grey subject to begin with. You ask yourself. Constantly ask yourself questions, and soon enough, you'll find an answer. Just because you're "attracted" to girls doesn't mean you are a lesbian. At all. That's what everyone does. We DO check out our same sex. We compare ourselves. Know their assests. Anyone can find someone pretty, but would you like to do something beyond friendly with a girl...would you like to kiss a girl..would you like to do something more than that with a girl. I mean, those are the questions you have to wonder about, not "that you find a girl pretty."
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Believe it or not a lot of people go through that. They question their sexuality and such. I dont know if your a lesbian. It could be your just wondering about it, and looking girls "that way" just to see if your attracted. if you like guys too, you could be bi-sexual. For now, just do whatever but if your not thinking about girls like that in a few months..it was just a stage. You know?
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